The sexism connection is tenuous. Par for the course.<p>They're both wrong. Experiences are great and stuff is great if it's building on itself. Both of them are crap if they're just stuffing things into a bloated "misc" pile.<p>Like the author's example, if you're building a home, then the stuff is good. If you're just destroying money, then the stuff is bad. If you're building a personality by meeting foreign people, then the experiences are good. If you're just avoiding responsibility, then the experiences are bad.