I think there's an 'AND' piece missing from the headline (and maybe Paul's thinking, though from what I've heard about him I doubt it).<p>Just as "the best companies" have a big vision from the founders down AND are implementing lightweight, rapid iteration, so too people are looking for a number of lightweight conversations AND a depth of meaningful relationships online and offline.<p>5,000 Facebook friends doesn't replace socialising with your three best mates.