Hi HN:<p>My parents are in their 80s, living in a different country, and it's hard for me to make sure they're doing OK.<p>When I talk to them on the phone they always say "everything's alright, don't worry about us". But I'd like to know objectively how they're doing.<p>Has anyone else had this problem? What have you done about it?<p>Thanks
You don't mention which country your parents live in and whether there is any family or close friends who live close by. Building rapport with the local elderly care professionals and staying in touch with them might be an option.<p>The biggest stumbling block I have encountered is that the elderly are very unwilling to use any form of technology. Short of installing internet enabled security cameras you have limited options for keeping an eye on them.