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Ask HN: I quit my job. Need advice

22 pointsby rajeshmrabout 8 years ago
Dear HN&#x27;ers,<p>I have quit my job last week. I work in a typical MNC and the corporate culture just took the soul out of me and i decided i got to take a decision to take back control of my life. There was simply no plan B for me. I decided its now or never.<p>What 8 years of IT experience has shown me is that you are constantly thrown at the hottest problem &#x2F; issue and asked to resolve them. Rarely did i feel the sense of accomplishment and i didn&#x27;t feel that under such pressure to deliver there was any scope for mastery of a subject. Everyone has just 24 hours in a day, and all the time was taken up by the job + commute + daily grind. Not complaining as such, but i had to face the truth.<p>Shallow work was prevalent everywhere, and no scope for solid work. It left a void in me, and i crave fulfillment.<p>What i wish to do is instead search for work instead of a job (i deliberately differentiate here). Currently i can manage to stay afloat for 3 months with the savings i have. So any guidance on how i could make this time fruitful would be highly appreciated and i would be thankful. I would also appreciate any guidance on how to design my career and work life so i wouldn&#x27;t find myself facing this again.<p>i have worked on linux (have basic sysadmin skills) + shell + perl + python ( actively learning currently ).<p>PS : I have self-taught all i know about development.

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mindcrimeabout 8 years ago
My advice (which I&#x27;m sure some others will disagree with) is this:<p>Don&#x27;t look to your job for any kind of fulfillment or satisfaction, unless your job is your own company and you&#x27;re doing something you&#x27;re passionate about. Otherwise, be a complete mercenary and treat your job as nothing more than a way to keep the rent paid, the lights on, and food on the table. Then find ways to achieve fulfillment or whatever it is you&#x27;re looking for, outside of work.<p>Maybe that means volunteering at a soup kitchen, maybe it means working on a startup as a side project, or maybe it means playing video games every hour you&#x27;re not at work. Whatever, it&#x27;s up to you. The point is, take control of finding whatever meaning it is you want to find in life, and don&#x27;t let it be all commingled with your job.<p>Ultimately you may decide you don&#x27;t even want a &quot;normal job&quot; at all. Maybe you will decide to freelance. Maybe you&#x27;re meant to be an entrepreneur and run some kind of business, or possibly multiple businesses. Maybe you want to go all Tim Ferris &quot;four hour work week&quot; and move to Thailand or something. One thing that will help you maintain maximum flexibility is to avoid things like a mortgage payment, car payment, etc. If you already have those things then you&#x27;ll have to deal with them, but if you don&#x27;t, consider <i>not</i> buying a new car, or a house, etc. until you have things figured out. It&#x27;ll be easier to up and move, or make other dramatic changes without those encumbrances.<p>Some people will say to choose startups over a big MNC, but I find that startups can be worse in many ways (again, unless it&#x27;s <i>your own</i> startup). Work hours may be more demanding, there may be more stress, etc... OTOH, if you accept my position about being very mercenary towards work, you can often find a boring position at a stodgy large company, where you can &quot;punch the clock&quot; for pretty much exactly 40 hours a week, do relatively boring &#x2F; undemanding work, get paid a decent salary, and - most importantly - reserve as much of your energy (mental, psychic, spiritual, or whatever you want to call it) for your own initiatives outside of work.
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taway_1212about 8 years ago
I agree about your assesment of programming jobs. We are mostly replaceable cogs and means to an end. We&#x27;re only getting paid so much because this job is so unpleasant and most people would rather make 2-3x less than learn to program and spend most of their life sitting in front of a screen going through code bases.<p>My personal answer to that was to start learning to draw. Getting from zero art skills to professional artist is a super-long journey (at least 5-10 years from what I&#x27;m reading), but at least it gives me hope.
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jason_slackabout 8 years ago
About 7 years ago, I had a technology job that was sucking the life out of me. I started to push back and they fired me. This was good because I could get unemployment.<p>I spent 6 months on unemployment looking for jobs that I would care about and something that would let me lead a less stressful life.<p>After the unemployment ran out I started working at a Starbucks.<p>This was a life saver.<p>It was fast paced. They were always changing some process. It taught me to be flexible and roll with whatever. I got to talk with customers everyday. I could be making coffee and look down the whole line of people, out the door, and know each and every drink to make. I worked hard, but it was fun.<p>A customer that I would see daily offered me a job after a year at Starbucks. I still have this job. It has allowed me to move to a happier state where I live on a lake and life isn&#x27;t so faced paced.
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dbruntonabout 8 years ago
Do something completely different, and start immediately. Maybe it&#x27;s working in a coffee shop, maybe it&#x27;s laboring on a farm, maybe it&#x27;s teaching a pottery class or bagging groceries. But it&#x27;s something that provides some amount of income, and it provides you a needed break from development.<p>I promise you&#x27;ll think more clearly about it once you&#x27;ve done this. Don&#x27;t plan your next step after this second one (the first being, y&#x27;know, quitting). After step two, step three will come to you.
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alando46about 8 years ago
Hey great job and congratulations on making the leap! Sometimes it can be hard and scary to know what the right path is, but usually the first step is making a change to get off of the wrong path. Step 1 complete!<p>I&#x27;d consider taking a short break from programming if I were you. Why not get a temporary job as a river guide or something outdoors? Maybe go on a long backpacking trip or do some other kind of adventure. After getting crushed by years of corporate culture, I&#x27;m sure your soul could use a little fun and adventure to reinvigorate and recharge itself! In my experience, (I&#x27;m a software engineer engineer) the perspective gained from taking a temporary break and trying something completely different (that maybe puts you a little out of your comfort zone) can drastically improve overall confidence&#x2F;happiness&#x2F;wellbeing much more than any minor resume addition. Take a moment to emotionally regroup before you charge back into career life!<p>Seek adventure!
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JSeymourATLabout 8 years ago
&gt; any guidance on how to design my career and work life...<p>You might find of interest this recent book on Designing Your Life by two Stanford professors-<p>Here&#x27;s a podcast interview with the authors, to give you a flavor of what it&#x27;s about &gt; <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;thedianerehmshow.org&#x2F;shows&#x2F;2016-10-03&#x2F;using-design-theory-to-build-a-better-life" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;thedianerehmshow.org&#x2F;shows&#x2F;2016-10-03&#x2F;using-design-th...</a><p>Also, NY Times review &gt; <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.nytimes.com&#x2F;2016&#x2F;09&#x2F;18&#x2F;fashion&#x2F;design-thinking-stanford-silicon-valley.html?_r=0" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.nytimes.com&#x2F;2016&#x2F;09&#x2F;18&#x2F;fashion&#x2F;design-thinking-s...</a><p>And - Goodreads reviews here &gt; <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;26046333-designing-your-life" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;26046333-designing-your-l...</a>
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ak39about 8 years ago
Job and other tips I learned the hard way (still making some mistakes):<p>Rule #1: Negotiate from a position of strength.<p>Fact #1: We tend to negotiate badly when we are desperate. Human nature.<p>Fact #2: Desperation is a state of mind. You can really be in dire circumstances but keep a calm mind. This can be learned. I know stoic folks who are cool as ice when negotiating at the precipice of existence! Super men! (This is where I fail many times.)<p>Fact #3: (Certainly my experience) When we quit one job summarily without alternative options already lined up, we are likely to create a desperate mindset. It creeps into our attitude and plants the seeds for exploitation. Avoid this as a rule no matter how shitty things get. Plan B first, then quit.<p>My advice to you is find another job but don&#x27;t expect it to be better. Plan your Plan B while there.<p>Best of luck, bro&#x2F;sis. Employers can be ruthless sometimes.<p>I would take some time during the next job seeking stage to do stuff I like. Travel? Perspective comes with distance.
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fooledrandabout 8 years ago
Won&#x27;t you be serving notice period for 2 months? For the satisfaction you are looking for, it will come from deep knowledge of a specific topic. If you are say interested in Data Analytics look for companies in data analytics, read their job description and skill set they require. Approach them (works best if you know someone to refer you) demonstrate the skills you have through some project. The project need not be perfect but should reflect the maturity of its age.
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sharemywinabout 8 years ago
get into some online class now that you have the time.<p>start putting your resume out as soon as you can. start finding a away to cut expenses and build more runway next time.<p>maybe look into something closer and&#x2F;or a startup which is more fires and chaos at 75% of the pay but has an easier line of sight to &quot;changing the world&quot;
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everybodyknowsabout 8 years ago
Python is a great language, but three months isn&#x27;t much time to become proficient and find work. You&#x27;ll need to hit it hard. One way to build your resume would be to find a Python-based project on github, and submit a bug fix. Good luck!
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rajeshmrabout 8 years ago
Thanks to all of you for taking your time off to advice. I really appreciate it. I hope things would turn out to be ok.<p>Please keep in touch.