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Ask HN: Which non-technology book has influenced you the most and why?

375 pointsby fernandohurabout 8 years ago
Rules: 1. Only one book. 2. Can't be a technical book e.g. 'Programming C' doesn't count.

161 comments

epagaabout 8 years ago
The Gospel of John.<p>A palpable sense of mystery is maintained from start to finish, but it arguably does better than any other book in the Bible at giving a deep look into the person of Jesus as he was seen and believed in by the early church. Additionally, there is a subtle sense of humor as the gospel author clearly enjoyed language and word plays and describes multiple misunderstandings that occur because of the ambiguity of language.<p>Probably more than any other book, this book has shaped me on a personal level.<p>(If you&#x27;re going to read it, I highly recommend a modern translation such as the ESV, NKJV, or HCSB.)
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pklauslerabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Selfish Gene&quot; by Richard Dawkins. It describes biology from the perspective of the <i>gene</i> as the unit of natural selection, rather than the organism or the species, and demonstrates the power of that perspective to explain much about the natural world. But then, the author generalizes the concept of a gene to that of the <i>replicator</i>, which is any kind of pattern that influences its environment to produce copies of the pattern. (As an example, the author invents the concept of a <i>meme</i>, being a unit of culture that uses brains to spread itself across a culture.) This (the replicator) is the mind-blowing concept that I&#x27;m still thinking about 35 years after I first read this marvelous little book. Organisms and people and species and cultures are ephemeral side-effects of mindlessly self-replicating patterns. You&#x27;ll never look at the world the same way after reading this one!
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randcrawabout 8 years ago
&quot;Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance&quot; by Robert Pirsig. While it&#x27;s also a tale of travel and self-exploration (the rediscovery of identity after a nervous breakdown and shock therapy), mostly the book is about thinking. I was a different person after identifying with the narrator who <i>also</i> lived in the mind, and asked questions about basic concepts like &#x27;quality&#x27;, or qualia of events, objects, roles, and the subjective&#x2F;objective values they embody or we impart on them. A watershed book for me.
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thedevilabout 8 years ago
I&#x27;ve got a tie between two books:<p>1) Design of Everyday Things by Dan Norman<p>This book ruined my life. I highly recommend it. Every engineer, manager and designer should read this. Maybe every human. I think of this book every time I try to pull a push door, every time I reach the bottom floor of a stairwell and notice the design that might save my life one day, and every time I try to struggle to operate a television or a microwave.<p>2) Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini<p>This book helped me understand myself and everyone else. For example, I now understand why I double down on dumb ideas. I also catch a lot more marketing and sales tricks.<p>Edit: Sorry, just now realized that I broke the 1-book rule, but it&#x27;s probably too late to correct this and it&#x27;s really hard to choose between these two anyway.
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kabdibabout 8 years ago
&quot;Gödel, Escher, Bach&quot; by Douglas Hofstadter, which I read when I was 17. I was just getting into serious programming (I would learn C later that year). I had only an inkling about things like recursion, had little appreciation for music outside of Pink Floyd, and lacked any kind of spiritual philosophy that didn&#x27;t end in simple atheism or nonsense that I stole from science fiction paperbacks.<p>GEB got me wondering about a lot of things, and showed me how hard science and engineering and art can coexist. It&#x27;s not a perfect book -- frankly, I find it rather dull reading now -- but it was an eye-opener when I was just starting out.
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iceyabout 8 years ago
Meditations, originally written by Marcus Aurelius, but translated many times over. More as an introduction to stoicism; choosing the translation that works best for you is ideal. Hays and Hicks translations are most often recommended but if you can peek inside the book to see what language resonates the best with you.<p>Stoicism helped me build the ability to care about the things in my power to change, and not stress about things that aren&#x27;t. Very useful in any job or personal situation that includes a lot of ambient stress.
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hollanderabout 8 years ago
The Four Agreements by Don Ruiz. It&#x27;s a short and simple book about four rules of life which you can use anywhere.<p>1. Be impeccable with your word. You can read this as &quot;don&#x27;t swear&quot;, but it&#x27;s not about that. It is about the constant and continuing things we say to ourselves that make us feel bad. We don&#x27;t even know we do this. And it&#x27;s not about big things, it&#x27;s about the thousands of small reprimands we give ourselves that hold us back living our life.<p>2. Don&#x27;t take anything personally. When someone else says something to you, good or bad, it shows how they feel. What they say is about them, what they think is important, what is relevant for them. It&#x27;s not about you. This doesn&#x27;t mean that you can ignore it, but it shines another light on things other people say about you, or about others to you. This applies to &quot;good things&quot; as well. If someone gives you a compliment, it tells something about them. And of course it works as well for the things you say or do - they tell something about you.<p>3. Don&#x27;t make assumptions. Don&#x27;t think you know what other people think, or that you know why they do the things they do.<p>4. Do your best. You can&#x27;t always live your life following rules. Do your best, and if you break a rule, bad luck, next time better! That means that you can forgive yourself. And it means that you should not give up after a big fuck up. Or a small fuck up, or many fuck ups. You can start over again at any moment.<p>The book is much better at explaining. It&#x27;s about 60 pages, worth the effort.
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1ba9115454about 8 years ago
How to win friends and influence people.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influen...</a><p>I have to keep reminded myself to apply the rules, but very sound advice.
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adgasfabout 8 years ago
There are many, but one is The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. I read it as a child, and it was the first time I thought about logical thinking.<p>Here is the section:<p>“Logic!&quot; said the Professor half to himself. &quot;Why don&#x27;t they teach logic at these schools? There are only three possibilities. Either your sister is telling lies, or she is mad, or she is telling the truth. You know she doesn&#x27;t tell lies and it is obvious that she is not mad. For the moment then and unless any further evidence turns up, we must assume that she is telling the truth. ”<p>What I didn&#x27;t realize at the time was that Lewis was pushing his theistic argument: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Lewis%27s_trilemma" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Lewis%27s_trilemma</a><p>I don&#x27;t think that detracts from it, however.
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tyurokabout 8 years ago
Antifragile - Nassim Nicholas Taleb<p>He puts into words concepts of life so close to us yet so foreign sounding that makes us rethink everything in our lives.<p>When you ask people &quot;What is the opposite of fragile&quot;, they usually answer robust, which Taleb proves to be incorrect by introducing a new concept, the Antifragilty. It entangles so many things in economic, academic, science, finances and other systems with several tales from the past revisited with a new lens.
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inerteabout 8 years ago
The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America&#x27;s Wealthy.<p>We know the &quot;rich&quot;, people who spent $10M on a Yacht as a parking space for their 1M private jet which they use as a cellar for their $10k wines.<p>And we think millionaires are like that but on a smaller scale. ACTUALLY... most folks who have $1M liquid are hard working, cheap, frugal (still cutting coupons from ads). The reason why this book is so good is not only because it shatters the perception about how millionaires live, but if you take the description of their lifestyles as a lesson, it will make you manage your money better.<p>Most people in the US have tons of debt, don&#x27;t have $500 to use for an unplanned spending. Probably this forum full of well-paid high-tech professionals less so, but still, the principles are all the same. In fact, there are parts of the book talking about how big earners also spend big (and fast), so it&#x27;s a good reminder of how not spending money is as good as earning it, and also usually easier to do.
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mtreis86about 8 years ago
Man&#x27;s Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl<p>The book was written by a psychologist who survived the Holocaust camps. The paragraph that always sticks with me goes something like &quot;for sure, the best amongst us never left the camps - they (the guards) would need to pick (kill) a dozen people, and the best wouldn&#x27;t let it be their friends or family, even if it meant their own death.&quot;
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simonbarker87about 8 years ago
Sapiens - there&#x27;s a section in there about how everything (well, most) in our world is essentially a figment of our collective imaginations that enough of us believe is true and as such it is reality. If enough people (like everybody) decided tomorrow that every company&#x27;s articles of incorporation actually don&#x27;t count then companies as we know them could simply cease to exist since the documents that make them exist only have meaning in our collective imaginations.<p>Once I accepted this everything became a lot more fun, arguments about politics&#x2F;religion etc are enjoyable as you realise that no one is fundamentally right.<p>Also, the explanation of fractional reserve banking and how debt came to be a thing was like the matrix being revealed.<p>Good book, highly recommend it.
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kemiller2002about 8 years ago
1984. I read this when I was around 13. It profoundly changed how I view the government and technology. It gave me a strong respect for what a government can do, and how our reality is not just our naked perception, but it is what others want us to perceive.
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Spooky23about 8 years ago
&quot;The Power Broker&quot; by Robert Caro.<p>Nobody has ever captured the nature of power on an individual level to the depth and breadth that Caro did on this book. (except perhaps his epic treatment of Lyndon Johnson)<p>Over something like 1,100 pages you get to track the career of an aspiring reformer as he transitions to skilled and trusted government official, to someone who manages to grow to the point that he is more powerful than the Governor and Mayor of New York during NY&#x27;s economic peak -- despite never having been elected to anything. Then you get to witness his decline and ultimate fall.<p>This is probably the best biography ever written. It may take you six months to read, but its time well spent.
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thewhitetulipabout 8 years ago
Sapiens by Yuri Harari<p>The book is simple mind blowing. It seems as if the entire history of homo sapiens which we learned in school was wrong. There was no slow progression, homo Sapiens and Neanderthals existed in the same time as did many ither species like homo erectus, but the perished before Sapiens.<p>It seems that our ability to form fictional entities (like money, state, society, country, religion etc) made us superior to other species. It seems that the basic ability to gossip helped us beat other species!<p>Completely mind blowing.
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VLMabout 8 years ago
You can buy Lord of the Rings as a single bound hardcover roughly 1200 pages. The paper is thin, its only about 2 inches thick. I&#x27;m thinking of the 50th anniversary edition. In terms of total amount of lifetime &quot;wasted&quot; playing DnD&#x2F;Pathfinder and derivatives offline, plus infinite hours of computer fantasy RPGs plus perhaps the whole concept of RPGs in general, it probably has the largest impact in terms of hours spent thinking about the concept.<p>I can&#x27;t provide a specific link but something only 70s&#x2F;80s kids will understand is when I was about five and I finished reading every Tom Swift book ever written (as of that decade, anyway) I spent most of a week reading an entire single volume encyclopedia, trying to figure out how it all works together, or not. Before wikipedia, before &quot;multimedia cdrom&quot; encyclopedia, there were multi volume collections and large single volume collections. I&#x27;ll push the limit and claim reading an encyclopedia entry about Kant or Impressionism or Bach or the american civil war isn&#x27;t technical in the sense of &quot;programming C&quot; is technical. I admit there were technical articles in the book. It was weird reading a 60s liberal arts article about computers when I had an early TRS-80 home computer on my dad&#x27;s desk.
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jMylesabout 8 years ago
I can&#x27;t immediately find it right now, but if memory serves, the last time this came up, &quot;The Hitchhiker&#x27;s Guide to the Galaxy&quot; and &quot;Stranger in a Strange Land&quot; seemed to be the strongest answers.<p>I have since read, enjoyed, and been influenced by both.<p>Neither are properly regarded as &quot;non-technology,&quot; but I think from your point 2 it&#x27;s clear that you are just looking to exclude training manual type texts.<p><i>Hitchhiker&#x27;s</i> in particular imparts a lot of great advice for creativity in technical fields, and software in particular, but does it using a fictionalized world with comedic logical oddities.<p>Another book I&#x27;ll add, which has some of these properties, is &quot;Jitterbug Perfume&quot; by Tom Robbins (although take note that this book is highly erotic and explicit).
noir_lordabout 8 years ago
Not a single book but the Discworld series of books by Sir Terry Pratchett.<p>In particular the Watch sub-series.<p>I grew up reading them from the late 80&#x27;s on-wards and I actually can&#x27;t separate my worldview from them anymore, his outlook on life became my outlook on life.<p>Hope, Cynicism, politics, mortality (Death is a literal character), practicality and absurdity all feature in the series strongly.<p>Some of my favourite quotes<p>&gt; Logic is a wonderful thing but doesn&#x27;t always beat actual thought. (The Last Continent).<p>&gt; Genius is always allowed some leeway, once the hammer has been pried from its hands and the blood has been cleaned up. (Thief of Time).<p>&gt; I believe in freedom, Mr. Lipwig. Not many people do, although they will, of course, protest otherwise. And no practical definition of freedom would be complete without the freedom to take the consequences. Indeed, it is the freedom upon which all the others are based. (Lord Vetinari - Going Postal).<p>&gt; What sort of man would put a known criminal in charge of a major branch of government? Apart from, say, the average voter.<p>&gt; Technically, the city of Ankh-Morpork is a Tyranny, which is not always the same thing as a monarchy, and in fact even the post of Tyrant has been somewhat redefined by the incumbent, Lord Vetinari, as the only form of democracy that works. Everyone is entitled to vote, unless disqualified by reason of age or not being Lord Vetinari. And yet it does work. This has annoyed a number of people who feel, somehow, that it should not, and who want a monarch instead, thus replacing a man who has achieved his position by cunning, a deep understanding of the realities of the human psyche, breathtaking diplomacy, a certain prowess with the stiletto dagger, and, all agree, a mind like a perfectly balanced circular saw, with a man who has got there by being born… A third proposition, that the city be governed by a choice of respectable members of the community who would promise not to give themselves airs or betray the public trust at every turn, was instantly the subject of music-hall jokes all over the city.
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Tarrosionabout 8 years ago
The Better Angels of our Nature by Steven Pinker.<p>It&#x27;s a history of macro trends in violence - wars, homicide, rape, etc. The burden of violence in the modern world is much, much lower than it was historically, even fairly recently.<p>The book catches a lot of flak from people who reject the claim that the future will automatically be more peaceful than the past. I think this is poor criticism because that&#x27;s not what the book says; it is explicitly a descriptive history and not predictive.<p>I love this book because it presents remarkable evidence from multiple fields that the world has gotten profoundly better (at least, regarding violence). The realization that the world can improve and has improved is...liberating? Surprisingly many people don&#x27;t believe this, though I expect on HN belief in progress is not uncommon.<p>Having such evidence that the world has improved so much is powerful motivation to try to continue - you know it&#x27;s possible. It&#x27;s the antidote to incorrect zero-sum thinking, which is not just damaging but also wrong. And perhaps it&#x27;s a moral call to action: our grandparents&#x27; and parents&#x27; generations left us a world which is much more peaceful than the one they were born into. Do we not owe future generations the same gift?
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sharkweekabout 8 years ago
Infinite Jest - it&#x27;s just such an absurd book, and arguably way too long, but it&#x27;s the funniest&#x2F;saddest thing I&#x27;ve ever read. There are some passages that absolutely shook me.<p>This section is one of my favorites, about things he learned in a halfway home: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;quotes&#x2F;966304-if-by-the-virtue-of-charity-or-the-circumstance-of" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;quotes&#x2F;966304-if-by-the-virtue-of-...</a>
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ericskiffabout 8 years ago
Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.audible.com&#x2F;pd&#x2F;Business&#x2F;Never-Split-the-Difference-Audiobook&#x2F;B01CF5O89G" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.audible.com&#x2F;pd&#x2F;Business&#x2F;Never-Split-the-Differenc...</a><p>As someone who never wanted to read negotiation books because I was worried I would try to &quot;win&quot; all the time, I can&#x27;t tell you how much this book changed my way of thinking. It&#x27;s affected how I deal with my kids, how I seek resolution in confrontations, and how I listen to people in general.<p>For anyone with empathy as a strong facet of your personality, I highly recommend reading this book. It&#x27;s also a fun read, with each chapter&#x27;s lesson following the events of a hostage negotiation that the author took part in as his role at the FBI.
Findetonabout 8 years ago
Me thinking: please don&#x27;t say the Bible, please don&#x27;t say the Bible!<p>The Bible.<p>Because when I was young and I tried reading it I realized that even though millions and millions of perfectly functioning adults believe in something, it might be absolutely wrong or based on basically nothing.
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LyndsySimonabout 8 years ago
Stranger in a Strange Land, Robert Heinlein<p>There were many other books that influenced me, but the concept of a &quot;Fair Witness&quot; stuck with me - specifically, the idea that one should be aware of what is known versus what is inferred.<p>&gt; Fair Witnesses are prohibited from drawing conclusions about what they observe. As a demonstration, Harshaw asks Anne to describe the color of a house in the distance. She responds, &quot;It&#x27;s white on this side&quot;. Harshaw explains that she would not assume knowledge of the color of the other sides of the house without being able to see them. Furthermore, after observing another side of the house would not then assume that any previously seen side was still the same color as last reported, even if only minutes before.
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carsongrossabout 8 years ago
&#x27;Orthodoxy&#x27; by G.K. Chesterton, because it shocked me out of self-absorbed materialist nihilism.<p><i>“Fairy tales say that apples were golden only to refresh the forgotten moment when we found that they were green. They make rivers run with wine only to make us remember, for one wild moment, that they run with water.” </i>
mconeabout 8 years ago
The Fifth Discipline by Peter Senge, a professor at MIT.<p>Some might call it a business book. It focuses primarily on teaching readers to use &quot;systems thinking&quot; to turn companies into learning organizations that respond and adapt to change. That&#x27;s useful advice to those in management positions, but I have to be honest and confess that the chapter on personal mastery changed my life in a big way. It put into words something that I had been thinking and feeling for a long time: namely, that we have the power to change the systems that influence us.
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ud0about 8 years ago
Think and Grow Rich.<p>It totally turned my life around, no I didn&#x27;t get a ton of money but it completely shifted my mentality, changed the way I saw the world, opened my eyes.<p>The strongest lesson the book had on me was that it made me realize that a man if he is willing can change his life, change what he doesn&#x27;t like about his life and make it right. I just finished high-school when a family friend gave the book to me.<p>I learned about goals, how to set goals, it gave me the audacity to dream big, I learned that the man can influence the mind which influences matter.<p>I just started learning to code at the time, fast-forward seven years later, a kid from a humble background living in the lower-middle-class Africa who couldn&#x27;t afford a laptop had no access to stable electricity and could not even afford to pay for internet connection, is now a Software Engineer in a big Co. in Europe.<p>With all those challenges and even more faced by a poor African, I was able to scale through, motivation and drive that was ignited over 8 years ago still burning strong.
rcarmoabout 8 years ago
Definitely the Hitch-Hiker&#x27;s Guide to The Galaxy.<p>I only read the rest of the series years later, but Douglas Adams&#x27; humour had a (very) lasting impression on me, and inspired me to write (and communicate, to this day) using a similar kind of humor and lateral thinking - because if you&#x27;re not having _some_ fun, then you&#x27;re not really accomplishing anything...
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arcanusabout 8 years ago
The Foundation, by Isaac Asimov.<p>Great sci-fi, but also cast science and technology in a way that made me realize it could enable or destroy civilization.<p>Introduced me to the concept that we can approach modeling and predicting human behavior with mathematics.<p>Very instrumental in pushing me towards hard sciences and computer modeling.
aakash58about 8 years ago
Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse.<p>The restlessness and questioning (epitomized when he leaves Buddha) that results in a fascinating journey of self-discovery and openness to experiences has been inspirational.
f1gm3ntabout 8 years ago
Atlas Shrugged<p>A book I revisit every few years. It&#x27;s taught me to be honest with myself even if the social norms aren&#x27;t in alignment with I&#x27;m doing.<p>It&#x27;s also gave me a deeper understanding of my fellow man and why some are fine with handouts from others.<p>It&#x27;s also where I learned the $ symbol is made from the U and S from United States.
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cponeillabout 8 years ago
The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;War-Art-Through-Creative-Battles&#x2F;dp&#x2F;1936891026" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;War-Art-Through-Creative-Battles&#x2F;dp&#x2F;1...</a><p>I have re-read this book constantly since purchasing it well over 10 years ago. The chapters on facing resistance and how to deal with it constantly resonate with me when working on my own projects.
mvindahlabout 8 years ago
&quot;Guns, Germs, and Steel&quot; by Jared Diamond. When I read it in the late 90s, I had already read complete accounts of world history and thought myself well-informed on the topic, yet virtually every chapter blew my mind.<p>The book is about the patterns that drive human history, both the written history that we know and the vast period of prehistory which we have a pretty good idea about these days due to genetics and linguistics. A recurring pattern has been people moving around, displacing less fortunate people. Further, Diamond looks for root causes to explain why some tribes or nations would gain an edge over their neigbours, and a lot of the explanation is ultimately found in technology and animal farming.<p>Before I read &quot;Guns, Germs, and Steel&quot;, I had been under the impression that the world was a fairly static and ecologically stable place until the European age of discovery started uprooting everything. In reality it was nothing like that. Almost every strip of land is inhabited be people whose ancestors fought off other people, and cultures expanding beyond ecological sustainability and suddenly collapsing is a common event.<p>Runner-up: anything by Hunter S Thompson
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bshimminabout 8 years ago
<i>American Psycho</i>, Bret Easton Ellis. I learnt everything I know about fashion and business cards from this important book.
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CalChrisabout 8 years ago
<i>My 60 Memorable Games</i> by Robert James Fischer.<p>I worked through the whole book, tore it to shreds. Bought another copy recently (English notation, please). I was in a bookstore the other night (Moe&#x27;s) and saw Botvinnik&#x27;s Gruenfeld book and I just had to look up his notes on the <i>Botvinnik v Fischer</i> game. It was exactly as Fischer quoted it in his side by side commentary; I remembered it from memory. Botvinnik mentions a student of his, Kasparov, finding a new analysis.<p>Fischer went nuts, completely racist conspiratorial Alex Jones nuts. But MSMG has a clarity of thought that will always be his hallmark. The brutal objectivity. If only he&#x27;d applied it to himself.<p>I suppose this book gave me an appreciation of really low level thinking and how far you can go. Yes, the computer era hasn&#x27;t been completely kind to Fischer. But that&#x27;s like comparing Haswell to the 6600. I use Haswell but I still learned things from the 6600.<p>Well, that and <i>1984</i>.
SwellJoeabout 8 years ago
Animal Liberation by Peter Singer.<p>I read it over 20 years ago. I&#x27;ve been a vegetarian&#x2F;vegan ever since. There were probably other things I read or saw that contributed to the decision, but that was, I think, the primary catalyst.
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emidlnabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Collected Works of Ralph Waldo Emerson&quot;<p>I found this book (or a very similar collection of Emerson&#x27;s works) bound in a small red hardcover the fall of my freshman year at a catholic high school. The essays &quot;Self-Reliance&quot; and the &quot;Divinity School Address&quot; were both important. &quot;Self-Reliance&quot; provided fuel to sit in a room of antique x86 parts to follow the blueprint that ESR&#x27;s &quot;Hacker Howto&quot; laid out (install and learn FreeBSD; learn Python, Perl, C, Lisp; write software). &quot;Divinity School Address&quot; started me away from Catholicism.
convexfunctionabout 8 years ago
The Timeless Way of Building by Christopher Alexander.<p>He&#x27;s an architect&#x2F;philosopher who coined the term &quot;design patterns&quot;. Beautiful book, got me thinking very hard about how to create artifacts and environments that make the people who interact with them happy.
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jyriandabout 8 years ago
&quot;Prometheus Rising&quot; by Robert Anton Wilson.<p>This is the book that tied together lot of things that I was wondering about previously and it opened up few doors into new mazes of research that I&#x27;m still trying to traverse.<p>Also, started reading books that he suggested:<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.rawilson.com&#x2F;bookstore.html#rec" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.rawilson.com&#x2F;bookstore.html#rec</a><p>Edit: Added Wilson&#x27;s suggested reading list
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johngossmanabout 8 years ago
Lord of the Rings. I read a lot, so it is hard to pick any single book as most influential. LotR is not the first nor the best book I ever read (though I do love it). It has limited real life applicability. LotR is influential for me because I read it when I was 11 and it was the one that got me hooked on reading, which has been a huge part of my life ever since.
vinayan3about 8 years ago
Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse<p>The main character Siddhartha experiences many different lives in search of true enlightenment. The book is so well written and way certain things are described are incredible.
erikpukinskisabout 8 years ago
The Disposessed, by Ursula K. Leguin.<p>Before I read it, I thought capitalism was the only way to organize people and resources on a broad scale. I couldn&#x27;t imagine anything else working particularly well, and I thought anarchists were people who want to break things and cause chaos.<p>The Disposessed showed me how anarcho-syndicalism actually works, and gave me a framework for understanding its benefits and challenges and why it hasn&#x27;t taken off broadly yet. My whole life is more or less oriented around those ideas now.
arethuzaabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Demon-Haunted World&quot;<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;The_Demon-Haunted_World" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;The_Demon-Haunted_World</a><p>Sagan at his most passionate awesome best.
kwhitefootabout 8 years ago
Impossible to pick just one because they are all intertwined.<p>But consider Primo Levi&#x27;s Periodic Table even if only for the flash of insight regarding onions.<p>Ever after reading it I see onions everywhere but most people seem unable to see them even after I point them out.<p>There is an HN comment on the subject: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=9746723" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=9746723</a>
jonstewartabout 8 years ago
The Winter of Our Discontent by John Steinbeck. There are probably better novels that I liked more, although this one is good and I liked it and it&#x27;s kind of silly to pair off great works of literature Highlander-style, but I think this one has the most to say about a person&#x27;s own approach to American capitalism and morality, and therefore has had more of an impact on me day-to-day.
falsedanabout 8 years ago
<i>Neuromancer</i> was the first book to get me really excited about the future and how computers would change our lives.
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poklerabout 8 years ago
Understanding Power by Noam Chomsky. I knew the United States was complicit in some nefarious things, both domestic and abroad, but wow, that book really blew my hair back.
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macca321about 8 years ago
Catch 22. I use Yossarian&#x27;s behaviour to justify my own.
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AngeloAnolinabout 8 years ago
The Little Prince<p>Always have had a profound impact on how I view and understand things.<p>Read it with an open mind like a child and see the wonders.
MithrilTuxedoabout 8 years ago
<i>The Myth of Sisyphus</i> by Albert Camus<p>Back in college I had that spinning around in my head along with a computer science foundations course (automata, computability, complexity, Turing completeness) and a bunch of AI&#x2F;AL light reading that was already rather dated. Kitzmiller v. Dover was being covered all over Slashdot and here I was looking at all these examples <i>from the 80s</i> of complex emergent behaviour evolving from simple rules applied to randomness and then simulated over time in computers.<p>Something clicked in my head and everything made as much sense as it needed to. Life, the Universe, everything. I started to think of the sciences as being just a continuum of studies that describe behaviour at increasingly higher levels of abstraction: math -&gt; physics -&gt; chemistry -&gt; biology -&gt; psychology -&gt; sociology.<p>Computers made life without specific reason or meaning demonstrable. Camus made life without specific reason or meaning acceptable.
brogrammernotabout 8 years ago
The Inner Game of Tennis.<p>My tennis coach gave me his copy, from the mid 80s, which was tattered and had clearly been read many, many times.<p>It taught me so much about life, and how to be successful.<p>My tennis coach was also my life coach when I reflect back on those days. He grew up in south central LA, rode his bike to the closest tennis courts and sometimes as far as Beverly Hills. He&#x27;d wait outside the courts until someone came along and ask if he could play.<p>He turned that into a full ride scholarship for tennis, became a senior level member of a huge telecom and then left to coach tennis to give back to the sport that gave him so much. He credited this book for teaching him how to focus on the important elements in life and most of all, the grit required to succeed.<p>Anyways, it&#x27;s a great read. I haven&#x27;t read the revised edition but I&#x27;m sure it&#x27;s just as compelling.
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thomasreggiabout 8 years ago
The Autobiography of Malcolm X<p>It&#x27;s a deep dive in understanding and empathizing with another human being, and reflecting and finding the things one is grateful for in their own life.
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brudgersabout 8 years ago
<i>Bhagavad Gītā</i> [0]<p>Miami&#x27;s airport, Autumn 1983, a shave head Krishna pushes a copy into my hand on the concourse. Says he wants me to have it. Then asks for money. Here&#x27;s a five. Most people give twenty. Still have the book. Still cheap.<p>Began my intellectual interest in religion. I&#x27;ve come to think of religion as just another way of explaining the world alongside storytelling and science.<p>[0] <i>: as it is (abridged edition)</i>
kevlar1818about 8 years ago
Think Like a Freak by Steven Levitt, Stephen Dubner (authors of Freakonomics) was a recent read that I liked a lot. It distills much of their economic thinking into a collection of meaningful practices. You could read it in a day.
pagutierreznabout 8 years ago
1- The Prince by Niccolo Machiavelli. Specially the edition commented by Napoleon Buonaparte.<p>2-Diffusion of Innovations by Everett M. Rogers. This book makes &quot;Crossing the chasm&quot; a simplistic introduction for laggards<p>3-The Art of War by Sun Tzu<p>4-If Nature Is the Answer, What Was the Question? By Jorge Wagensberg<p>5-Sacred hoops by Phil Jackson<p>6-Fear from freedom by Erich Fromm<p>7-Michelangelo biography of a genious<p>8-Blindness by Jose Saramago<p>9-On writing by Stephen King
eli_gottliebabout 8 years ago
The <i>Manifesto of the Communist Party</i>. It&#x27;s not that it&#x27;s greatly-written, or that everything in it is right. It just manages to achieve the feeling that, truly, &quot;another world is possible.&quot;
s_kilkabout 8 years ago
I think the &quot;His Dark Materials&quot; series by Philip Pullman had the greatest impact on me as a youngster. That series opened my mind to some really interesting ideas, and lead on to reading Milton, then taking up a general interest in philosophy.<p>I don&#x27;t think I&#x27;d be who I am now without having read those books.
mattnewtonabout 8 years ago
The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins. Blew my mind out the back of my head in high school. Changed the way I looked at the world. Made evolution make some sense, and to some degree, paired with the extended phenotype, helped society make more sense. So much of altruism, racism, and tribalism have roots in game theory of you accept the hypothesis of the gene as the unit of natural selection.<p>But, perhaps more importantly it taught me by example how to make a good argument that can be rooted in multiple deep disciplines but accessible to the masses.
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cickpass_brokenabout 8 years ago
Kafka on the Shore by Haruki Murakami<p>This just may be my imagined takeaway. But..<p>There&#x27;s a theme around creativity existing on, let&#x27;s call it a plane, and this plane is accessible to anyone. I&#x27;ve yet to think much on if this plane (or, perhaps way of thinking) is the same for everyone or actually shared in some way.<p>This idea massively shaped my understanding, or feelings towards, the brain, and the immense ability for our own brains to limit or enhance our potential.<p>This was a very literary way for me to form the advice that could be boiled down to: &quot;think positively&quot;
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NumberCruncherabout 8 years ago
The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene and How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World by Harry Browne. The two sides of the same coin: how the game of power is played and how to get immune to it.
netnicholsabout 8 years ago
<i>All Quiet on the Western Front</i> by Erich Maria Remarque.<p>It might not actually be my first choice, but this one of the few on my short list that no one else has mentioned.<p>I read it in my mid teens (not too long after we stopped playing Rambo in the back yard) and it profoundly affected the way I view war, violence, and suffering. I&#x27;ve only read it the once (almost 25 years ago), and I hardly remember the story at all, but I vividly remember the <i>feeling</i> that it gave me.
jshawlabout 8 years ago
The Selfish Gene (Richard Dawkins)<p>tldr; our bodies are just a side effect of the gene&#x27;s greater plan
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wowsigabout 8 years ago
This has turned out to be an amazing thread. While the first 50 books were something I was expecting, Selfish Gene, Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy et all, the suggestions went interesting as I kept scrolling.<p>In the spirit of all things books, I&#x27;ve compiled the answers into a list (You were expecting someone to do this, weren&#x27;t you?)<p>Since, I&#x27;ve done this manually, this is what I&#x27;ve included.<p>1. Have only included the first level comments and the books mentioned in them.<p>This means the comments that said, if you liked this, you&#x27;ll also like this aren&#x27;t included.<p>2. Have included books from comments that have provided good answers to the &#x27;why&#x27;.<p>Haven&#x27;t included just book mentions without explanations of why that has been the most influential book.<p>Which book is mentioned most?<p>Haven&#x27;t counted, but I think it is Selfish Gene and the Bhagwat Gita!<p>And here is the list --&gt; You guys can go ahead and add these to your reading list.<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;shelfjoy.com&#x2F;sia_steel&#x2F;non-technology-books-that-have-influenced-hn-readers-the-most" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;shelfjoy.com&#x2F;sia_steel&#x2F;non-technology-books-that-have...</a>
cgrubbabout 8 years ago
The Rock Warrior&#x27;s Way:<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Rock-Warriors-Way-Training-Climbers&#x2F;dp&#x2F;0974011215" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Rock-Warriors-Way-Training-Climbers&#x2F;d...</a><p>Nominally about rock climbing, but really a study of the ego, why we invest so much effort in protecting it, and how little we get for that investment.
test6554about 8 years ago
&quot;The Box: How the Shipping Container Made the World Smaller and the World Economy Bigger&quot; by Marc Levinson<p>This book is an amazing breakdown of the shipping container and the impact that seemingly insignificant details can have on the world. But more importantly for me were the examples of non-automated labor required to move cargo in the past. It demonstrated the sheer amount of human effort that is poured into profitable tasks. It made me consider some of the tasks&#x2F;projects I decided never to bother with out of laziness and think about what it would take in terms of tools and resources&#x2F;manpower to actually get those tasks done. Instead of thinking about whether I wanted to do some task, I began thinking about whether the outcome was desirable regardless of the work required, and if it was, I thought about what it would take to get it done. If I had to list a second book it woul be &quot;The Age of Intelligent Machines&quot; by Kurzweil
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hanumanthanabout 8 years ago
Thinking fast and slow -<p>This book deals with lot of experiments on human decisioning and explains how impulsive and irrational our decisions can be
erehwebabout 8 years ago
Stumbling on Happiness. The best insight here is - people are very good at rationalizing &#x2F; being happy about bad results, when they result from a decision to do something (e.g. change job &#x2F; move ...) - less so when they decide not to do something (stay in the current job etc.) Using this as a tie-breaker rule has been a great help.
mindcrimeabout 8 years ago
<i>Nineteen Eighty Four</i> by Orwell. I read it in high-school and it helped seed (or at least exacerbate) a strong sense of distrust for government and its agents.<p>A close second might be <i>The Fountainhead</i> by Ayn Rand. That might actually have been first on my list, had I read it when I was younger. But I only first read it about 8 years ago.
sandworm101about 8 years ago
Is sci-fi &quot;technology&quot;?<p>I&#x27;ve taken much from Dune (see the name) but also Clark&#x27;s books. Comics and the bible have also helped me understand much of US pop culture in a way that i wouldn&#x27;t without. Realizing the religious overtones in the marvel movies, or the STD metaphor in HarryPotter, is great fun.
magic_beansabout 8 years ago
The Bhagavad Gita continues to challenge my notion of truth, self, and the path to happiness.
socialist_coderabout 8 years ago
A People&#x27;s History of the United States by Howard Zinn
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j0e1about 8 years ago
Epistle to the Romans.<p>Helped me wrestle and come to rest with many conflicting thoughts and ideas that were ultimately attributed to my lack of knowledge in those. I highly recommend reading in a modern translation like ESV.
sixstringtheoryabout 8 years ago
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. Documents a year of her and her family living in Appalachia, totally self-sustaining. Changed the way I think about consumerism and industrialization.
wazooxabout 8 years ago
&quot;Foucault&#x27;s Pendulum&quot; by Umberto Eco.<p>There is some hacking, and a strange battle against people wanting to believe their own truth (does that ring a bell?). Extremely contemporaneous, alas...
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rajeshtabout 8 years ago
Bhagavad Gita - translated by Eknath Easwaran <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Bhagavad-Easwarans-Classics-Indian-Spirituality&#x2F;dp&#x2F;1586380192" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Bhagavad-Easwarans-Classics-Indian-Sp...</a><p>Eknath has a deep understanding of Indian spirituality, in first 75 or so pages he explains it beautifully. He also explains how Bhagwad Gita is a map of how to live a life. These teaching can be applied even today to live a good life without too much stress.
osullivjabout 8 years ago
IMHO the best 20th century novel in the English language: Brideshead Revisited. A cursory reading, or viewing of the TV series or recent film, can leave the misleading impression that it&#x27;s a eulogy to aristocratic privilege. But that&#x27;s because it wears its more profound themes so lightly. Those themes are life, love, the quest for happiness &amp; acceptance, the nature of art, and the Catholic faith. As a work of apologetics it&#x27;s extremely reticent; only Catholics will notice its Catholicity. All should read at a gentle pace to savour its wisdom. Some quotes...<p>“But I was in search of love in those days, and I went full of curiosity and the faint, unrecognized apprehension that here, at last, I should find that low door in the wall, which others, I knew, had found before me, which opened on an enclosed and enchanted garden, which was somewhere, not overlooked by any window, in the heart of that grey city.”<p>“To understand all is to forgive all.”<p>“... To know and love one other human being is the root of all wisdom.”<p>“Oxford, in those days, was still a city of aquatint. In her spacious and quiet streets men walked and spoke as they had done in Newman&#x27;s day; her autumnal mists, her grey springtime, and the rare glory of her summer days - such as that day - when the chestnut was in flower and the bells rang out high and clear over her gables and cupolas, exhaled the soft airs of centuries of youth. It was this cloistral hush which gave our laughter its resonance, and carried it still, joyously, over the intervening clamour.”<p>And finally: &quot;beware charm!&quot;
xherbertaabout 8 years ago
Lady Chatterley&#x27;s Lover by D.H. Lawrence<p>The takeaway that&#x27;s quickest to explain is that the best things in life are priceless. You might be surprised how few $ you can happily live on.
scandinaveganabout 8 years ago
Tao Te Ching (Daodejing) by Lao-tse (Laozi). This is my favorite translation:<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.wright-house.com&#x2F;religions&#x2F;taoism&#x2F;tao-te-ching.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.wright-house.com&#x2F;religions&#x2F;taoism&#x2F;tao-te-ching.ht...</a><p>The text gives advice on both how to behave on a personal level and how to lead (and therefore what to expect from a good leader). It promotes the idea that ambition leads to strife and conflict and that the path to happiness is to be content with what you have. It also promotes the abandonment of pride and ego: Do your work and walk away, do not concern yourself with getting credit for what&#x27;s been achieved. Be like water and flow around problems instead of butting your head against them. Be malleable, do your thing, and don&#x27;t worry about what others are doing around you.<p>When it comes to how to lead, it says you should micro manage, and that the best leader is invisible. They make the group members think that they achieved it all themselves.<p>A lot of the things go against the current climate of ambition, greed, and always being visible in social media. How can you increase your salary without taking credit for all the good things you do? How can you be productive, and show others how productive you are, if you abandon ambition and are content? I still find that it calms me to think about the ideas, and that it feels like someone has my back when I don&#x27;t want to become the center of attention. I just want to do my work and my hobbies, being happy with what I have, and not trying to maximize my salary or social standing.
queirozfcomabout 8 years ago
The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing who you are, by Alan Watts.
cowpigabout 8 years ago
The Sirens of Titan by Kurt Vonnegut<p>Somehow Rick &amp; Morty really reminds me of Kurt Vonnegut. Similarly dark sense of humour about our meaninglessness in a vast, chaotic universe.
BatFastardabout 8 years ago
1) Jonathan Livingston Seagull. 2) Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance. 3) Illusions.
crazybigdanabout 8 years ago
The Once and Future King by T H White is likely my favorite fictional book. A modern (1940s) retelling of Arthurian legend, it really struck me in how it was able to captivate my imagination and my emotions. In that story I found White was masterfully able to discern when to be serious and when to be playful - by which he reanimated, for me, the legend of Arthur - parts of which I started to find stale, or outright did not enjoy.
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btschaeggabout 8 years ago
Although somewhat obscure, Filip Filander[1] by Jörg Hagemann left me with quite an impression at the time I read it (I must have been about 14). Hagemann tells a story that reminds very much of Michael Ende (who wrote the Unending Story and many other excellent books) and tries to highlight the contrast between knowledge and wisdom (Wissen und Weisheit in German) and the importance of having a good amount of both (as opposed to fanatically only searching for one). That idea resonated quite well with me - and I&#x27;m still reminded of the book whenever I&#x27;m witness to an overly technical argument that leaves out other aspects (people, practicality, etc.).<p>[1]: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.de&#x2F;Filip-Filander-das-geraubte-Wissen&#x2F;dp&#x2F;3800028069%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAILSHYYTFIVPWUY6Q%26tag%3Dduc02-21%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D3800028069" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.de&#x2F;Filip-Filander-das-geraubte-Wissen&#x2F;dp&#x2F;...</a>
ssijakabout 8 years ago
Little Prince. Read it a few times in my life. As a child, teen, adult and always got different but beautiful things from it.
gentleteblorabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Malazan Book of The Fallen&quot; by Steve Erikson<p>It&#x27;s supposedly fantasy, but it contains some of the best (fun and insightful) examinations of political systems, economics, religion, the environment, military culture and more. If it sounds like everything, it&#x27;s because it is :)<p>My favorite work of art in any medium.<p>PS. It&#x27;s a series (and a long one at that).
thunderbongabout 8 years ago
Mister God, this is Anna By Fynn[0]<p>Physics, Religion, Philosophy, Life, all rolled up into seeing the world through a child&#x27;s eyes.<p>[0]: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Mister-God-This-is-Anna&#x2F;dp&#x2F;B004MO511I&#x2F;ref=sr_1_3" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Mister-God-This-is-Anna&#x2F;dp&#x2F;B004MO511I...</a>
rchen8about 8 years ago
&quot;The Road Less Traveled&quot; by M Scott Peck.<p>By far the best self-improvement book I&#x27;ve read. About discipline, love, growth and religion, and grace. I don&#x27;t consider myself to be religious, but it&#x27;s made me apply traditional values and spiritual growth from religion to help me become a better person.
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peacetreefrogabout 8 years ago
Moneyball. Will affect the way you (strive to) make decisions. Worthwhile even if you&#x27;ve seen the movie and&#x2F;or don&#x27;t like baseball.<p>The End of Faith. Definitely don&#x27;t agree with all of this, but if you&#x27;re at all on the fence about religion this book has the potential to be very influential.
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djkrudyabout 8 years ago
Atlas Shrugged. For its dogged adherence to finding out and practicing a morality. Rand&#x27;s fault is that she ignores this cannon in creating entirely, unbelievably optimistic characters, but remembers it well in their decisions and formation of plot. This book challenged, nearly destroyed, and then strengthened my faith and hope in Christ because of its&#x27; logical progression toward the necessity and worth of truth and fairness, and then being unable to act out those principles without the use of God-like character(s). I was left, after studying Islam in the Koran and separately, mindfulness and others, unable to turn to anything else, except the Gospel of John and Romans. A Reason for God, by Tim Keller was also a necessary step in the tempering of my morality.
notacowardabout 8 years ago
Does &quot;The Evolution of Cooperation&quot; count as technical? It&#x27;s kind of CS-ish, but the real points are about how cooperation and &quot;good behavior&quot; can (a) occur without explicit communication and (b) be predictably self-beneficial in the long term even though exact paths to those benefits are unknown. True enlightened self-interest has to account for ecosystem effects and something akin to karma.<p>If that&#x27;s disqualified, I&#x27;d go with something like Lewis and Allison&#x27;s &quot;The Cheating of America&quot; or just about anything by David Cay Johnston. Knowing who really pays and who really profits from government, and how, can really shine an interesting light on what might otherwise by inexplicable behavior from our so-called leaders.
crawfordcomeauxabout 8 years ago
&quot;Nonviolent Communication&quot; (NVC) by Marshall Rosenberg<p>I was emotionally disconnected from people and myself from ~10~33 years old via information addiction (compulsively doing everything up to the &quot;doing&quot; parts of creation).<p>My disconnect kept me from learning how to communicate my empathy to others, as well as kept me from fully considering&#x2F;respecting their needs. Around a year ago, I broke through denial over sexual trauma I experienced as a child and was able to largely come to peace with it in 12 hours thanks to the principles and practices of NVC. That was huge and only the start of the book&#x27;s impact on me.<p>Essentially, this book has been teaching me how to human for the past year. I&#x27;ve read it 5 times and may read it again this week. I&#x27;m willing to send a used copy from Amazon to anyone who can&#x27;t afford a copy and thinks they could benefit from it. My contact info is in my profile for those who wish to take me up on the offer. Here are more ways the book has changed my life.<p>- It taught me how to emphatically connect. The communication framework it teaches is simple, yet highly structured. It was perfect for my systematic way of thinking.<p>- I gained a new understanding of fundamental human needs and how they relate to emotions we experience.<p>- I began practicing it with a friend, who I fell in love with through our mutual ability to connect and was briefly engaged to them last year.<p>-I&#x27;ve introduced the book to my family and the entire dynamic has changed dramatically. Passive aggressive and&#x2F;or codependent behaviors are slowly starting to shift.<p>- The book inspired me to practice abandoning my judgments. All of them. After a few weeks of this, I realized I was enjoying foods I used to hate. And then I started enjoying music I used to hate. And then children became adorable instead of obnoxious.<p>- I&#x27;ve always known something was wrong with the US justice system, but had no idea how to fix it. I learned about restorative justice through the book and my entire worldview has shifted as a result. I&#x27;m now slowly developing ideas for how to shift systems in that direction.<p>- I developed a model for how humans work I use to program my brain in very intentional ways. NVC principles serve as optimization techniques in it.<p>- An example of one such optimization was so profound it&#x27;s worth noting by itself. I realized I can view every moment as meeting some needs of mine. The shittiest of moments can specifically meet a combination of 4 needs: learning to better meet my needs, learning to better empathize with others, gratitude for both of those things, and gratitude for the opportunity to learn. I began processing the world this way on New Year&#x27;s Eve and it&#x27;s changed practically everything I do. My reality is not at all what it once was and I love it.<p>- I have a concern about creating a programming language for human brains and giving it to the world. Specifically, I&#x27;m worried about people using it to exploit others. If I don&#x27;t abandon my worry, I&#x27;ll first encode NVC practices in it and release it as a sort of mental antivirus.<p>- In preparing to test an hypothesis my model generated about gender identity, I accidentally spawned a seemingly conscious second voice in my head. NVC is incredibly helpful when it comes to us communicating with each other.
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type0about 8 years ago
Surely you&#x27;re joking, mr Feynman
pcsanwaldabout 8 years ago
A River Sutra, by Gita Mehta.<p>It&#x27;s a book I&#x27;ve re-read many times over the years, and drawn something different and new from each reading. It&#x27;s hard to articulate why it&#x27;s so important to me, but I&#x27;ve learned a tremendous amount from it. Highly recommended!
padraigfabout 8 years ago
- Mastery by Robert Greene &amp; The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle<p>I had to name both, because it was the combination of the two that influenced me. Essentially reading both of these moved me from the fixed mindset to the growth mindset (to borrow Carol Dweck&#x27;s terms).<p>Mastery provides the historical examples (including incidentally, our hero, Paul Graham), and The Talent Code provides the science behind it, what deep practice does to the brain.<p>These books aren&#x27;t the only to deal with the growth mindset (others...Carol Dweck&#x27;s Mindset, Malcolm Gladwell&#x27;s 10,000 hour rule, Anders Ericsson&#x27;s Peak), but where I first encountered the idea. In changing the way I learn, and my motivation for learning, they changed my life.
dedalusabout 8 years ago
Ardor by Robert Calasso<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.nytimes.com&#x2F;2014&#x2F;12&#x2F;21&#x2F;books&#x2F;review&#x2F;ardor-by-roberto-calasso.html" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.nytimes.com&#x2F;2014&#x2F;12&#x2F;21&#x2F;books&#x2F;review&#x2F;ardor-by-rob...</a>
rndmizeabout 8 years ago
The Hard SF Renaissance<p>So many of the stories in this collection impacted me heavily or changed my thinking. Some of the ones I felt stood out:<p>&quot;Understand&quot; - Ted Chiang<p>&quot;Reasons to be Cheerful&quot; - Greg Egan<p>&quot;Bicycle Repairman&quot; - Bruce Sterling<p>&quot;The Good Rat&quot; - Allen Steele<p>&quot;Beggars in Spain&quot; - Nancy Kress
skdotdanabout 8 years ago
The Art of War. Honestly, I re-read it every year!
andrei_says_about 8 years ago
I am That -- transcribed talks with Nisargadatta Maharaj<p>Shifted my sense of self in ways I cannot describe. It is logical but not intellectual and transformative in a strange way.<p>Enlightenment is Not What You Think by Wayne Liquorman, a contemporary Advaita teacher.<p>Ishmael by Daniel Queen.
ckluisabout 8 years ago
the tao of physics - I read it in high school for a dual-enrollment course and it was profoundly entertaining (if difficult to read in high school). It provided a glimpse into parrallels between eastern mysticism and western science.
stepbeekabout 8 years ago
Complete Robot by Isaac Asimov<p>When frustrated by technology, it&#x27;s pretty cool to read some things in this collection of short stories and think &quot;We&#x27;re actually in the future. We just aren&#x27;t great at making robots walk yet.&quot;
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Slumberthudabout 8 years ago
The Disappearance of the Universe, by Gary R. Renard. It is a very approachable explanation of another book, A Course in Miracles. It is the first thing that has ever succeeded in budging me from my fundamentalist Christian views.
W4nabout 8 years ago
Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality. Written by a senior researcher at MIRI, it distills all the cogsci and pop psychology books you can think of (Kahneman, Freakonomics, Gladwell) into a smart, funny, engaging, book-length book-quality fanfic. Plus it&#x27;s available freely online. Seeing these methods applied by a protagonist helped me internalize them far more than any number of rereads of other books could have. If that&#x27;s too frivolous for you, Rationality: From AI to Zombies is the textbook format of all this information, from the same author.
amorphidabout 8 years ago
You&#x27;ve Only Got Three Seconds by Camille Lavington<p>The book taught me the importance of making a good impression, how to improve my situation, to focus on being effective, and not hang on to things that are holding me back.
nhodabout 8 years ago
A Wrinkle in Time, and to a lesser extent rest of the L&#x27;Engle Time Quartet. Taught me very early on about physics, time, creativity, nonconformity, love, and the mystery and wonder of the universe.
pjmorrisabout 8 years ago
&#x27;The New Whole Earth Catalog&#x27;, Stewart Brand, editor. Browsing the great, independent, Goering&#x27;s bookstore just across the road from UF was my pastime of choice in the early 80&#x27;s. TNWEC became my card catalog for the rest of the store, and turned me on to an attitude of practical self-improvement. Just one of the many finds inside was &#x27;How to Get Control of Your Time and Your Life&#x27; by Alan Lakein, which, almost single handedly, saved my college career through a little simple prioritization and organization.
jmartiniabout 8 years ago
Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap...And Others Don&#x27;t - Jim Collins. His concept of &quot;bullets before cannonballs&quot; has stuck with me for every project&#x2F;job&#x2F;company.
jlg23about 8 years ago
&quot;La transcendence de l&#x27;ego&quot;, by Jean-Paul Sartre[1] - I read it when I was 14, by sheer accident, and it provided all the backing for intuitively understanding Sapir-Worf and finally for being able to navigate in a multitude of cultural environments without getting looked upon&#x2F;shot at or being killed (depending on where the world I am ;)<p>[1] <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;The_Transcendence_of_the_Ego" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;The_Transcendence_of_the_Ego</a>
Gnarlabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Body Electric&quot; by Dr. Robert O. Becker. An amazing journey into the electromagnetic workings and sensitivity of biology to electromagnetic fields. Details early but little known discoveries like de-differentiation of cells (return to stem cell) by weak electric fields and also commonly known mechanisms like accelerated bone-healing by electrical stimulation. Ends with a warning against uncontrolled proliferation and use of EMF&#x2F;EMR in society. But who listens to that kind of stuff anyway?
michaelsbradleyabout 8 years ago
<i>Practice of Perfection and Christian Virtues</i><p>by Alphonsus Rodriguez, S.J., 1609<p>as translated into English from the original Spanish by Joseph Rickaby, S.J., 1929<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;archive.org&#x2F;details&#x2F;PPCV-Manresa" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;archive.org&#x2F;details&#x2F;PPCV-Manresa</a><p>I found it to be a mirror of my soul, in which I saw more clearly than ever before my many faults and areas for improvement; at the same time, it held out to me the prescriptions necessary for the cure... a work still in progress, to be sure.
jensnockertabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Twelve Kingdoms&quot;, by Fuyumi Ono. We&#x27;ll count all the volumes as one.<p>Maybe I read them at just the right time in just the right place, but if you are in the right mood it tells you a story about leadership, a kernel of intersectionality, and most importantly why it&#x27;s so hard for leadership figures to change the way they are headed even if they can clearly see that they are heading straight into an iceberg.<p>There&#x27;s also an animated TV-series by NHK that I can recommend.
beatabout 8 years ago
You mean for how it influenced my work as a software engineer?<p>&quot;How Buildings Learn&quot;, by Stewart Brand. It&#x27;s about architecture over time - how buildings change and evolve (and eventually die), to suit the needs of their owners and occupants, and how they deal with the three enemies of al buildings (time, money, and water).<p>This book really fueled my interest in legacy software, and how the software lifecycle actually works. I recommend it highly to all software professionals.
0x445442about 8 years ago
Shibumi - Trevanian; I&#x27;ve read the book three of four times now and I&#x27;m not sure why but the characters and the characterizations just resonate with me.
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tmalyabout 8 years ago
4 Hour Work Week<p>it gave me the idea that you could start something on the side while doing your day job. The productivity tips have been super useful in all aspects of my life.
emmelaichabout 8 years ago
Almost all these books mentioned I love; GEB, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, 1984 are my favourites.<p>Not my actual favourite but worth mentioning as a marker in my thinking is<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Republican_Party_Reptile" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Republican_Party_Reptile</a><p>For me it was the catalyst for the transition from the heart centric youth to the head centric adult.
golemotronabout 8 years ago
&#x27;The True Believer: Thoughts On The Nature Of Mass Movements&#x27; by Eric Hoffer.<p>It helps you understand all mass movements from Trump-ism to Social Justice.
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walskabout 8 years ago
Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson.<p>Especially one episode, and if you&#x27;ve read the book, you probably can guess, which one.<p>(The rest of the books were already mentioned above.)
jbeckhamabout 8 years ago
Chosen by God from R. C. Sproul.<p>It explains the sovereignty of God in salvation very well. It is one of the best explanations of Reformed Theology that I&#x27;ve found that is meant for a non-seminary student.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Chosen-God-R-C-Sproul&#x2F;dp&#x2F;0842313354&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Chosen-God-R-C-Sproul&#x2F;dp&#x2F;0842313354&#x2F;</a>
typhonicabout 8 years ago
Invitation to Love by Fr Thomas Keating. While teaching about contemplative prayer, Fr Keating describes clearly the emotional programs for happiness (security, esteem, control) which we develop before maturity and which distract us as adults from knowing our true selves. I long ago picked my nickname from his description of our journey: reptilian, typhonic, mental egoic, unitive.
brightballabout 8 years ago
Psychology: Themes and Variations (textbook for my Psych 101 class in college). That class and book completely changed the way I think because it made me so much more aware of things happening around me everyday.<p>There were a lot of things but learning about Diffusion of Responsibility was huge. Knowing about it has made me feel almost like it&#x27;s my responsibility to take action in a crowd.
JSeymourATLabout 8 years ago
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns - clinically depressed, the impact of learning &amp; practicing cognitive behavioral therapy was life saving &gt; <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;46674.Feeling_Good" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;46674.Feeling_Good</a>
oblibabout 8 years ago
That would have to be Grapes of Wrath.<p>Or maybe Animal Farm.<p>Both of those books gave me an insight to politics and human nature in a way that made it clearer to me.
2snakesabout 8 years ago
Snow Crash had a big influence on me. Siddhartha too, and most recently, Reality Begins with Consciousness by Neppe and Close.
caballo7about 8 years ago
The YC partners surprisingly recommend a lot of non-tech books on Twitter. You can see their recommendations here: <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;parrotread.com&#x2F;bookshelf&#x2F;y-combinator-partners" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;parrotread.com&#x2F;bookshelf&#x2F;y-combinator-partners</a>. You can filter by genre, too.
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busterarmabout 8 years ago
Callahan&#x27;s Crosstime Saloon.<p>&quot;Shared pain is lessened, shared joy increased.&quot; It&#x27;s really that simple, folks.
VA3FXPabout 8 years ago
Illusions - Richard Bach<p>It&#x27;s about choosing the identity you want, and accepting all the beauty that the choice allows.
screwgothabout 8 years ago
&quot;Atlas Shrugged&quot; by Ayn Rand. I read it a couple of years after I hit my teens and was going to go to Junior College. It validated all my beliefs about meritocracy, atheism and recognition of self. To this day, I read it ( or parts of it, anyway) just to maintain my sanity
Entangledabout 8 years ago
&quot;Anatomy of the state&quot; by Murray Rothbard.<p>Eye opener about overall politics and why the sheeple is what it is.
davemel37about 8 years ago
Who moved my cheese. Its not my favorite book but its influenced me the most and I read it atleast once a year. It is a powerful parable about making things happen for yourself and focusing on things you can control and not blaming a bad hand or rough circumstances.
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pugioabout 8 years ago
The World of Null-A<p>I found a yellow-paged first edition on my parents&#x27; shelves as a young kid, and was heavily shaped by the idea of a character (and society) that trained themselves to think clearly.<p>This included years of training on how to channel (and ground) one&#x27;s emotions, and a constant and deep understanding of &quot;the map is not the territory&quot;. Or, in other words, our mental models are just that, and should be discarded or updated as soon as reality differs from them.<p>This allowed the character to respond with almost superhuman speed when confronted with otherwise traumatic emotional revelations, and the society as a whole to reorganize in response to an incipient alien invasion.<p>I&#x27;ve been trying to train myself to think like that ever since, and it has probably contributed to the large gap I felt between the thinking of my peers and me as I grew up.<p>I&#x27;m not sure how well the book holds up now, without my nostalgia colored glasses, but I still reread it every few years to remind me of the direction of my thoughts.
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leconteurabout 8 years ago
&quot;Jacques le Fataliste&quot; by Denis Diderot.<p>I found that this book illustrates perfectly well the underlying way that I, as a materialist and scientific man, perceive the world around me. It also illustrates the contradiction and idiosyncrasies of this way of thinking.
saturnianabout 8 years ago
&quot;Four Arguments for the Elimination of Television&quot; from former ad-exec Jerry Mander
senjindarashivaabout 8 years ago
The Call of the Wild translated for children by the Swedish translator Maj Bylock. This book opened the world of classical literature for me and without it I probably would have missed about half of the books I&#x27;ve read in the last 15ish years
agentultraabout 8 years ago
In what way? I&#x27;m a human being full of intertwined contradictions and personal mythologies. I have many ways in which to be influenced.<p>I&#x27;ve read so many books and they&#x27;ve all left their impression on me one way or another; even the most boring drivel!<p>If by <i>influenced</i> you mean to imply, <i>as a programmer</i>, then I would say perhaps <i>Programming in the 1990s</i> if that counts as &quot;non-technology.&quot; It&#x27;s a book about maths and using logical proofs as a tool for creating specifications of computer systems. Prior to reading that book I had treated &quot;software specifications,&quot; with the same reverence as a sketch on the back of a napkin. As far as I was concerned the only specification that mattered was the source code and the tests that exercise it. I feel as though that book has greatly changed the way I approach problems and how I think when I&#x27;m thinking about software.
mlinksvaabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Retreat to Commitment&quot; by W.W. Bartley III. Not what the book is about, but in addition to being a thrilling read, it eventually helped me deal with the shortcomings of the world and culture I find myself in, and my own.
kstenerudabout 8 years ago
Can&#x27;t leave it at one book, because there are four which all tie into a whole:<p>1. The Book of Five Rings (how to manage yourself)<p>2. The Art of War (how to manage your campaign)<p>3. The Prince (how to manage your domain)<p>4. Proverbs (the wisdom of generations of people in positions of power)
motxiloabout 8 years ago
&quot;Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can&#x27;t Stop Talking&quot; by Susan Cain. This book made me think about my own thinking and social behavior patterns.
selimthegrimabout 8 years ago
I&#x27;ll put in a vote for one I haven&#x27;t seen so far - Children of Gebelaawi by Naguib Mahfouz. Has a lot to teach about revenge and generational cycles.
chaostheoryabout 8 years ago
The Max Strategy. It&#x27;s a simple fictional parable like the Richest Man in Babylon with a simple message: do&#x2F;try something different every day.
jgrahamcabout 8 years ago
Slaughterhouse-Five
mattbgatesabout 8 years ago
Easily my favorite childhood book that I read for the helluvit every few years: The Ellimist.<p>I was a huge fan of Animorphs, but one of my favorite characters was the omniscient being.<p><i>spoilers</i> (Book is now 17 years old as of this post)<p>Just a brief summary if memory serves me correctly: They were a bird-like race called the Ketran, and although the planet surface was inhabitable, the atmosphere was, so they spent time keeping up a perch. To deal with their boredom, they created a game-like system of virtual reality. This gaming system allowed them to play things like chess or play characters or entire species in virtual simulations.<p>They had learned to broadcast their network gaming system across the planet to other Ketran and expanded their networks. Unfortunately, unbeknownst to them, they accidentally broadcast this virtual simulation across the galaxy to a war-like species, who thought they were being threatened.<p>The species came to their planet and wiped out nearly all the Ketran. The survivors were able to use one of their ships to escape and spent millenia searching for a planet like their own, but were unable to do so.<p>They eventually found a planet they thought they could inhabit, but the entire planet was like a sponge (known as father): absorbing anything on it and within it. So Father would basically capture and absorb the memories of anything that landed on the planet. Father could look into the memories of the creatures it absorbed. The last of the surviving Ketran were no exception. However, Father kept one of the Ketran alive, named Toomin, realizing he was a gamer and companion adversary, and did not want to be alone. Toomin and Father spent centuries playing &quot;virtual video simulated games&quot; with each other, but Toomin would always lose, because Father ALWAYS knew what Toomin would do, having his memories and thoughts. There was absolutely no way to win.<p>Fortunately and eventually, Toomin figured out a way to defeat Father. With his victory came the knowledge of every being that Father ever knew, so Toomin was able to create and know of technologies beyond what he could have ever known, and in a way, he was able to eventually figure out and understand immortality, which he may have achieved by accident.<p>With immortality comes a lot of purpose and lack of it, and that is what I will leave you with. Great read and only 25 cents on Amazon Kindle ( <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Ellimist-Chronicles-Animorphs-K-Applegate&#x2F;dp&#x2F;0439217989" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Ellimist-Chronicles-Animorphs-K-Apple...</a> ).<p>Why does this book continue to influence me? Even in the moment that Toomin lost hope, losing everything he ever loved, being the last of an extinct species, and seeing no reason to go on living, he knew he had to keep going, for the sake of his own species, and he would eventually become one of the greatest beings to ever exist. In a way, I do seek to be like the Ellimist.
kiflayabout 8 years ago
Seven habits of highly effective people. In there I quit learn a lot about how to manage my time, prioritize my to do list
rm_-rf_slashabout 8 years ago
<i>The Fountainhead</i>, by Ayn Rand.<p>I was never that into Rand-branded libertarianism - even as I read through TF and <i>Atlas Shrugged</i> I considered it a limited and self-blinding ideology - but I was certainly influenced by a story where the protagonist forges his own path even as the entire world sets out to prevent and undermine him.<p>Nowadays, I point to a far superior example of this inspiring and uplifting theme in the 2007 Japanese anime series <i>Gurren Lagann</i>.
palerdotabout 8 years ago
The Slight Edge - Jeff Olson.<p>Interesting take on how consistent little things matter and how they can make or break things.
ArielBarackabout 8 years ago
Tools of titans, Tim Ferris.<p>Body and mindset hacking from leading thinkers and experimenters, in a concise format
dotcomaabout 8 years ago
I&#x27;m reading &quot;Habits of a Happy Brain&quot;, by Loretta Graziano Breuning.<p>Fascinating to say the least.
abbottryabout 8 years ago
&quot;The End of Average: How We Succeed in a World That Values Sameness&quot; by Todd Rose.
hannahhowardabout 8 years ago
Octavia Butler - The Parable Series (Parable of The Sower &amp; Parable Of The Talents)
westonplatter0about 8 years ago
The Illiad &amp; The Odyssey.
nommm-nommmabout 8 years ago
Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert.<p>The why is because it&#x27;s extremely enlightening.
lurcioabout 8 years ago
Archaeology of the End. Can&#x27;t elaborate &#x27;til I finish it.
nicepersonabout 8 years ago
&quot;The Fountainhead&quot; by Ayn Rand.
octrefabout 8 years ago
The Alchemist.
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test-accout-0about 8 years ago
Anthony de Mello - Call to Love
g051051about 8 years ago
The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand. Amazing book, and Roarke&#x27;s whole philosophy is really inspiring.
laktekabout 8 years ago
Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse
somethingsomethabout 8 years ago
the brothers karamazov
eruciabout 8 years ago
The Naked Ape
sonabinuabout 8 years ago
The alchemist
branchlessabout 8 years ago
Henry George, Progress and Poverty.<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.henrygeorge.org&#x2F;pdfs&#x2F;PandP_Drake.pdf" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.henrygeorge.org&#x2F;pdfs&#x2F;PandP_Drake.pdf</a><p>His ideas are fabulous, but that aside reading it is a joy. He truly has a love for his fellow man that transcends all the usual pity-via-charity and sees real value in all.<p>A forgotten favourite of many great thinkers. Forgotten for a reason!
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netherabout 8 years ago
Visions of a Flying Machine by Jakab. About the Wright brothers. Basically emphasizes how they were consummate <i>engineers</i>, not scientists. In a field where there were not yet any textbooks, they zeroed in on what was necessary to build a practical airplane. They figured out each aspect (aerodynamics, controls etc.) to a satisfactory level, then moved onto the next without getting bogged down. They didn&#x27;t fully understand the physics (they were by no measure aerodynamicists), but they knew enough to predict how their craft would do on paper, which is all engineers need.
marcgcombiabout 8 years ago
Being Digital by Nicolas Negreponte. Published just before the massive Internet boom and got me rev&#x27;ed up about the potential for technology to enhance the lives of humans.