Happiness is a strange pursuit. The more you seek it, the more it eludes.<p>- Focus rather on your priorities. In your life, there are different pivotal moments where your priorities change. Clearly seeing your priorities and addressing them could bring your happiness.<p>- The "i can achieve more" attitude is doing more harm than good, in my opinion. "More" is a never ending game - you will be forever stuck in that game - and worse, its a game of madness and insanity.<p>- Read the 4-burner theory. It might give you some leads.<p>- The amount of time you have is limited - so you have to allocate your resources - time and attention - to the stuff you value most.<p>- Understand that you cannot experience everything in life - this is where you borrow knowledge through elders / books etc.<p>- Get off the social media showoff madness - how can a human being pivot and amplify one emotion (happiness) at the ignorance of other emotions ? You only see the good side on social media - showoffs broadcasting all the time. A human being is multi-layered and pain and sadness are part of life - accept this.<p>- Find your sensible median - what do i mean by this ? i have struggled with this question myself, but i could give you leads - there is something that we value most and there is a need to produce value to survive - if you can find that balance, then sure you will find happiness.<p>- I could add more, but it would lead to a philosophical discussion.. i hope the above pointers give you some leads.. i sincerely wish each human being find happiness - if i could add one thing before i submit - Place integrity & character as your highest ideal - find people with high integrity & character and surround yourself with them - this will have a good effect on your happiness. Cynicism never takes anyone far, and the world we are surrounded with - the online media is full of cynics and skepticists.
Realizing that I don't have to be (or even want to be) a talking head in the industry.<p>Realizing that I don't have to build a following to be extremely happy, and that contrary to popular opinion, living a small life is much more desirable.
Hey there "good_vibes", yesterday you posted a question and replaced it with a dot and it got flagged. Why do you do such things? You give me bad vibes, hence my user name.