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Reasons Today’s Kids Are Bored at School, Feel Entitled, Have Little Patience

15 pointsby alphydanover 7 years ago

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existenceboxover 7 years ago
Christ. I take a decent amount of pleasure in poking holes in topics here, and this is one of those &quot;where do I even start&quot;, as well as continuing to lower my opinion of self-identified therapists.<p>(EDIT: To clarify: I don&#x27;t mean to detract that the author is a Real(tm) therapist, but the &quot;self identified&quot; part is key to me as the author conveys that as their angle of expertise, as opposed to a physician who may also have a degree in therapy but tries to speak primarily as the former. I&#x27;ve found my Bayesian prior of agreement to correlate inversely when someone opens with &quot;as a therapist...&quot;)<p>Let me pick a few points out. &quot;ENDLESS FUN&quot;. Because that clearly defines the childhood of most of the people I grew up around in a Philadelphia public school. (My sarcasm should be VERY heavy right about here.) Quite to the opposite, children spend ~half (usually far more if you count transit, extracurriculars, and homework) of their waking hours in a situation one can honestly describe as &quot;penitentiary-like&quot;. Yet the article NEVER touches on the far more likely hypothesis that children, like most semi-sentient creatures, don&#x27;t want to do highly unpleasant things with no feeling of autonomy? We recognize this for our food animals but not our own children?<p>&quot;KIDS RULE THE WORLD&quot; This isn&#x27;t even defended in their own paragraph, if I&#x27;m reading it right (it&#x27;s a bit &quot;fun&quot; to dig through the spurious rhetoric and anti-youth slant); and in all of the quotes they give, I would argue as examples that they _don&#x27;t_ rule the world, given that the response in most situations is &quot;you don&#x27;t get a choice, I&#x27;m your parent&quot;.<p>&quot;TECHNOLOGY&quot; This has been the mantra of parents as long as I&#x27;ve been watching news. It just used to be Phones, TV, Radio, Rock Music, Swing&#x2F;dance halls, all the way back to the turn of the century. The statement about parental emotional availability may have some merit but is in no way supported, and seems distinct from the section header.<p>Now, I&#x27;d like to ask _why_ the author paints a slant that so entirely deprives children of means and mentality, so allow me to apply my typical cynicism with a quote from the author bio: &quot; She is founder and director of a multidisciplinary clinic in Toronto, Canada, for children with behavioral, social, emotional and academic challenges.&quot;<p>If you convince parents their kids are broken, they&#x27;ll pay you money to try and &quot;fix&quot; them. As a kid who had decades of adults trying to &quot;fix&quot; me, and has turned out &quot;pretty damn OK&quot; I still resent that; and find the article entirely lacking in substance or legitimacy.
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eat_veggiesover 7 years ago
Were kids ever <i>not</i> bored at school? This feels like yet another article about those gosh darned spoiled kids these days.
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DavidAdamsover 7 years ago
This is not a very rigorous article. It&#x27;s a series of observations&#x2F;opinions of one particular expert who&#x27;s worked with one particular set of kids. Not useless anecdotes, but anecdotes nonetheless.<p>That being said, I think there&#x27;s some truth in there. I&#x27;m very dubious of the endless technology moral panic that&#x27;s cycled through parenting ever since the invention of the sharpened stick. (&quot;In my day we just bashed the gazelles with a blunt stick. These kids today have no character&quot;) Nevertheless, I tend to agree that the human mind needs unstructured periods of boredom and social interaction to thrive, and that parents are too quick to mollify their kids with entertainments instead of helping them learn to occupy themselves. Also, kids should be able to play outside, away from parental supervision.