I don't believe in happiness, or at least I have my own definition of it.<p>I had to read seneque's book on happiness when I was in college.<p>A balanced life, in my view, comes from:<p>* Differentiating what is determined for you, and avoid it to apply your free will on the rest<p>* Letting yourself be a loser and letting go of the worrying it can generate<p>* Be careful to do what's necessary to get accepted in society, but avoid getting formatted by it.