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I Quit Social Media for a Year

509 pointsby jcpsimmonsover 5 years ago

80 comments

tempsyover 5 years ago
My biggest issue with social media is less that it&#x27;s distracting (IMO not necessarily an unhealthy thing) but that it has, for me, more than anything else seemed to make all aspects of my life a competition with others.<p>On Instagram, you&#x27;re competing with others on who has the happiest life.<p>On LinkedIn, you&#x27;re competing with others on who has the steepest career trajectory.<p>Even on Twitter, perhaps more acutely in certain jobs or industries, it seems like you&#x27;re competing with other in gaining professional influence.<p>It creates a lot of anxiety that stems from a feeling like you&#x27;re constantly on the verge of falling behind others.<p>Plenty of scholars&#x2F;thinkers&#x2F;philosophers have said something to the effect of focusing on just being a better version of you. Social media enables the exact opposite i.e. forcing you to constantly evaluate how you compare to others.
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young_unixerover 5 years ago
I used to use Twitter. My country&#x27;s political news and related commentary usually got me into a mental state of frustration and misanthropy.<p>I deleted Twitter. Political news still frustrate me but I rarely see them anymore. Ignorance is bliss. I&#x27;ve effectively created a safe space where political idiocy can&#x27;t cognitively harass me.<p>Is it wrong to be so uninformed? I don&#x27;t know. I think a lot about it and I haven&#x27;t come to a satisfactory conclusion. By being uninformed I&#x27;m somewhat unable to fight against the &quot;wrong&quot; opinions, but maybe if I was informed my opinions wouldn&#x27;t change a thing anyway.<p>My mental health is better off just accepting any idiotic laws my country passes instead of trying to &quot;protest&quot; (in the most useless sense of the word: tweeting about it) against them, for the most part.
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muzaniover 5 years ago
When I quit I ended up reading books and watching TV for entertainment. I literally read over a million words of fiction (Worm) in one month with the spare time.<p>It was a lot more fulfilling, and I&#x27;ll remember that time. While in contrast there are few social media moments I&#x27;ll miss.<p>I had to actually force myself to get back into social media. I&#x27;m not sure what the author here means by withdrawal; there was maybe a period of 1 week trying to get back in, but it was over quickly.<p>One big thing that happened was the number of consulting contracts went down significantly and never recovered. I&#x27;m quite Facebook active and used to get two interview offers a month. In fact last month I got a huge opportunity that I would have gladly accepted if I wasn&#x27;t committed to anything else.<p>I&#x27;d be happy if social media was just wiped out and we went back to socializing on forums and IRC.
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rdiddlyover 5 years ago
This write-up really ends up understating the benefits and &quot;magical&quot; things that actually did happen, but I fully approve of the understated approach. Hyping everything up is part of the problem. If something is beneficial, I shouldn&#x27;t need to sell you on it; I can just tell you about it, and you can decide. (In fact it&#x27;s almost an intrusion into your free will when I start persuading you, and it betrays some vested interest on my part.) That&#x27;s why you don&#x27;t brag about quitting social media. And why you quit social media in the first place is a related example of the same thing: If I&#x27;m a worthwhile and valid human being, I shouldn&#x27;t need to sell you on me, and maintain this continual online sales platform for the &quot;me&quot; product. You can discover it on your own and maybe reach the conclusion that I&#x27;m awesome, or maybe not, but either way it&#x27;s fine. Zen, baby. (I think the meditation helped more than he realizes LOL)
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euskeover 5 years ago
Frankly I&#x27;m a little bored at these &quot;quit social media&quot; articles. They look sort of all the same to me. Quitting altogether is simple, because there&#x27;s only one way to do it; quitting altogether. Moderation, on the other hand, is more interesting because there are a number of ways to moderate its use; not just limiting time but also limiting use cases. I&#x27;d like to know more about the latter.
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krumpetover 5 years ago
&quot;I feel by far less distracted. My attention span feels more robust than it ever has.&quot;<p>I would consider this magical.
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0xCMPover 5 years ago
Social media is about getting attention via free, easy to use, and highly distributed platforms. It has _very little_ to do with being social or staying in touch with friends and _everything_ with being a mini media business with the goal of growing your following and influence enough to make money (somehow). Social media is simply a free performance.<p>Unless you&#x27;re building a personal brand or selling something the work required to achieve growth it doesn&#x27;t make sense for most people.<p>You&#x27;re better off making group chats and using private iCloud Photos albums to be _social_ than posting on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
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psyclobeover 5 years ago
I&#x27;ve been off Facebook for about a year now as well... Lets see the effects have been, a lot less options for dating, lost communication with a ton of various car parts companies and tuners (I was into a lot of car hobbies for a while), and overall I feel more alone then I did when I was on Facebook.<p>But this is an honest way to live, I used to just sit there and scroll through other peoples lives peering through them as if I was somehow a part of whatever they were doing. It was a fake reality.
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charlesjuover 5 years ago
As a side note, a hobby&#x2F;hack I&#x27;ve found recently has really helped me decrease screen time.<p>I need to work a lot due to job circumstances, so I thought I could not afford screen off time.<p>But one thing I picked up is writing in a notebook. I realized that a lot of work, regardless of where you are on the totem, is planning ahead. Writing in a notebook for both work and personal introspection is very therapeutic and really helps me to focus and crystalize my thoughts. I&#x27;ve also bundled this with my work out sessions to pre-plan what I want to pontificate about. The general process has both helped decrease my screen time, increase my work productivity, and help me sleep better because I know that my frayed thoughts are on paper.
mlthoughts2018over 5 years ago
I think this posts discussion of “why do we take photos” is really great and deserves more consideration. I’ve not had any form of social media account for over 8 years and something I notice is that I just take waaay fewer photos than everyone else I know. A few on vacation or when I see something stupid I can turn into a pun or a joke. Seriously maybe 3-5 photos per month.<p>I love living this way and consider it healthy and normal for a wide variety of people in most modern life circumstances. I think the need to take dozens of photos of vacation&#x2F;meal&#x2F;baby&#x2F;lifestyle is seriously a universally bad mental state for humans, and one that people will stubbornly try in vain to argue is somehow acceptable or ok.<p>If sitting is the new smoking, then social media photo sharing is the new vaping.
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vickypathiover 5 years ago
I did it for a year too! deleted fb&#x2F;insta&#x2F;twitter accounts for a year.<p>a lot of good things happened. 1. Never bothered about taking photos for everyshit I did. 2. A lot of white space and time I got, to be empty. Not sure if I used them enough. But white space yes! 100% 3. I never grazed useless info off the feed.<p>in the middle of the year, i tried an experiment. created a twitter&#x2F;fb accounts and followed some of the useful accounts. browsed for 1 hour. and then closed twitter&#x2F;fb and tried to recollect all the info I gathered in this 1 hour. And trustme, it was huge. really huge.<p>X got married. Y had a job change. Z disappointment about something. A&#x27;s vacation. B&#x27;s witty remark on C.<p>then i immedietly deleted my account, coz none of these were useful for me. I was never interested in what other poeple&#x27;s life about.<p>Another 6 months passed. I realized only thing I missed was the option for events, and groups where u can post.<p>coz i play fifa on xbox one. to find teammates.. ofcourse the best place is on fb. To sell something. Even to reach out to somebody for help at sometime, fb is the best.<p>so finally after 1 year, I created twitter&#x2F;fb accounts. and I never posted any photos or my personal stuff.<p>Just add 30 friends in fb. the most important ones. u know.. and no more. but i can unfollow some of them. ANd posted all info in groups, and got teammates right away for Fifa.<p>and also, if I want to reach out someone, its just one step away.<p>Twitter, follow all useful ppl mostly tech&#x2F;football&#x2F;humor<p>and now i dont feel overwhelmed at all.<p>Everytime i open fb, i ll not get enough updates.<p>The key idea, how to be in it and not get overwhelmed. How to be in it an use it the way u want it.<p>P.S Insta -&gt; never felt like going back. absolutely boring and useless for me personally.
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blahedoover 5 years ago
Good read, but this part seemed interestingly backward from my own experience: <i>&quot;You know what else is exhausting? Pretending to care about people you don’t give a shit about.&quot;</i><p>I&#x27;ve definitely been in situations where I had to pretend to care about people I don&#x27;t give a shit about. They have been 100% in my face-to-face real life. On FB I&#x27;m perfectly allowed to care only minimally about the people I want to care minimally about, and unfriend or hide or block the people I actually don&#x27;t give a shit about, and pay attention to the people I want to keep up with. At a party or an art opening or standing in line or whatever? It&#x27;s harder to escape other people.<p>(Which is fine, of course, and good for us to sometimes engage in that way; it&#x27;s just diametrically opposite from the author&#x27;s pithy claim.)
bigiainover 5 years ago
This bit hit me hard:<p>&quot;You know what else is exhausting? Pretending to care about people you don’t give a shit about. Maybe you’re just a better person than I am and you genuinely and deeply care about everyone you are ‘friends’ with on Facebook. I didn’t. &quot;
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bradlysover 5 years ago
I might quit soon too. To be honest - seeing my peers buying homes (with, of course, no discussion about how they made it happen), getting married, traveling a lot, enjoying nice things, and having kids is kinda putting a sour taste in my mouth. It&#x27;s a very biased feed. It&#x27;s basically an endless feed of the highest points of everyone in your entire social circle. I do some of it but I tend to balance it out with, &quot;I don&#x27;t think I&#x27;m ever gonna fucking make it in this area.&quot;<p>Social media is a bit like the news but on the opposite side of the spectrum. &quot;Yes, yes, I get it. The world is ending.&quot; I care but I don&#x27;t care to where I need to have it shoved in my face where I&#x27;m going to do things to make the world even worse. (What good is a world that survives if it is full of anxiety?)<p>I&#x27;m not reading the general news generally anymore when I can and maybe I&#x27;ll transfer that to social media soon. (Today was a bad day - a peer of mine who is younger than me just bought a place in SF; I&#x27;m struggling to make it in a 400sqft in-law unit) I notice I feel better and it&#x27;s not like anything I missed is of real substantial importance to my daily life. It&#x27;s just filler. I know my core political philosophy - so it&#x27;s not like it&#x27;ll affect my voting decision much. Reminds me of the article someone posted in response to the 8 year old dying. Something about ignoring the bullshit in life because you don&#x27;t have time for it. You don&#x27;t have time for bullshit and most of social media and the news is full of bullshit. I think it could be really great but most of the time... it&#x27;s just bullshit. Here it is - life is short: <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.paulgraham.com&#x2F;vb.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.paulgraham.com&#x2F;vb.html</a>
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TylerEover 5 years ago
The thing I have found to be extremely helpful is to very carefully curate who who I follow - in particular I don&#x27;t friend&#x2F;follow anyone I have any sort of regular f2f interactions with - family, coworkers, neighbors. I use it exclusively to keep up with out-of-state friends, others involved with the same sort of niche hobbies, that sort of thing. Avoids sooo much drama.
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birdfeeder210over 5 years ago
Neat, I quit Facebook over 5 years ago and never looked back.<p>JOMO saved my mental health when I realized I&#x27;d never be invited to every get-together. You learn who really cares about your once you dip out of the world&#x27;s easiest connectivity network... when people actually have to put in just a bit more effort to get a hold of you.<p>Group SMS never gets old and I don&#x27;t feel like big-brother is always watching, when in reality, they very well could be but it feels far less invasive.
b3b0pover 5 years ago
If this persons definition of social media is only Facebook and Instagram then I removed social media for the last 3 or more years.<p>Removing these (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) were nothing and easy for me. I just logged out and never bothered to log in. I haven&#x27;t bothered with these in years.<p>Now, not visiting places like Reddit, maybe Hacker News, and consider removing other similar like internet communities for a year as well was a lot harder and still is at times. So, I have delegated to limit myself for now and not make an account. At least I try.<p>I found myself having trouble of finding something to read while I eat dinner every night, so I try to only limit myself to reading and browsing Reddit while I eat dinner each night for example.<p>However, my Hacker News addiction continues.
tylerlover 5 years ago
I quit social media four years ago and all that happened is I got 3 hours per day of my life back.
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viksitover 5 years ago
Isn’t hacker news social media? Karma points are no different from retweets or likes surely? And then isn’t reading nyt’s comment section <i>social</i> “media” too? At what point is engaging with media that has some collaboration from peers different from the big three social sites? Should there be a case made for quitting these too?
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platzover 5 years ago
None of the top comments respond to or discuss the actual content in the post (e.g. &quot;my ...&quot;), and instead focus on their own anecdotal experiences, based on the headline or social media in general.<p>this also is mirrors the lack of discussion and engagement often associated with social media.
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kelnosover 5 years ago
I quit posting and checking Facebook roughly a year ago (I still have an account for event invitations, but I&#x27;ve disabled all other notifications and uninstalled the app). I still have an Instagram account, and page through the feed once or twice a week (in the past, it was usually a few times a day), but I haven&#x27;t posted in about six months.<p>I&#x27;m less anxious and stressed out, and generally less annoyed at people around me. My initial reason for avoiding FB was because I was tired of being bombarded by rageful posts about politics and social justice issues (regardless of whether or not I agreed with those posts) day in and day out.<p>On occasion, after asking a friend a specific question about their life, they&#x27;re surprised I don&#x27;t know the answer already because they&#x27;d posted about it on FB. I then have to explain that I haven&#x27;t checked FB (aside from events) in a year. No one has even come close to complaining about having to tell me something separately; people generally enjoy talking about themselves, especially when prompted, so that shouldn&#x27;t be a surprise.<p>I still take a similar quantity of photos, even though I don&#x27;t post them anywhere anymore. I do share photos taken during a group activity&#x2F;trip&#x2F;outing, but privately, through Google Photos, and only to the people who were there.<p>When I flip through Instagram, I&#x27;m definitely less engaged than I used to be. I don&#x27;t really comment anymore unless I have something substantive to say&#x2F;ask, and I usually don&#x27;t bother to &quot;like&quot; anything.<p>I have several healthy in-person friend groups, and some remote ones. I hear about what&#x27;s going on with my friends in person, or via smaller group chats or one-on-one texting. I certainly don&#x27;t see all the other things my random FB &quot;friends&quot; (at ~1100, of course the majority of them are acquaintances at most) are posting about their lives, but I find I don&#x27;t really miss it. While it might be a novelty to see what some random old high school or college classmate is doing day-to-day, I&#x27;d much rather turn that limited energy and brain space toward my closer friends.<p>Regarding news, I get a daily politics newsletter in my email inbox, so I can restrict that to a small chunk of time and only pursue things further if I want to. For other types of news, I have to seek it out specifically, which works well for me.
MisterTeaover 5 years ago
&gt; I made a resolution in September of 2018 that I would quit social media indefinitely.<p>I had my phone die years back on my way to a social event after a combination of a facebook app bug that sapped battery and leaving my charger in other vehicle. I was so aggravated with the app that I deleted it. Never installed it again. Think this was 2016&#x2F;17? After a few weeks I also deleted my instagram. Then again, I wasn&#x27;t into the social media thing so I only had those two accounts and didn&#x27;t post much. Never had or saw a need for twitter or whatsapp. Deleted instagram and facebook account was slimmed down to just a few pictures and I keep in touch with some family through it. I maybe visit facebook via web once or twice a month.<p>We&#x27;ve painted ourselves into a social anxiety corner as we removed the actual social aspect and replaced it with a poorly designed html implementation. You want to be social and have friends? Then call and hang out with people without feeling the need to post about it or sit in front of someone scrolling and endless sea of nothing.
beshrkayaliover 5 years ago
The title is kind of clickbaity, but the most important note in this write-up is the following:<p>&gt; I don’t see myself ever going back to social media. I don’t see the point of it, and after leaving for a while, and getting a good outside look, it seems like an abusive relationship – millions of workers generating data for tech-giants to crunch through and make money off of.
colshrapnelover 5 years ago
You&#x27;d laugh at me, but I am still using a LiveJournal clone - Dreamwidth. This pre-social network is quite comfortable to be in. It is, so-to say, non-invasive. You&#x27;d never see a post from someone you didn&#x27;t subscribe to. There are no ads. No mental viruses to pick-up. Just what a social media is meant to be for ordinary people to keep in touch with some friends. And of course there is no mobile client to ring a dozen times a hour. I just read my friends list when it is comfortable for me.<p>And I visit my facebook account weekly, via desktop browser, only to see what&#x27;s up with my friends hanging up there.<p>I very seldom do likes, as I know that my likes could show up in my friends&#x27; feeds. There are NO notifications from social network or media on my phone. I call it &quot;information hygiene&quot;.<p>And yes, like others mentioned, I&#x27;ve got A LOT of spare time for books, hobbies, movies etc.
toadiover 5 years ago
- Was very active on twitter. Haven&#x27;t opened the app in a while. - Linkedin is just my CV don&#x27;t use the social stuff on it.<p>Besides being a software engineer I have a custom motorcycle shop. We use Instagram&#x2F;Facebook and also my personal account gets more updates since I have the shop. If I wouldn&#x27;t have a business that uses these platforms as lead generation I wouldn&#x27;t&#x27; be using them either.<p>Between these two Instagram sucks. People just scroll through it and don&#x27;t interact that much. Mostly other Instagram channels re-use motorcycle builds from the actual builders without attributing. They are more popular as it&#x27;s easy to follow them as they post builds daily and people need their fix.<p>Our facebook is growing fast and interactions grow on it too. As platform its a bit better and people coming to our shop most of the times know us from facebook.
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elorantover 5 years ago
My main beef with social media is that you can&#x27;t have a decent conversation with anyone. Partially because everyone builds a network of like minded people and has little to no tolerance at all to opposite views, and partially due to the real name policy, all conversations seem to derail quite easily. Then you have sites like LinkedIn where everyone presents himself like they invented the cure for cancer. People seem so fixated on being right and pompous to the point that there&#x27;s no real fun anymore in interaction. And if I can&#x27;t discuss with strangers I don&#x27;t see any point of joining social media sites. For me communities is all there is on sites like that.
criddellover 5 years ago
&gt; the sole reason I have taken photos is to share them via social media<p>That&#x27;s quite a realization. I think it&#x27;s true for a lot of people though and it&#x27;s part of why people experience the best times of their life through a 6&quot; display.
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jedimastertover 5 years ago
I used to go on Facebook quite a lot, and then suddenly I just stopped. I haven&#x27;t deleted my profile (a lot easier to find people I&#x27;ve lost touch with than trying to get a phone number or something) but for some reason it just doesn&#x27;t tempt me, and it&#x27;s very surprising. I&#x27;m on Reddit &amp; YouTube far too much (and I would be here too much too if the front page weren&#x27;t nearly so slow in comparison). I really just don&#x27;t understand.
tvanantwerpover 5 years ago
The first time I quit social media, the strangest part of the experience was figuring out what to do with my random observations. Maybe I&#x27;d have a clever though, or see an interesting sight to photograph, and my old instinct was to share immediately. Without social media, I had to relearn how to let go and allow my thoughts fade into nothing. I&#x27;m glad I went through that--really showed me how my brain was being rewired in ways I don&#x27;t care for.
quakeover 5 years ago
A couple years ago I moved across Canada for work, and even after a couple years I still haven&#x27;t met a ton of people here that aren&#x27;t coworkers. And none of the people I met, I met over facebook. It was always through Meetup or Reddit. So long ago I uninstalled Facebook from my phone, and I have a localhost line to prevent my computer from going to the site. My phone has facebook messenger on it, and that&#x27;s as far as I go, since that&#x27;s how I stay in touch with most of my friends in BC. The messenger only option is fantastic, and taken even further by turning off those stupid floating chat bubbles. I can talk to them, but cannot see anything they post.<p>Do I feel like I missed anything about the people I care about? Yeah I kind of do, but mostly it&#x27;s FOMO from seeing all my friends continue to do backpacking trips while I&#x27;m working in southern Ontario, so that&#x27;s circumstantial. But on the whole? I couldn&#x27;t care less. I had to turn off the localhost rule to sell some stuff on Marketplace, and I browsed my news feed for the first time in over a year, and it was a nightmare hellscape of stuff I just couldn&#x27;t care less about. Better off with the filter.
castratikronover 5 years ago
Main complaint with Facebook is how rigid the friendships are. There are people I&#x27;m friends with on Facebook that I haven&#x27;t spoken to in ten years. But it feels weird to delete them. For some reason it feels natural to add everyone you know, even if you&#x27;ve only ever spoken to them for a single evening. To put it another way the edges of the Facebook friend graph don&#x27;t have weights where the IRL graph does.
nabla9over 5 years ago
There is tendency to cynically comment &quot;Yet another...&quot; but I don&#x27;t see how repetition makes this any less relevant. Social media seems to have clearly negative effect on most people. Herd animals have deep fear of being left out and that keeps people using them. They create little or no value.<p>If you have to send mail or message to people you want to interact with, it&#x27;s more personal and works better.
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katzeillaover 5 years ago
HN HoD? I got 503 Service Unavailable.<p>Archived version: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;web.archive.org&#x2F;web&#x2F;20190911012911&#x2F;https:&#x2F;&#x2F;joshcsimmons.com&#x2F;2019&#x2F;09&#x2F;10&#x2F;i-quit-social-media-for-a-year-and-nothing-magical-happened&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;web.archive.org&#x2F;web&#x2F;20190911012911&#x2F;https:&#x2F;&#x2F;joshcsimm...</a>
phjesusthatguy3over 5 years ago
I got all my teenage bullshit out on detroit.freenet.org. Now I&#x27;m farming HN points.<p>16 year old me is <i>so disappointed</i> in 45 year old me.
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Jaruzelover 5 years ago
For those on Windows, and who want a quick way to purge their Facebook data, I wrote a tool (that was favourably received on HN when I originally announced it) :<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.jaruzel.com&#x2F;blog&#x2F;how-i-erased-5000-facebook-comments-and-likes" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.jaruzel.com&#x2F;blog&#x2F;how-i-erased-5000-facebook-comme...</a>
mircealover 5 years ago
I guess it depends on what magical means, but the <i>Mental Health Benefits, Enhanced Interpersonal Relationships and Presence</i> the author lists after the conclusion do seem magical to me.<p>Having time to stop, think and&#x2F;or have a conversation with another human being is a magical experience nowadays.
thecleanerover 5 years ago
This is an unpopular opinion. But social media tends to exacerbate our own insecurities. So maybe dealing with the underlying problem is much a healthier way to solve social media addiction ? Also these dramatic measures like quit all social media is simply telling yourself &quot;oh look, I am going to do this dramatic thing. I am taking action&quot; without actually understanding that there&#x27;s a middle-ground where you regulate your use and continue to reap some of the minimal benefits that social media has. Holding the middle-ground of regulated use is much harder, but definitely worth trying.
whenchameniaover 5 years ago
While it seems like nothing, the peace in my life is much greater with less influence from the gamified social media emotion casino. I am closer to where I feel like I need to be, whatever that may mean. Ymmv. Enjoy life.
ummonkover 5 years ago
I’m not sure whether this is just post college life but I feel like social media has really reduced the amount of direct interaction between people, both via phone &#x2F; computer, and in real life.<p>I don’t really care to passively consume what my friends are doing, or broadcast to them what I’m doing; I want to interact with them.<p>Thus could be a millennial issue though - the next generation seems to use Snapchat and iMessage for much more direct interaction.
artur_maklyover 5 years ago
I&#x27;m sure the 1000 days of meditation he experimented with, had a lot more impact on his mind&#x2F;body&#x2F;soul than his Social fasting. But a blend of both for most I think would be ideal. <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;joshcsimmons.com&#x2F;2019&#x2F;05&#x2F;21&#x2F;meditaton-practice&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;joshcsimmons.com&#x2F;2019&#x2F;05&#x2F;21&#x2F;meditaton-practice&#x2F;</a>
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anigbrowlover 5 years ago
This is the best headline I&#x27;ve seen for a while. It was such a welcome contrast to the usual sales pitch that I laughed hard for a good minute.
megousover 5 years ago
&gt; The only logical reason I could figure for why this is done, is to make you feel bad about having a lower number than other people, otherwise why would they bother broadcasting this number, proudly at the top of your profile page, to other users?<p>The reason probably is so that people connect more and see more stuff from other people, and stay active on the network.<p>partialrecall: Of course it&#x27;s motivated by profit.
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ImaCakeover 5 years ago
For those worried they will become uninformed by disconnecting from news and social media. I highly recommend reading&#x2F;listening to long-form history works. You can gain a lot of perspective and understanding from learning about what has happened in the past and you might be surprised by how useful such information is for being informed about what is happening at the moment.
nautilus12over 5 years ago
Writing yet another I quit social media and now my life is better but dishonestly saying in the title that nothing happened is clickbaitey
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meeritaover 5 years ago
I&#x27;ve been 2 years without Facebook, Instagram and others. I&#x27;ve kept my Twitter account, but I barely use it. When i quit Facebook and Instagram I noticed relief. Instant relief and huge amount of batery life. I also found out who were my true friends, they write me to my whatsapp or telegram or write emails. The rest where like fake friends.
torgianover 5 years ago
I didn&#x27;t sign up for Facebook until 2007 I think. It was only to keep in touch with friends from the military.<p>Since then I&#x27;ve made friends with people that I know, but no one beyond that. So I don&#x27;t fall into the trap that a lot of other people seem to fall into (including the author).<p>That said, I think social media is something all of us can use a lot less of.
pikzelover 5 years ago
I mainly use social media when waiting for the bus, on the metro, etc. It&#x27;s nice to get some updates, but I very rarely share anything so I never fish for likes or compare myself to others. But I&#x27;m so happy that I grew up in the 80s-90s, I can&#x27;t imagine how stressful it would be to have social media as a 12-15 year old...
neon_meover 5 years ago
Interesting, I have noticed (&quot;excuse based&quot;) defensive mechanism when it comes to this topic ...<p>most people I have witnessed start to use very poor arguments of why they want to stay on social networks ... very similar to people with &quot;un-noticed&quot; alcohol problem.<p>But yes, nothing magical happend without it. Just maybe realization how stupid it is.
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dudzikover 5 years ago
I stayed away from most social media sites and use mostly chat&#x2F;email to stay in contact with friends. So I can relate to the point of having fewer and better relationships, but I found that you have to be more active for that to work. If you don&#x27;t feel comfortable reaching out to people you will get lonely as well.
andreykover 5 years ago
&quot;“Why do I take photos?”&quot;<p>This is a good question, and imo an underrated answer is to use them for digital journaling. I use an app called Journey which lets you make entries and attach photos to them, and this justifies taking photos to sort of help spur memories of fun events and such.
allthecybersover 5 years ago
I ditched Facebook long ago, Twitter has waaayyy to much politics and I’m leaning toward closing down LinkedIn because it has gotten bad lately with too much news and ads... it’d already be closed if I hadn’t gotten my last three or four jobs from it.
Charlie_26over 5 years ago
Unfollowed everyone on Facebook and now just use it as a rolodex. No more pointless scrolling through the news feed. Have done this for 2, maybe 3 years. There are browser extensions you can get that unfollow everyone.
edisonjoaoover 5 years ago
<a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;apps.apple.com&#x2F;us&#x2F;app&#x2F;foxie&#x2F;id1369279200" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;apps.apple.com&#x2F;us&#x2F;app&#x2F;foxie&#x2F;id1369279200</a> check this one out
bori5over 5 years ago
I&#x27;m 47 and thinking of starting up! Nothing magical has happened either.
evilksandrover 5 years ago
Great experience, but I just can’t say goodbye to facebook, it just magnetically drags me in. I understand all the mechanisms for displaying relevant posts and ads, but I can not resist viewing them.
newshortsover 5 years ago
Quite Facebook back in the early days once I realized it was making me hate my own life.<p>Haven’t looked back and I’d like to think I’ve spent that time doing something better.<p>In reality I probably just filled that time with Netflix...
jugg1esover 5 years ago
The article said he decided to quit THIS MONTH! Does that really justify an article on Sept 10th?<p>Edit: it seems like that was a typo in the article if he says he was off for a whole year. Pretty big typo, though.
gran_colombiaover 5 years ago
I hate people. Getting rid of social media was amazing. No more people!
trumbitta2over 5 years ago
I don&#x27;t know. I thought about quitting social media a lot, but I still think being a member of developer communities is something I want and need for my job and passion.
jergasonover 5 years ago
I wrote about this a few years ago too! <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;link.medium.com&#x2F;UUBEJ4ZOSZ" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;link.medium.com&#x2F;UUBEJ4ZOSZ</a>
jcpsimmonsover 5 years ago
Hi all, thanks for reading. It’s late here but excited to read comments tomorrow. Please be patient with the site, it’s getting the HN hug and keeps going offline.
test1235over 5 years ago
&gt;I don’t think I have a lot of friends but it doesn’t bug me at all. I actively maintain (and I mean actively) about 10 friendships not including family<p>I have like 1, or 2.
Yuval_Haleviover 5 years ago
I wish I could do the same, to be honest.<p>In my job, I&#x27;m required every day to consume a lot of information from many different platforms.<p>It turned me into Content Junkey
werberover 5 years ago
I really like ello, I have no friends but still get a few random likes and views on the bs I see that feels artsy
ropiwqefjnpoaover 5 years ago
Nothing magical, but he seems pretty pleased with the results. He&#x27;s not returning to social media.
Hnrobert42over 5 years ago
He made the resolution this month? Poring, not pouring. Clued in to?<p>And that was just in the first few paragraphs.
redleggedfrogover 5 years ago
<i>sigh</i> Too bad this is now the special case. While I agree this is me just having a get off my lawn moment, I liked it better when you just talked to your friends on the phone. With lands lines, and all their beautiful fidelity.<p>But, can&#x27;t be a Luddite. It&#x27;s here to stay, like smoking, and I tolerate it as such.
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bashwizardover 5 years ago
+5 years here and still not missing anything about social media whatsoever.
Gaussianover 5 years ago
One magical thing happened: your site broke. Good problems, etc.
cryptozeusover 5 years ago
Op looks like your server quit in you too. Getting 503 error.
novaleafover 5 years ago
biggest reason to quit: time. all those 30 second to 5 min checks add up through the days&#x2F;months&#x2F;years.
peter303over 5 years ago
Sounds like a poor millennial affliction.
mythrwyover 5 years ago
I quit social media and posted about it on social media and got a whole bunch of likes and retweets.
droptablemainover 5 years ago
Can&#x27;t read because the site got HN&#x27;ed but upvoted anyway. <i>shrugs</i>
rcontiover 5 years ago
&gt; I made a resolution in September of 2019 that I would quit social media indefinitely.<p>good start.
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diminotenover 5 years ago
I quit Facebook for a few years, it didn&#x27;t do anything to my life one way or another, except maybe put me in a group of people others had to reach out &quot;out of band&quot; to invite to things, which practically meant I had to hear about events second hand or not go to things.<p>The emotional vitriol inspired by social media is completely unfounded. You can make it whatever experience you want; people just like to complain.<p>This article should be titled, &quot;I don&#x27;t know how to use social media so I gave up on it.&quot;
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not_a_cop75over 5 years ago
Am I wrong for stating that a social mediate is basically trying to say nothing happened to get more &quot;atta-boys&quot; from the social media empire at large?<p>I mean what you focus on is what has power. Social media doesn&#x27;t deserve the power or respect that academia has, nor will it ever.Enforce social media to be purely academic and I might feel differently.
dymkover 5 years ago
Why was the title changed to remove the “and nothing magical happened” part, @mods?
rolltiideover 5 years ago
&gt; the people that were going to come, were going to come anyways.<p>This is the same for you aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews<p>You’ll keep in touch with the ones you actually care about and vice versa
HNLurker2over 5 years ago
Can&#x27;t read the article Simmons. What the fuck dude?
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