If you want to have an impact in tech, build the tech. Relying on dinner parties for connections is always going to be too try hard. Socialites live and die by dreams. We are engineers. We build utilities, not relationships. Of course, take it from the guys whose very existence depends on relationships and you'll be gaslit into an entirely different perspective.<p>Code doesn't care about whose hands you shook. Just build the infrastructures you want to see. Shake hands later.
Jaleesa Garland moved to Tulsa in October, decamping from Berkeley, California. Living in the expensive Bay Area was a grind since she shared a house with anywhere from four to six roommates, shelling out $1,150 for a tiny bedroom.<p>"I shared a bathroom with at least three other people at any given point in time," she says. "Yeah, it was rough."<p>Rough got rougher when the pandemic hit and she and all her roommates all worked from home. Garland knew it was time to find a new city. She considered somewhat cheaper places popular with millennials like herself — such as Austin, Texas, and Portland, Ore. — and then she heard about Tulsa Remote. The program, which is funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, hosted her for a visit in July. And she was sold. <a href="https://www.npr.org/2020/12/20/944986123/you-want-to-move-some-cities-will-pay-you-10-000-to-relocate?utm_source=pocket-newtab" rel="nofollow">https://www.npr.org/2020/12/20/944986123/you-want-to-move-so...</a>