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Ask HN: How to Deal with Pushy Clients

8 pointsby 2bor-2nover 4 years ago
How do you guys deal with a client who is always pushing you to deliver quickly. I work as a freelancer on multiple projects and there is a client who always gives you tight deadlines and expects multiple features/fixes at the end of every week. He use phrases like "I need your help to wrap this up ASAP", "I am under a lot of pressure and time constraint" etc. What strategies do you guys use to handle such situations?

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codegeekover 4 years ago
You need to set the right expectations from the start and educate your clients about your process and how you deliver. I know it gets better with experience but you absolutely always must have some high level estimates from your end that client should agree with upfront.<p>Few tips:<p>- &quot;Give you tight deadlines&quot;. Doesn&#x27;t work that way. YOU are the one who will give them an estimate and a timeline based on their requirements. Sorry but don&#x27;t get forced into delivering something quick because you want to please the client. You will always lose. Never agree to an aggressive timeline. Whatever you think is reasonable, multiply by 3 before agreeing with the client.<p>- Tell the client that timelines can shift if they change scope. Some things just take time.<p>- Remember that some people just have the habit of making everything urgent. In many cases, they don&#x27;t really mean it. But it depends on the person. If everything is urgent, nothing is urgent. Challenge them on it if needed.<p>- Always under promise and over deliver if possible. It is better to say &quot;3 months for this project&quot; and deliver in &quot;2.5 months&quot; than &quot;Yes I can finish in 3 weeks&quot; and then you are nowhere near it in 3 weeks.<p>- If client keeps asking to deliver quickly, remind them of the timeline that was agreed mutually.<p>- At the end of the day, it is 1 client. If they are becoming a nuisance, drop them. Beauty of freelance and being your own boss. Don&#x27;t let a client boss you around. Find another one.
zorrolovskyover 4 years ago
I agree with @epc. in the mid to long term, it’s best to drop clients that constantly put pressure on you.<p>Receiving pressure on a constant basis takes a toll on mental health, and health is our most precious asset. Don’t waste it with people who are not worth it!<p>Here’s an argument to convince you: your client is not creating the kind of environment where you will produce high quality work or grow much as a professional. He’s creating the kind of environment where you will just ‘get stuff done’, lose your passion and be miserable in the long term.<p>If you&#x27;d like to fix the relationship rather than to break it, my recommendation is to learn negotiation skills. They&#x27;re very useful for life in general, so it&#x27;s worth investing time in learning them.<p>There are reams of books, webs, podcasts, videos, etc. about the art of negotiation so you can start by the type of content that suits you best.<p>After you learn sufficient negotiation skills, I suggest you use them with your difficult client and see what comes out. Maybe he or she stops being a bully. You know, sometimes people are abusive just because they can get away with it. The moment they see strong pushback or confrontation they typically flee to find the next (poor) victim.<p>To your examples, I would reply something like:<p>&quot;I need your help to wrap this up ASAP&quot; Sure, let me have a look at my to-do list and I&#x27;ll get back to you with a delivery date ASAP (then, calculate a date that already includes a safety buffer and negotiate with the client)<p>&quot;I am under a lot of pressure and time constraint&quot; I understand and I empathise with you, but I also have a lot going on and I don&#x27;t want to promise you something I can&#x27;t deliver. Can we please go over the scope and activities together to put realistic timings on them?<p>Tactics: - show the other person you&#x27;re on his&#x2F;her camp - explain that it&#x27;s not reasonable to commit to dates that can&#x27;t be met. Bonus points if done with confidence. - expose the risk they&#x27;re creating by committing to something that is not reasonable - position the discussion as win &#x2F; win... you need to review dates for your client&#x27;s own good (what would his or her boss say after deadlines are not met?)
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taxcoderover 4 years ago
In the accounting world, the advice to trim the bottom five or ten percent of clients <i>each year</i> is often thrown around. If you have the ability to replace this client, that is one option.<p>If you choose to retain the client, retrain him or you. You know the client, yourself, and the situation far better than we do. Will an email with an excerpt from the contract quiet him down? What about responding with &quot;It will be done when it&#x27;s done&quot; or &quot;You are one of my clients. If you want me to work only for you, you will have to pay me much more.&quot;?<p>It is up to you to decide if you can allow the pressure to roll off your back or not - I&#x27;m guessing you have a hard time with that based on your post. That is a useful trait to cultivate, perhaps you can use this client for that until he decides to search for someone less learned in the art, someone who will jump when he demands.<p>Edit: Formatting
epcover 4 years ago
Assuming that I’ve met the expectations set in the statement of work or contract, I finish the outstanding items and then drop the client. It is never worth it, such clients almost always have an excuse why they cannot pay outstanding invoices.
jasonkesterover 4 years ago
One thing you learn early when consulting, especially when juggling multiple part-time clients, is to never spring into action and deliver immediately.<p>It&#x27;s a tough one to learn, since you want to demonstrate how fast you are and usually the thing the client wants is indeed a five minute fix. But the reality is that the client will only appreciate the &quot;quick turnaround&quot; part as a novelty for a little while before it just becomes his expectation that you&#x27;ll always be sitting at the ready to turn his requests around instantly. It can be really hard to walk that back after the fact.<p>Instead, when he asks for that next quick thing, &quot;have a look at your schedule&quot; and report that you can &quot;probably break off some time early next week&quot;. Now, chances are that&#x27;s complete fiction and you could just as easily break off the entire rest of this week as well as all of next month because this is your only client. But still, get in the habit of saying it if only to avoid this trap.<p>One day, with luck, you really will have trouble breaking off time for clients with less than a month&#x27;s notice.
mackatsolover 4 years ago
Push back.. if his sense of urgency is to become yours then it needs to be worth it. Do not undersell yourself. Tell the client that you will need to shift other projects around to accommodate him. Then tell him his urgent work gets billed at your rush rate. Which should be at least double your regular rate, plus you require a payment &#x2F; retainer of 50% before starting the work.<p>I suspect that it will not be quite so urgent after all. If it still is, that&#x27;s great, you&#x27;re prepared and can focus on the work. Your other clients will respect that you took on a rush job. Watch out for any deadlines you&#x27;ve already promised! Some should not be changed, you know your clients better than we do.<p>As for negotiation tactics, I find that if I listen more and talk less I learn a lot from the client. Ask questions, take notes, show them you&#x27;re serious. Don&#x27;t let yourself be bowled over by their panic mode. Learn to say No. Learn to say I don&#x27;t know.<p>But in the end not all clients are worth keeping.
asimpoover 4 years ago
Own your timeline and be super upfront about it. Setting expectations in the beginning is a big one. I like to let freelance clients know what my typical turn-around is, how unexpected requests are handled, and most importantly what I charge when there is a rush.
mooredsover 4 years ago
Charge the client more.<p>Seriously, that&#x27;s one of the levers you have. Tell the client that your rate is now $CURRATE * 1.5.<p>Either you make more money or you lose the client.
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