I wound up in a situation that involved creating a frame control bubble around someone who I had no power relationship to in the hierarchy. It ultimately became intolerable to the other person but ultimately self-actualization was the bait to the trap and they made off with it.<p>I’d never done anything like it before. It was in the context of quitting a video game addiction and bringing many ideas from the video game world into human relationships.<p>I see her moral position but given that it is effect as opposed to intent there is a possibility that Frame Control can be communication by other means, particularly used outside the conventional hierarchy of work and romantic relationships.