Hi HN,<p>I’m getting older and with each year that passes I realise how valuable the small things are — like getting a call on your birthday.<p>I’ve stopped using Facebook for 3 years now but I can’t seem to find a good way to keep track of birthdays or other important events.<p>I’ve tried using a self-made Roam system after I got frustrated with my Notion duct-tape solution. I’ve also used personal CRMs, like Dex, but they seem built for “professional connectors” — which I am not :)<p>How do you do it? Pen and paper? Real rolodex?
You might want to check out <a href="https://github.com/monicahq/monica" rel="nofollow">https://github.com/monicahq/monica</a>. Requires an upkeep but the UX is great.
Microsoft 365 Family calendar that’s shared. We have about 30 people who update the calendar across family and fiends. Private, secure, cheap at $45 (costco) a year.