What is the best way to focus? I'm often being distracted by everything around me while working. At the office, I heard what my colleague discuss and always want to jump in.
When wfh, noise from cars, tv, fam members talk...also borders me a lot. I've tried using headphone but I don't think it work. Can you guys give me some recommendation on how you apply to stay focus?
For me, my biggest huddle in staying focus is that I tend to procrastinate a lot.<p>My advice would be to give the Pomodoro technique a try. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique</a><p>Divide your working time into 25-minute intervals, with a 5-minute rest in between to recharge your focus.<p>It helps me stay concentrated and prevent procrastination.
Work out what is distracting you.<p>If it is your own mind distracting you, then give yourself 10 minutes to do a task that are avoiding, and reward yourself afterwards. The reward should be small, but something you only do after you've finished the task.<p>If it is what others are saying that distracts you, then go back to the headphones and this time listen to Brown Noise loud enough that it wipes out what people are saying around you.<p>If it is email/chat/socials that are distracting you, then close all programs except for those that you need to do your job. If you have to have email open, set email rules to pull out the emails important for your job, and store the non-critical emails in a separate location so you don't worry about them.<p>I personally find that headphones help a lot, but for me I must listen to either Brown Noise (or white, or blue, or whatever is best for you) sounds, or listen to music that has no words and has no beat. Words in music distract me, and any beat in music also distracts. I've also found if I can't understand the language that singers are singing, that is less distracting, so Benedictine Monks is fine.
Do you remember when you were a child and something held your fascination so tightly and deeply that you snapped out of a trance many hours later?<p>Look for that thing that you can dive into. Then block out the other things. Noise cancelling headphones, blocked out calendar, phone on silent, meal prep, wfh. Treat your time and attention as a limit and precious resource. Agency is a wonderful thing.
Sometimes distraction is not caused by the actual distractions around yourself but by problems with regulating your emotions - you may not want to do the thing you want to focus on, it may be too challenging or it may make you anxious.<p>One approach to overcome this is to try and partition the task into very small portions that you can do - that way you can make progress without being overwhelmed by the task.
I actually have short span of focus as well. My advice is to listen to music while you are working, any kind of music will do, especially one that boost your boost.
If you have inner anxiety then it will prevent you from focusing. Check with yourself if you have some fundamental problem that is bugging you throughout life.