I am first year Computer Science student and I've had lectures just for month now and I am already struggling with some courses. I've been programming since 15 years old and I love to do it, but now in university, I just can't handle the theory (computer engineering etc). So, maybe university is not for everybody? Maybe I am just too stupid to get the degree of Computer Science?
In addition to the great advice from Mz, I'd say that the first year of undergraduate is more about "learning how to learn" than anything else. It's likely actual real life applications are going to be less relevant in that first year (which is perhaps where your strengths currently lie, and at this early stage in your career that would be an exceptional string to your bow even if not so helpful in the first year).<p>The reality is that the theory can be important, but also if you flunk some theory courses but are great at the practical applications that's actually far more valuable than the converse (unless you're hell bent on going into a more theoretical branch of CS). If there are elements you're really struggling with I dare say there will be people here and elsewhere on the webz willing to lend a helping hand.<p>Stick with it. Don't believe you're too stupid - you're not. Nothing is difficult, things are just complicated, and it's all about taking the time to understand that complexity and it's components to make sense of it all.
No, its not for everybody, but it definitely can help you be a better programmer. I also struggled with the CS heavy classes in college. I ended up taking a program that let me do half art and half programming. It ended up being pretty helpful for web programming but probably not the best if you want to be a system level programmer.
University is not for everyone. However, it seems to me that drop-outs fair better when they are running to something rather than away from something. If you have no idea what on earth you wish to do with your life, muddling through at uni (at least until you figure it out) is probably less damaging to future opportunities than muddling through flipping burgers at some fast food joint while your parents yell at you.<p>You might also look into the possibility that you are "twice exceptional" -- that you are bright but have some hidden learning disabilities. Such people often are enormously frustrated and find that many things come too easily to them but then stuff that is more challenging is simply impossible. For such people, appropriate diagnosis and accommodation can be a godsend.<p>Best of luck.