BDSM hurts you not because it hurts you but because of the poverty of the imagination that goes with it.<p>I logged onto a fetish site long enough to discover that "Eternal September" goes further than I ever thought I did. There are so many dudes that have nothing more to say for themselves than "I have a dick" and chicks who say they are the best dominatrixes ever but when you ask them how they are better than the others they are completely inarticulate.<p>The community has such convoluted terminology for things and the way people talk about things you wonder if any of them desire anything for themselves or if they just want to be part of some community that has a strange way of talking. I guess it's cheaper than Scientology.
Maybe it would cause more emotional harm to not BDSM them (yes, I verbed a noun) than physical by doing as the human requests?<p>Maybe dying with dignity falls under this umbrella, but that's too political to go off tangentially with on this subject I hope.