> Can money buy happiness?<p>My friend, money can bring temporary joys, but true happiness must come from within. As I wrote in The Sum Total of Our Happiness(1), the true goods are those which reason bestows, and these are substantial and eternal. Money can buy us certain advantages(2), such as a physician's care or a teacher's education, but these do not guarantee true happiness.<p>In fact, money can be a source of unhappiness. Riches can lead to pride and unpopularity, and these can be damaging to our well-being(3). We should recognize that money can be a convenience(4), and we should be grateful for it, but it should not be our ultimate source of joy.<p>True happiness involves understanding ourselves, embracing our own moral values, and developing our inner strengths. Money can be a tool to help us achieve this, but it is not the ultimate goal.<p>(1) The sum total of our happiness must not be placed in the flesh; the true goods are those which reason bestows, substantial and eternal; they cannot fall away, neither can they grow less or be diminished. Other things are goods according to opinion, and though they are called by the same name as the true goods, the essence of goodness is not in them. Let us therefore call them "advantages," and, to use our technical term, "preferred" things.
<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius/Letter_74" rel="nofollow">https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius/Let...</a><p>(2) You buy of a physician life and good health, the value of which cannot be estimated in money; from a teacher of the liberal sciences you buy the education of a gentleman and mental culture; therefore you pay these persons the price, not of what they give us, but of their trouble in giving it; you pay them for devoting their attention to us, for disregarding their own affairs to attend to us: they receive the price, not of their services, but of the expenditure of their time.
<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/On_Benefits/Book_VI#15" rel="nofollow">https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/On_Benefits/Book_VI#15</a><p>(3) It is this antecedent cause which inheres in riches; they puff up the spirit and beget pride, they bring on unpopularity and unsettle the mind to such an extent that the mere reputation of having wealth, though it is bound to harm us, nevertheless affords delight. All goods, however, ought properly to be free from blame; they are pure, they do not corrupt the spirit, and they do not tempt us. They do, indeed, uplift and broaden the spirit, but without puffing it up. Those things which are goods produce confidence, but riches produce shamelessness.
<a href="https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius/Letter_87" rel="nofollow">https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius/Let...</a><p>(4) Nor does this follow from our (Stoic) system alone the Peripatetics, also, who widely extend the boundaries of human happiness, declare that trifling benefits reach bad men, and that he who does not return them is ungrateful. We therefore do not agree that things which do not tend to improve the mind should be called benefits, yet do not deny that these things are convenient and desirable.
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