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Ask HN: Advice for a 25 yr old moving to SF?

15 pointsby joshuawildeover 2 years ago
25 yrs old. Been programming since I was ~13. Grew up in a small town. Maybe spent a total of 7 months living in a big city.<p>Looking to move to SF in a month or two (will try out a STR first, and if I like that then I&#x27;ll commit).<p>My main goals are to : 1. Be around more like minded people (especially with tech and business) 2. Increase my business opportunities and expand my mindset. 3. Make lifelong friends 4. Form mutually beneficial relationships (wrt business&#x2F;tech)<p>To be clear, I run a mobile game dev studio with my family, so I have plenty busy with my own projects (not looking for work), but I want to get ahead of the curve some more and increase my opportunities.<p>Don&#x27;t think anyone wants to read my life story, so I&#x27;ll leave it at that.<p>Any advice? General or specific, I&#x27;ll take anything.

10 comments

smt88over 2 years ago
Don&#x27;t move there. It&#x27;s a hellhole and the cost of living isn&#x27;t worth it.<p>Look at Austin, Denver, Atlanta, or Chicago instead. You don&#x27;t need a 1,000 startups around you when you&#x27;ll only ever interact with a few dozen.
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kleer001over 2 years ago
25 eh? I envy you. You&#x27;re frontal lobes have just come online. You can finally make good long term decisions.<p>Sadly the time to move to the SF bay was in the early 1990&#x27;s. So, don&#x27;t chase someone else&#x27;s dreams.<p>Your goals can be met easily by going to university. Actually, best met. Go. You&#x27;re not done learning, you&#x27;ve only just begin. Don&#x27;t feel weird that you&#x27;ll be 5-7 years older than everyone else. Just be cool. Keep your head down, filter your friends fiercely. Don&#x27;t be a creep or a douche, haha. Then graduate with a degree and a wife and a bevy of friends.<p>Don&#x27;t want to go to university? Making friends is going to be 1000x harder. No joke.
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tomparkover 2 years ago
* FiDi or SoMa got kinda seedy during the pandemic, so you might want to avoid living there. Since you&#x27;re young, you might like the vibe in the Mission or Marina&#x2F;Cow Hollow. My favorite neighborhoods are the ones with Victorians&#x2F;flats west of Hayes Valley (Duboce Tri, Lower Haight, Castro, Divis&#x2F;Nopa, etc).<p>* When I first moved to SF I got a 1br apartment, but later rented a very nice 2br2ba flat as the &quot;master tenant&quot; and got a &quot;subtenant&quot; roommate. Maybe you wouldn&#x27;t consider having a roommate, but it&#x27;s nice to have someone else around. If you set the rent price relatively low for a high-end apartment where each person has a private bathrm, you&#x27;ll get more roommate applications than you can handle. Winnow the emails down to dozen or so. When you interview a dozen candidates, there&#x27;s almost always one person who stands out as someone who would make for a great flatmate. (Warning: if you rent a 3br place and get 2 roommates, it&#x27;s a lot more complicated. Difficult to know who did what, e.g. left food in the frig, etc)<p>* You might consider joining a lot of meetup.com groups. I joined literally over 100 SF-based groups and during the 2010&#x27;s would go to at least 2-3 per month. I stopped going to meetups during the pandemic but it seems like in-person meetups are ramping up again.<p>* You run a mobile game studio? Join the Stanford Games&#x2F;Entrepreneurs list. <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;mailman.stanford.edu&#x2F;mailman&#x2F;listinfo&#x2F;gsb-videogames" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;mailman.stanford.edu&#x2F;mailman&#x2F;listinfo&#x2F;gsb-videogames</a> It doesn&#x27;t have as much chatter as it used to, but every once in a while there&#x27;s some insider discussion. I used to be in the game industry, so I&#x27;d offer to connect you with people, but it&#x27;s been some years so my contacts are kinda old.<p>* Your main goals are mostly professional, but consider the opportunity for other things. When I first moved here, it was supposed to be temporary for maybe 3 years max, so I tried to take advantage of things here that I couldn&#x27;t do back in Atlanta. I did things like: every winter I joined a shared ski house in Tahoe, I volunteered as a National Park Service docent at the Point Bonita Lighthouse, and did more biking&#x2F;hiking&#x2F;outdoor stuff that I rarely did in Atlanta bc it was too hot there. This mindset turned out to be a nice forcing function to push me to do things that I wouldn&#x27;t have done otherwise. Like, you&#x27;re right by the ocean so you might consider taking up scuba, surfing, kayaking.<p>* Feel free to contact me. My email is in my profile.
baremetalover 2 years ago
&gt;Any advice? General or specific, I&#x27;ll take anything.<p>Be careful of the homeless and the drug addicts. Spread some cash around the homeless that frequent where you live so that they aren&#x27;t hostile. Don&#x27;t step on any poop, and keep an eye out for needles when you walk.<p>Oh and leave your car unlocked with the windows down. Don&#x27;t leave any valuables in your car. Don&#x27;t venture outside at night unless you are streetwise and know how to handle yourself.
throwawaysalomeover 2 years ago
I hope you like dudes.
paulcoleover 2 years ago
First, realize that almost all advice you get in your life will be awful.<p>Second, say yes to any and every social invitation and opportunity you have.
jiveturkeyover 2 years ago
Assume you are moving with a job in hand. Find someone, or a group, you click with at work and roommate with them. Don&#x27;t live solo.<p>Don&#x27;t work for big tech. Find a startup.
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uptownfunkover 2 years ago
Why SF, I see a lot more action happening in NYC these days than SF.
joshxyzabout 2 years ago
this thread is hilarious as hell, best of luck op
giardiniover 2 years ago
Be gay.