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Why I Quit Bridge and Why I Came Back

42 pointsby luuover 1 year ago

13 comments

slyallover 1 year ago
Addressing the &quot;Technological Illiteracy&quot; bit from the viewpoint of someone who was running a Chess Club up to 2020.<p>Depending on where you live what people do online can vary a lot, especially if you have a mix of young and old people. My Club had lots of players&#x2F;parants that used WeChat and lots that used Facebook messenger. Some people barely used the Internet. Different clubs will have different mixes.<p>I ended up having a website with updates and a Facebook group. 1-to-1 Communication was done via SMS since everybody had that. I used to also do announcements on Club night, posters on the wall and a mass SMS at the start of each year to remind people we were starting up again.<p>A website for registering is not a trivial thing to setup and maintain. Even if you are just using a SaaS vendor it will still cost significant fees. Our Club charges $100&#x2F;year to cover everything. If you want something non-standard then who knows what that will cost.<p>I know that since I left some stuff does take place on discord and some registration is done automatically online (under the grace of a club member with time). But you have to pick your technology to match your members. If most of them a 50+ then a discord that only 10% use is only for discussion, not somewhere for official communication&#x2F;business.
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mercutio2over 1 year ago
Interesting. It sounds like club bridge has changed a lot in the last 20 years (since I stopped playing).<p>The technology bit seems a little ridiculous, young people can and do respond to email just fine, I don’t think trying to move to Discord is a good use of anyone’s time.<p>But when I was a player (and struggling to get anyone to use email), everyone was unfailingly nice.
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pruetjover 1 year ago
I played a lot of tournament bridge from childhood through college and then stopped (I’m now 32).<p>For me, the two big reasons I quit were (1) the rating system, and (2) finding a partner.<p>For the rating system, it’s just not competitive. Master points don’t necessarily mean anything. If you have a lot, it means you’ve played a lot - maybe they at least mean that. You could play for 50 years and easily become a life master but be complete garbage compared to the kid who did it in a month or two. There’s no information to understand how successful you actually are minus what you alone know about yourself and your game. It’s just not as fun, especially once I started to play games that make success extremely evident via stats &#x2F; ranking.<p>Bridge is very unique in needing a partner to play with and one that you understand quite well. I once played with one of the best players in the world as a 16 year old (literally, one of the “best” at least master point wise). We did terrible lol. I didn’t know what he was doing and he couldn’t stoop down to my level all too well. How do you find the right partner? Not really sure. Again, I think it’s actually a cool part of the game, adds a unique social element and togetherness to it but it does make getting plugged into it harder.
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shruubiover 1 year ago
I&#x27;m 30, so roughly the same age as the poster of this article. But for a person who (rightfully so) derides the ageism and racism they encounter, their whole section on technical literacy is just a modern-spin take on ageism.<p>Just because people my age and younger use discord etc, doesn&#x27;t mean this is either a &quot;good&quot; way for people to communicate, or something we should force people whose technical literacy could vary wildly between extremes to try and figure out.<p>Personally, I hate discord and messaging in general and much prefer to make phone calls. I guess that makes me an anomaly compared to my generation, but I generally find that whole section rude and trying to solve their own personal problem, not the problems of the community as a whole.
paganelover 1 year ago
&gt; Online bridge needs <i>visible</i> rewards for success. BBO is out of the 90s, but presuming we get something modern eventually, give me custom board skins! Let me have a penguin for an avatar. Give me a special hat for winning a certain tournament. Young folks engage with cosmetic rewards, and they don&#x27;t have to be predatory!<p>Fortunately that&#x27;s not always the case with young people, I mean, this avatar-mania thing. Bridge is not anime- or otaku-adjacent.<p>Back to the subject at hand, and taking into consideration that I&#x27;ve never ever played bridge (but some of the people from my uni used to play back in the day, including one dorm roommate), I feel like the OP wants to change the entire culture of the game being played around his&#x2F;her&#x2F;their parts of the world (I think it&#x27;s the Valley) only on account of him&#x2F;her&#x2F;they being younger. That&#x27;s not how it works, there are moments in life when you have to adapt to the existing culture, not the other way round.
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misja111over 1 year ago
It sounds like OP just had bad luck with the club he chose to play for. I used to play a lot when I was young (23); tournaments, club competition etc. I never got bad comments about my age, quite the opposite: people were happy to get some young blood in their club. I&#x27;m white so can&#x27;t comment about any racism, but in general the atmosphere has always been very friendly and polite.
robertlagrantover 1 year ago
Do most 20-30 people use Discord? And if they do - so what? That excludes people 30+.<p>I would have thought WhatsApp would be a more universal tool for communicating updates. Or email, because people <i>do</i> use email. We just use it less as a proportion of all our communication than we used to.
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ahgamutover 1 year ago
One of the comments in the OP:<p><pre><code> I believe the problem is that bridge in the US (not true in some other countries) lacks a &quot;critical mass&quot; of 20 and 30 somethings. </code></pre> I like to play bridge, but all the people I have asked in my age group (the 20 and 30 somethings) say bridge is a game their (grand)parents (used to) play. I am not sure how bridge can be introduced as a fun hobby without the face-to-face aspect, because compared to other online games it does seem a bit monotone.
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rpigabover 1 year ago
None of those issues exist in Klondike Solitaire!
foucover 1 year ago
I&#x27;ve always wanted to try bridge but have yet to do so. I&#x27;ve played the variations with friends &amp; family - 500, Whist, and Euchre. So much fun!
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jmyeetover 1 year ago
So I played club bridge and the odd ACBL tournament for several years so can speak to this.<p>Let me start by saying Bridge is a great game. I always liked the biding side of the game more than the card play. The former informs the latter.<p>The poster said something strange where players and directors objected to systems they wanted to play and mentioned specifically &quot;2&#x2F;1 GF&quot;. I don&#x27;t know where they were playing but that&#x27;s a pretty standard system. In North America, people generally play what are called &quot;5 card majors&quot;, meaning you don&#x27;t open 1 heart or 1 spade unless you have 5+ in that suit (with opening hand strength). 2&#x2F;1 GF simply means if your partner responds with a 2 bid of a lower suit (eg 1S-2C) you now can&#x27;t stop bidding until you reach a game level contract (3N, 4H&#x2F;S, 5C&#x2F;D). That has some consequences but it isn&#x27;t <i>that</i> different to the NA 5 card majors and everywhere I played that was standard.<p>There are systems you can&#x27;t play in certain events. In any ACBL sanctioned event you can play what are called &quot;general card&quot; systems so no one can object to a system that is permitted in an event.<p>A club game will typically be 21-27 boards, last about 3 hours and involve anywhere from 3 to 30+ tables.<p>The ACBL is in the business of selling masterpoints. This is as close as you get to a ratings system but it doesn&#x27;t reflect skill, just how much you&#x27;ve been to ACBL events. Some events bracket you on masterpoints. There are different colours (eg silver for local tournaments, gold&#x2F;red for regional and I think platinum for certain national events). The ACBL makes money by you going to those events where, at least prepandemic, you typically paid $20-30 per half-day session.<p>Clubs in NA are very much set up to cater to a very old crowd. Like the poster says, most events are during the workday. Only the largest clubs had evening or weekend games and they tended to have smaller attendance.<p>I agree finding a reliable Bridge partner is the biggest hurdle. Playing with pick up partners is way less common and less satisfying. All competitive Bridge is with fixed partnerships or teams.<p>What&#x27;s interesting about Bridge is that it&#x27;s been fairly resistant to AI. Of course any computer can remember all the cards they&#x27;ve seen but even I as a fairly mediocre player saw the flaws in both biding and play of pretty much every computer Bridge game I tried.<p>The ACBL has, at every opportunity, chosen to cater to their existing base rather than expanding it and it&#x27;s been a running joke for years that every year the average age of an ACBL member goes up by 1 year. It&#x27;s not too far from the truth.<p>I can&#x27;t speak to discrimination. This probably depends on area to some degree. But club Bridge players are (IME), at best, a cantankerous and disagreeable lot.
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TylerEover 1 year ago
Reasonably serious (although not major tournament playing bridge player here if anyone has questions. (Not, like, true expert, but probably 99th percentile of active US players)
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moominover 1 year ago
I feel like someone smart reading this will interpret it as less of a complaint and more as a free business plan.