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On Work-Life Balance

1 pointsby wawhalover 1 year ago

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ttfkamover 1 year ago
Likely written by a single man, late 20s to early 30s.<p>And so the cycle continues. New folks enter the industry and get some real paper in their pockets. &quot;I don&#x27;t see what the big deal is. Work hard. Play hard.&quot;<p>They get married. Have kids. &quot;Oh woah. Those twelve hour work days are really hard to manage without neglecting attention to my family. They keep complaining I&#x27;m always on my laptop and work just laid off 15% of the workforce, so I have even more on my plate.&quot;<p>A divorce later. &quot;They were fine with the money but didn&#x27;t want to deal with what it takes to get it. Work hard! Play hard! Send alimony!&quot;<p>…or…<p>Disillusionment. &quot;I worked like a dog for all those years, missed my kids&#x27; first words, first steps, first everythings. And for what? A few extra options in a startup that didn&#x27;t end up going anywhere?&quot;<p>At this point, you try to explain to the young bucks about how there needs to be a work-life balance, but they are as stubborn and brainwashed as you were. &quot;Shut up, old man. Just put the work in. Work hard! Play hard!&quot;<p>Wash, rinse, repeat every 15-20 years.<p>1% follow the mantra, get rich, and pay their way out of troubles: more foreign vacations, housekeeper, therapy for kids, etc. Then they talk about how smart they are and how &quot;no one wants to work anymore&quot;.<p>The other 99% have health problems and regret all the unpaid overtime instead of seeing their kid&#x27;s crappy school play, crappy piano recital, crappy soccer game, and all the other &quot;crappy&quot; events that end up being the greatest when you see your kid light up just from you being there and proud of them for giving it their all. Because &quot;all&quot; isn&#x27;t about an extra soccer goal. It never was.