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A marriage proposal spoken in office jargon

412 pointsby ohjeez4 months ago

57 comments

jader2014 months ago
I think I could be alone, but one of my biggest office-speak pet peeves is using verbs as nouns.<p>Like “ask” (I hear this one all the time), “(value) add”, and “solve” (used in this article - I cringed).<p>I see this a lot on HN too, so again, many others here will obviously not agree. But I’ll intentionally use “request” or “question” over “ask” just in protest.<p>I know the English language has been using some verbs as nouns for millennia, but there are particular ones (like the ones above) that I mostly hear at the office (or outside the office, but spoken by “office folk”), and it’s definitely an annoy.<p>EDIT: Turns out I&#x27;m not alone. Thanks for the validate.
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lastofthemojito4 months ago
I have a long-time friend who, after years in fintech, now sometimes speaks this way unironically in non-work situations. I mean, I still think he&#x27;s a good guy overall but when he recommends the DND party splits up to maximize ROI on a spell rather than just say &quot;let&#x27;s split up&quot;, it does make me cringe.
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guftagu4 months ago
When I proposed to my wife, I met her after a couple of years and didn&#x27;t know at the time if she was seeing someone. I nudged the conversation towards that topic and once I found out that she isn&#x27;t, I literally proposed to her in office jargon. I said, &quot;So if the vacancy is still available, can I apply?&quot;. She said yes, and we got married eventually but she still isn&#x27;t too happy about that proposal line.
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grumpwagon4 months ago
Another classic in this genre: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.newyorker.com&#x2F;humor&#x2F;daily-shouts&#x2F;a-deep-dive-to-remember-a-love-story-between-business-managers-written-by-a-business-manager" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.newyorker.com&#x2F;humor&#x2F;daily-shouts&#x2F;a-deep-dive-to-...</a>
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bilalq4 months ago
I&#x27;d like to think I minimize the bleedover of corporate&#x2F;profession-related speech into my daily life, but &quot;orthogonal&quot; and &quot;non-trivial&quot; were just not a standard part of my vocabulary before college. Over a decade later, I find myself saying them a lot.
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xxs4 months ago
That&#x27;s proper corporate speak, not so much office jargon. One note: to table in the UK means to put it to vote&#x2F;address, rather than &quot;put it under the rug&quot;
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stuff4ben4 months ago
I have queries and doubts on the proposed union. See attached ticket. Please do the needful.
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sporkland4 months ago
Adjacent News Radio Marriage Proposal: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=y-yGUSRdNG4" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=y-yGUSRdNG4</a>
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delegate4 months ago
Start with the &#x27;Wedding&#x27; epic in Jira. Add a few spikes to figure out the details and bring those into the current sprint.
sarchertech4 months ago
Congratulations! I hate it. You did forget to include my person pet peeve—learnings.<p>We already have a word for that—lessons.
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jckahn4 months ago
If you don’t get the joke, you may be a product manager
ChrisMarshallNY4 months ago
Here&#x27;s a classic: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;professionalsuperhero.com" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;professionalsuperhero.com</a>
ramon1564 months ago
Get a slack channel you two
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kmoser4 months ago
Brilliant! But two phrases I was hoping to see weren&#x27;t there: &quot;reach out&quot; and &quot;embrace.&quot;
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jbl0ndie4 months ago
This is ripe for a Krazam adaptation.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;youtu.be&#x2F;1RAMRukKqQg?si=CrRUbA3Ktsm5v7Kk" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;youtu.be&#x2F;1RAMRukKqQg?si=CrRUbA3Ktsm5v7Kk</a>
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bravetraveler4 months ago
Take this offline, you two
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mrandish4 months ago
I recently retired early from a large, F100 valley tech company and there are a few things I miss. But this is definitely something I will never miss!
kazinator4 months ago
Jumps off the creativity shark at &quot;will you marry me&quot;.<p>Should be &quot;shall we convince the board of directors of your parent corporation to underwrite a merger deal whereby we unite your corporate assets with mine under a single shelter?<p>As a modern organization, you may continue to operate under the same branding, if you choose, and the value of your stock shall not be diluted.
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the_af4 months ago
It&#x27;s funny, but it sounds more like corporate&#x2F;management speak than office jargon.<p>Employees, when no managers are present, seldom talk to each other like this. Sometimes, the way we actually speak to each other, would get us fired if someone from management was eavesdropping.
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storf454 months ago
Sounds like a pair of Corporate SEALs! <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=SUtL6IS7wcY" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=SUtL6IS7wcY</a>
EGreg4 months ago
I thought they were going to show this:<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=y-yGUSRdNG4" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=y-yGUSRdNG4</a>
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wkjagt4 months ago
I haven&#x27;t worked in an office in over three years. I sometimes think I miss it but now I no longer don&#x27;t.
carimura4 months ago
Solid but could have double-clicked on Excel and Powerpoint more to complete the roadmap.
grotorea4 months ago
Lost opportunity to say &quot;Would you accept a merger?&quot; instead of marriage.
DesiLurker4 months ago
here is a more direct proposal to contrast: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;shorts&#x2F;3GlKd5DOJLE" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;shorts&#x2F;3GlKd5DOJLE</a>
ashton3144 months ago
See also &quot;Mission Statement&quot; by Weird Al: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=GyV_UG60dD4" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=GyV_UG60dD4</a>
sam_goody4 months ago
&gt; But I’m so sorry, I have a three-thirty.<p>I assume that means that she doesn&#x27;t accept the proposal (lit. she has a meeting at 3:30), but don&#x27;t quite follow how that.<p>Can someone reach out and break that down for me.
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VincentEvans4 months ago
Solves, asks, learnings.<p>It was a surprise when I discovered just how much negativity and frustration wells up in me when I see verbs turn into nouns when there are already perfectly serviceable nouns available.<p>I am motivated to passive aggressively retaliate by turning even more verbs into unnecessary nouns: seeings, helpings, deliverings, discussings, respondings.
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robertlagrant4 months ago
&gt; we can action on our solve<p>This causes me physical pain.
M95D4 months ago
Nothing about any sales, targets, deadlines, etc.? Not even an Excel or ppt reference? I&#x27;m dissapointed!
throw74 months ago
I imagined Gary as Ira Glass and Cindy as Jen Psaki. I could make it only about halfway before I threw up a little.
remoquete4 months ago
It reads like a script from Succession.
bitwize4 months ago
Wow, really impactful share! I feel like I got some great take-aways and learnings from this.
dennis_jeeves24 months ago
We need a similar one for divorce.
patrickmay4 months ago
I threw up in my mouth a little.
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ravish00074 months ago
My girlfriend did the same to me. Still haven&#x27;t circled back till this day.
malingo4 months ago
No &quot;level set&quot;?? Booo
throw48472854 months ago
Reminds me of a George Saunders story, though it&#x27;s missing the horror element.
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uptownhr4 months ago
GARY: Hey Cindy, remember last week when we were debugging that system design issue?<p>CINDY: Yeah, we got some pretty elegant solutions out of that sprint.<p>GARY: Exactly. That got me thinking: our relationship feels like a system that’s not just functional—it’s optimized.<p>CINDY: Oh? I’d like to hear your use case for that.<p>GARY: Well, I’ve run some simulations, and the output is consistent. You’re my primary key, Cindy. The stability and scalability of our relationship are off the charts.<p>CINDY: That’s a strong endorsement, Gary. I’ve been analyzing our feedback loops, and I feel the same way. You’ve really reduced my latency and maximized my throughput.<p>GARY: So I figured it’s time to push to production. In addition to all the features we’ve developed, I’d like to add one more. (He takes a knee and pulls out a ring.) Cindy, will you marry me?<p>CINDY: I will, Gary! This takes our architecture to the next level.<p>GARY: Marriage is a big commit, but I think we’ve got the bandwidth to make it work.<p>CINDY: Absolutely. But we need to stay agile, especially during our onboarding phase.<p>GARY: Agreed. I’ll make sure to stay in sync during our sprints.<p>CINDY: Good. Because I have one non-negotiable: we need to maintain a clean codebase.<p>GARY: Let’s unpack that.<p>CINDY: My last relationship had too many tech debts. Every time I tried to refactor, there was pushback. It was impossible to iterate.<p>GARY: Sounds like a monolithic mess.<p>CINDY: It was. But with you, it’s different. You’re modular, efficient, and your logic is rock-solid. I just want to make sure we keep things lightweight and maintainable.<p>GARY: I couldn’t agree more. We’ll keep our dependencies up-to-date and document everything thoroughly.<p>CINDY: Perfect. Let’s set up a shared repository to start planning our roadmap.<p>GARY: Done. I’ll draft an RFC tonight so we can align on our deliverables.<p>CINDY: Great. Just flag me if you hit any blockers.<p>GARY: Will do. And Cindy? Thank you for being my forever stack overflow.<p>CINDY: And thank you for being the solution to all my edge cases.
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pastaguy14 months ago
Is &quot;solves&quot; used like that in the wild? Haven&#x27;t heard that one.
stuaxo4 months ago
I feel sick, good work - even if I couldn&#x27;t get to the end.
nottorp4 months ago
In my former communist dictatorship country, we had a term for how the party officials spoke.<p>&quot;Wooden language&quot;.<p>Applies very much to this too.
drewcoo4 months ago
In the middle ages, all of Europe could hide behind Latin . . .
ozzy60094 months ago
relevant krazam: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=1RAMRukKqQg" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=1RAMRukKqQg</a>
elijahbenizzy4 months ago
Not believable, didn&#x27;t read &quot;double click&quot;
sjducb4 months ago
I think our organisation needs to increase headcount.
msarrel4 months ago
Pretty sure discussions like this really take place
TonyTrapp4 months ago
See also: A PowerPoint Proposal by Don McMillan: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=WGiePuNFXwY" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=WGiePuNFXwY</a>
davidw4 months ago
[ Runs off screaming into the woods ]
jfactorial4 months ago
They&#x27;re perfect for each other.
eskatonic4 months ago
That was physically painful to read.<p>Brilliant.
hyperhello4 months ago
I give them twelve quarters...
feralKitten4 months ago
Valuable insight!
TwoNineFive4 months ago
I am severely disappointed there is no a single &quot;quick question&quot;, though there was a &quot;quick win&quot;, which is bad but not as offensively bad.
feralKitten4 months ago
valuable insight!
rowenaluk4 months ago
hahahaha. so good. so terrible.
ratherbefuddled4 months ago
If I had to listen to this sort of shit on a daily basis I think I&#x27;d begin to understand why you all over the water are upset about the prospect of people taking away your big shooty guns.
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