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Calling Strangers Uncle and Auntie

16 pointsby hosolmaz4 months ago

9 comments

zoidb4 months ago
For the USA<p>&gt; Level 0: Blood relatives only. “Uncle”&#x2F;”Auntie” is strictly for real uncles&#x2F;aunts (by blood or marriage). No fictive use.<p>This is definitely not true for children in the USA. I believe it is common (or for sure it was common) that children use Aunt&#x2F;Uncle for close friends of the family.
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soneca4 months ago
For Brazil, level 2 seems exactly right.<p>&gt; <i>” Level 2: Casual acquaintances. Used more widely for neighbors, family friends, or community members you vaguely know, but typically not for an absolute stranger.”</i><p>I would specifically add to he list of examples your school teacher when you are a child and the parents of your friends, seems the most common usage for it.
gus_massa4 months ago
Slightly related &quot;<i>What kind of uncle am I?</i>&quot; by Reymond Chen <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;devblogs.microsoft.com&#x2F;oldnewthing&#x2F;20090427-01&#x2F;?p=18433" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;devblogs.microsoft.com&#x2F;oldnewthing&#x2F;20090427-01&#x2F;?p=18...</a>
vortex_ape4 months ago
I grew up calling every stranger uncle and auntie in India. My British roommate in Delhi was a bit taken aback when I called our landlady &quot;auntie&quot;.
mnal4 months ago
In Spain, <i>tío</i> and <i>tía</i> are used with friends, depending on group&#x2F;region. Calling a stranger that? Not friendly, but neither openly hostile.<p>On the other hand, it&#x27;s common to refer to third persons as &quot;un tío&quot; or &quot;una tía&quot; the same way you&#x27;d say &quot;some fellow&quot; in English.
bobosha4 months ago
This is also common in the Italian&#x2F;Greek&#x2F;Indian etc. American subcultures. Immigrant cultures take their time - and sometimes never - in absorbing the larger anglo-saxon culture into their own.
somababu4 months ago
In Tamil (and South Indian states), it’s common to call elders appa (dad) and amma (mom). Mama &amp; mami is user typically by a small sect of so-called upper caste people.
Lvl999Noob4 months ago
In India, at least in Hindi, there is uncle and aunti for strangers and the blood relatives have their own words (mama - brother of mother, masi - sister of mother, bua - sister of father, etc). Whether these specific words are used for non-blood relatives is kinda specific to the people in question.<p>So I wouldn&#x27;t say there is any implicit kinship there. If I call a random stranger &quot;uncle&quot; then there&#x27;s no real meaning to it. If I call him &quot;mama&quot; or &quot;chacha&quot; then that would be implying a relationship.
sdeer4 months ago
Speaking as a Bengali from India, we are definitely level 3. Also, this extends to grandfathers and grandmothers.