Coming from the "Scandanavian Architect" rather than the "Racoon on Meth" side of the argument, I try to load the dishwasher to make it easy to unload (eg knives, forks spoons all sorted in the cutlery tray as I load it). So when someone (no names!) just throws things in randomly, 'it's annoying because it makes extra sorting work for me as I unload it.