What I hate most about "celebrating success" is that it doesn't help, it just gives people envy. Success is not the goal, it's the outcome of reaching a goal, and in order to reach it, you WILL and MUST fail many times for long periods of time. Failure is inevitable and invaluable because it helps you see what does not work. Of course everyone wants to succeed eventually, but it's only through failure that we can get there.<p>It's like celebrating <i>being a good person</i> instead of celebrating the qualities that got someone to the title of <i>being a good person</i>. If you celebrate the journey more people will take it. If you celebrate the outcome it doesn't help anyone, it just gives people envy.<p>For the longest time I didn't understand that because it went against everything my parents and society taught me. As children we are conditioned to "copy" behaviors, actions, theologies, values, and when we don't copy them from our parents correctly we are verbally punished and our behavior is looked down on. This discourages children to be "different" and associates "different, unique, new, untried" with "bad". It associates "failure" with "embarrassment" And "different, unique, new, & untried" are exactly what one needs to get ahead in life and be your own boss, build your own company, and create something new.<p>What I learned through all these years is that Success is the outcome of trying enough things and failing enough times to find out what doesn't work and what does. Being "afraid of failure" means to be afraid of the "Journey of trying".<p>Also, when you look at governments, countries, and businesses in general, failure is the default state. Things do not automatically work, they automatically fail. And you must work very hard for long periods of time and make many adjustments before you get them out of failure and into success. Even then, that success can be temporary as markets and consumer needs change quickly.<p>One of the things I really want to do on my blog is list all my failures, websites, product prototypes, projects. Just to encourage others to do the same.