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Review my dating startup: EstablishedMen.com

21 pointsby rajaabout 16 years ago

15 comments

spitfireabout 16 years ago
You want me to sign up just to see if there are any results in my town? No.<p>Also, by the very name of your site you are likely to discourage the exact demographic you seek from joining. If I'm an established man, am I going to go to a site that will surely attract gold diggers? I can join the local city club for that.<p>Read up on the habits of the well off and be a little more subtle about it. oh and private jets are passé these days.
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Toddabout 16 years ago
Nice design. I've recently built a more general dating site and I see in your site many of the issues that I've been dealing with.<p>The chicken and egg problem is the biggest. Until you reach "critical mass", whatever that is (1k, 10k, 100k), it is difficult to open the kimono and give potential new users a peek. That can definitely drive away traffic.<p>OTOH, you need more for people to go on. You need some sort of hook. In my case, I took multiple screenshots from key areas of the site and assembled a tour.<p>You guys sound pretty seasoned, so I'm sure this isn't news to you--just an idea. There are many ideas around conversion and most of them just take time.<p>The other issue that was a big surprise for me is the sheer number of scammers out there. I'm spending more time building features into the backend for identifying scammers than anything else these days (still early days yet). Aside from the IP geolocation technique, email addresses posted in their profile text, and the unique form of bad English grammar from the West Coast of Africa, I'd be curious to know how you identify them. The target demographic of your site is bound to attract a disproportionate number. (BTW, for the uninitiated, geolocation only works for the amateurs logging in from a cybercafe in Lagos--most of them know how to use proxies and emerge in places like Michigan or Colorado. Typical bad grammar: "I will like to know more about you".)
ryanwaggonerabout 16 years ago
This is probably simultaneously one of the funniest and most offensive startup review requests I've seen on HN.<p>The best part is that the site is really well done from what I gathered with a cursory glance. The main issue I see is that it's basically built to attract gold-digging whores, which is fine, but why would any "established men" pay for this? I would imagine they have no trouble finding these kinds of women in real life.
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vakselabout 16 years ago
<p><pre><code> Room service gets tiring when you travel as much as I do. With Established Men, I look forward to beautiful girls on every trip. </code></pre> Who talks like that? Seriously if you are going to fake reviews, at least make them sound real.
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annoyedabout 16 years ago
'Your match is just a click away' should be changed to 'Your match is just a registration away'<p>text does't show up properly in the chrome browser<p>how about some teaser listings?<p>nice layout and design
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autarchabout 16 years ago
Wow, cynical and offensive. I think it's a winner.
menloparkbumabout 16 years ago
This site seems like a thinly veiled escort site. Is that the intention?
sidsavaraabout 16 years ago
Have you guys heard of <a href="http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/</a> and is this a competitor to them?<p>One of the guys I worked with knew the guy who ran that site. I thought it was a pretty funny name and concept, yours sounds much more refined. Took a quick peek at it, can't really give feedback since I'm at work but upvoted and may take a look later =)
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mattmaroonabout 16 years ago
I assume you mean more the site than our thoughts on any sort of moral issues. The graphic design is great, and the app is responsive, both of which are unusual for a free dating site.<p>I think you force the signup box too early. Show me some matches in my area and get me hooked. Give guys a few pictures of pretty girls nearby and they'll give you any info you ask for.
unaloneabout 16 years ago
I think the concept is sickening. I doubt you'll find the classy people you're looking for: more likely you'll find yourself attracting the desperate and the depraved.<p>It's a pretty nice design. A little bit overcolorful: trim down on the blues and greens up top, it seems a little bit like confetti. But overall, very good. If all you care about is getting people to hand you money, your design isn't going to be what turns people away.
jawngeeabout 16 years ago
No asian women. Count me out.<p>Design is nice.<p>Overall, the whole thing is corny. I'm sure there is a market for it, but as someone who is a prolific member of other dating sites, nothing about it is interesting.<p>Why would I, as an established man, want to be harangued by a bunch of gold diggers? I can't figure that out.
ashishkabout 16 years ago
love the ui. really interesting space. have you worked at a dating startup before? are you guys funded? are you planning to charge for premium services?
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villageidiotabout 16 years ago
Mr G made an insightful comment regarding the problem of getting off the ground with a dating startup: ". . . no one wants to use a dating site with only 20 users, which of course becomes a self-perpetuating problem. So if you want to do a dating startup, don't focus on the novel take on dating that you're going to offer. That's the easy half. Focus on novel ways to get around the chicken and egg problem."<p>Did you get around the chicken and egg problem?
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eventhoughabout 16 years ago
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Love it.
hanyabout 16 years ago
This is one of the fastest, well designed dating sites I've ever seen. The interface is slick and simple. Searching for users is very intuitive.
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