I found this post really really good. I've been hiring for a few months and obviously want to treat candidates well. A lot of the points you made are things I had realized by myself, some were new and interesting, but there are a few things I disagreed with.<p>> If your contact is jobs@foo.bar...<p>I'm unclear what you'd prefer. I man the jobs@circleci.com mailing list, and while I agree it's impersonal, I don't think there's a better alternative. Should I use paul@circleci.com? What if someone else needs to take over for a few days? What about when we've grown too big for me to personally respond to every applicant, and we have dozens of HN posts (or other places with similar content) pointing to an email which is no longer useful.<p>I think jobs@circleci.com is the best approach, but welcome better suggestions. It also has the advantage that everyone in the company gets it, so we can all look them over if needs be.<p>> If I respond to your post 3 days after the posting date. [...] I obviously know the job is still available, I'm looking for a 2-line reply so I know you actually give a damn.<p>Don't do this. Put yourself in my shoes. Do you think I know you're looking to see if I give a damn? Which I don't, because I get dozens of job emails a day, and most of them don't come across as stupid (which that does).<p>> Acknowledge my application.<p>Totally agree. I respond to all applicants, even if that response is a polite rejection. The only things I ignore (actually, I mark them as spam) are recruiters and outsourcers.<p>> If you have "We get sooooo many applications, we'll only contact those we're interested in" I go "Bullshit!".<p>I think you'd be surprised. Dozens a day. And I have another job - actually running a company.<p>> Optional: This might not be for everyone, but I personally think it is a good approach. Whenever you send a rejection, state why you're rejecting the candidate<p>Warning for others: DO NOT DO THIS. I did this for the first 3 people who ever applied. It took me 30 minutes to compose those emails, and I went into considerable detail. Oh, and it was really harrowing to write negative things about another human being, especially one who hadn't asked for it.<p>One replied, and was very thankful for the feedback and promised to work on it. He replied a few months later thanking me again. Two didn't reply, which means my hour was not only wasted, but I actually sent feedback that they didn't want or appreciate (which means they now think I'm an asshole).<p>Now, I send feedback to anyone who asks for it, and sometimes will have a back-and-forth about it.<p>> Instead, put in as much effort as I do.<p>In this, and the other things which others have described as "a sense of entitlement", you're committing the same crime as the employers: only caring about and seeing your side of the story. I've been on both sides in recent history, and both sides (and both "Dear HN" pieces) suffer from not looking at the other person's position (something which is useful in nearly all walks of business, as well as life).