"Let her pay? Nope. Way too much pride for that.<p>It’s also the most unromantic thing you can do on a first date as a man outside of spitting on her, and I wasn’t about to spoil the evening."<p>I stopped reading there. WTF is with this brainwashing of men that they need to pay? IMHO this is a symptom of low self worth. This is a disease. Stop watching TV. Stop watching hollywood movies -- they are making you dumber.<p>You have intrinsic value as a human being regardless of your ability to pay. Show her a good time and she'll be glad to pay -- in fact, she'll want to go out with you again.<p>Later edit: Finished reading. Some good wisdom in there. Inspiring piece.