I'm 23. I've been working at startups since I was 19 and I have worked in about 4 startups till now. One thing I've seen is that everyone wants to do something that will change the world. Every other day I see a post somewhere that says that some guy has an idea that will change the world. But what bothers me is that everyone is rushing. Everyone is in hurry. No one wants to take time to analyze a problem before pouncing on it. In the last startup I joined, everyone seems like they will die if they don't become a robot, working with everyone ounce of their strength.<p>But the thing is, I don't want to do that. I want to stay home, give my 100% effort when it's time to work, then have dinner and then sit with my laptop and start developing an app I really want to build or go through the github repos of any interesting piece of code I can find or contribute to some open source project I had my eyes on. Then go to sleep around 3 in the morning and get up the next day and start working when it's time.<p>Sounds like Utopia but it's achievable if I telecommute. But what puzzles me is that it seems like the easy way out. And everyone, including all my friends who joined some big shot company, is working day and night together. I myself have been doing that for a long time but I don't like it. Can I take the easy way out, this early in my life, and still be OK with it? I have no greater goal in life. Is that really OK?
The questions are for people who have lived through such a period in their lives. I want to know their experience and advice.
Of course it's OK. Check out some existentialist philosophy. Life is absurd and meaningless, and the only meaning it has is the meaning you give it.<p>Telecommuting doesn't have to be the easy way out. Remember that really important projects like the Linux kernel are developed by remote developers collaborating.<p>Also, theres no great rush to change the world. The world is changing faster than ever due to a renaissance created by the internet and other technologies.<p>The only rush is if you want to grab riches from the process, but it will happen whether or not you participate. If you don't want riches, the rational strategy is not to adopt a work lifestyle that will stress your body and take years off your life.<p>Also remember that you are a developer and that you can work more efficiently than almost any other type of worker by leveraging technology and automation.<p>Remember that you can create something far more valuable by yourself in one day in 2013 than a team of developers could in a month in the 90's by capitalizing on the vast treasure of open source software available to you today for free.
I would say it's okay to not want to conquer <i>the world</i>. But you should want to conquer <i>your world</i>. Finding something that you're passionate about is key to living a fulfilled life, at least in my opinion. You don't need to start some big company or whatever. But you should try to achieve more than "hack on stuff, go to bed at 3am and just loaf around".<p>You've recognized that being a workaholic sucks and usually leads nowhere. That's good - a lot of people waste their lives slaving over some terrible, meaningless job. But I don't think the correct response is to just take the easy way out and "be lazy", for lack of a better term. The correct response is find something that you <i>want</i> to spend hours every day on.<p>For me, personally, at age 80, I want to look back on my life and say, hey, I accomplished some pretty cool stuff and enjoyed doing it.
I strongly believe that you should do whatever makes you happy. I think people tend to underestimate the practical value of being happy. I tend to be much more creative and energetic when I'm happy. I also feel that being happy makes me a better influence on the people around me.<p>I'm also going to point you to <a href="http://www.paulgraham.com/todo.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.paulgraham.com/todo.html</a>. I think that essay is very applicable to living life well.
World needs people like you who take it slowly. Slow and deep thinking can produce great breakthroughs. Working hard and stressing your body to "change the world" is groupthink in many cases. Einstein was sleeping more than 10 hours and spent hours in his boat. There is definitely a place for people who take it slow.
Life is more than a race to see how high you can get into the upper-middle class.<p>That said, some of the most amazing things and friendships arise from adversity, and don't be surprised if you never have the same experiences as people who went out on the sharp end and did the hard, rushed thing.<p>Ultimately, do what you think you'll enjoy most--and don't regret it, whatever that turns out to be.<p>EDIT: Minor quibble with one thing you said--<i>No one wants to take time to analyze a problem before pouncing on it."</i><p>Usually a thorough analysis is not worth it, especially if the assumptions and models backing the problem are based in business; these can change, and then you are left with no code and a fascinating insight into a present which no longer exists.<p>If you're doing a problem set or working through SICP, sure, but at the end of the day, <i>real artists ship</i>.
You probably have read this story as a kid but here you go again<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare</a><p>"it seems like the easy way out."<p>Not really. It is <i>your</i> way. Everyone has to figure out what works for them and make it count. If you want to stay home and work at your own pace, so be it. What will matter is how dedicated you are towards your goal whatever the method is. The destination matters but how you get there is what life is all about (I know this is a quote somewhere...)
Many great inventions who changed the world took more than 20 years of development and research. I don't think the web has the same effect as some of these world changers. Most of them are just services, and those evolve so fast that thinking they're changing the world is wrong point of view. See Twitter, before them it were many other messaging options, but now they're the cream of that, next in line it will be maybe others, and so on. So, right now you can change the world for just a few years :), that's because everyone rushes.
For a lot of us on hacker news, we're very fortunate, and can lead very comfortable lives doing non-stressful, mentally rewarding work. You've found something you want; go for it.
The reason we work is 1) to provide for the needs and desires of ourselves and our family, and 2) to perform meaningful tasks that give us structure, satisfaction, and self-actualization.<p>If a certain type of work is not providing you these, then do not pursue it.<p>Put equivalently, if doing tasks XYZ does not make you (or your family) happy, do not do them.<p>Put equivalently, pursue work-life balance. When you are 10 years older, and/or if/when you start a family, this will be vital to having a happy life.