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Ask HN: Mother driving me crazy over getting a job. What to do?

1 pointsby mothertroubleover 11 years ago
I&#x27;ve been working fulltime for 10 years and last year I quit my job to try freelancing so that I can create cool things of my own and for the clients. I am struggling to get clients and most of my saved money is gone but I do get enough clients to keep going at a bare minimum lifestyle.<p>My mother is telling me to stop this madness and get a job. She thinks I waste my life by being a freelancer. She is driving me to the brink of depression. As an entrepreneur have you face similar problems with your family members?

2 comments

doctorwhoover 11 years ago
If you&#x27;ve blown through 10 years of savings in 1 year that should be a warning sign. If, after a year of freelancing, you&#x27;re not completely self-sustaining, I&#x27;d say it&#x27;s time to re-evaluate your plan. You do have a PLAN right? You didn&#x27;t just decide to try freelancing right? Please note that &quot;looking for clients&quot; is not a plan, it&#x27;s a complete lack of a plan. If you can&#x27;t explain to your mom why you&#x27;re going to be a successful freelancer then I&#x27;d suggest you either take her advice or do something to prove you won&#x27;t be moving back into her basement, if you&#x27;re not there already.
justintocciover 11 years ago
Steady as she goes. I remember seeing somewhere that it takes eighteen months to reach your prior salary. It took me longer but I blame the timing, I started on my own right when the economy tanked. If you want someone to talk to ring me on a Sunday afternoon and I&#x27;ll tell you what I know.