Here's how I relax, avoid both frequentism and bayesianism, and just love probability:<p>I assume that there is a non-empty set, commonly called Omega, which I regard as the set of all experimental 'trials' that I might observe. But, actually, in all the history of everything in the universe, we see only one trial, only one element of this set Omega.<p>Next, there is a non-empty collection, usually denoted by script F, of subsets of Omega. I assume that set script F is contains Omega as an element and is closed under relative complements and countable unions. By <i>relative complements,</i> suppose A is an element of script F. Then the <i>relative complement</i> of set A, maybe written A^c, is essentially set Omega - A, that is, the set of all trials in Omega and not in A. Then set script F is a sigma-algebra. Each set A in script F is an <i>event</i>. If our trial is in set A, then we say that event A has <i>occurred.</i><p>Next there is a function P: script F --> [0, 1]. P assigns 0 to the empty set (event) and is countably additive. Then function P is a <i>probability measure</i>. So for each event A in script F, P(A) is a number in [0, 1] and is the <i>probability</i> of event A.<p>Now can define what is means for two events to be <i>independent</i> and can generalize to two sigma algebras being independent.<p>Next, on the set R of real numbers, I consider the <i>usual topology</i>, that is, the collection T of open subsets of R. Then I let set B, the <i>Borel sets,</i> be the smallest sigma algebra such that T is a subset of B.<p>Next I consider a function X: Omega --> R such that for each Borel set A, X^{-1}(A) is an element of script F. Then X is a <i>random variable</i>.<p>Essentially anything that can have a numerical value we
can regard as a random variable.<p>Then we can state and prove the classic limit theorems -- central limit theorem, weak and strong laws of large numbers, martingale convergence theorem, law of the iterated logarithm, etc.<p>Now we are ready to do applied probability and statistics. And we have never mentioned either frequentism or Bayesianism.<p>For more details, in an elegant presentation, see J. Neveu,
<i>Mathematical Foundations of the Calculus of Probability.</i>