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Ask HN: How do you handle rude/aggressive recruiters?

4 pointsby anonymuseover 10 years ago
http:&#x2F;&#x2F;pastebin.com&#x2F;n3cGvi4E<p>I haven&#x27;t received a truly aggressive recruiter response in some time, so it prompted me to wonder how other people handle these sorts of approaches. I&#x27;m mostly interested in limiting the harm they&#x27;ll do to anyone else in their search, as this sort of dialog doesn&#x27;t bother me too much.<p>How have you all handled this effectively in the past?<p>Thanks!

8 comments

Someone1234over 10 years ago
Your reply was also rude. I&#x27;m not going to take sides since I dislike both.<p>PS - Including their email address (and name) but not yours seems extremely petty. Like this thread&#x2F;negative exposure is effectively your way of getting back at them.
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joezydecoover 10 years ago
<i>&quot;I&#x27;m mostly interested in limiting the harm they&#x27;ll do to anyone else in their search&quot;</i><p>Can you elaborate? This recruiter&#x27;s email is spam, literally. Most people hit delete and move on. I&#x27;m curious where the harm is coming from.
oplessover 10 years ago
I hang up on them after telling them that I&#x27;m not interested in talking to them.<p>Reasons include &quot;I&#x27;m onsite, so can&#x27;t talk, sorry&quot;&#x2F;&quot;I&#x27;m about to go into a meeting&quot;&#x2F;&quot;I&#x27;m not interested in your role&quot;&#x2F;&quot;Please remove my details from your system&quot;&#x2F;&quot;Stop harassing me, otherwise I&#x27;m calling the police&quot;<p>I&#x27;ve only had one particularly aggressive recruiter around 2000 wanting me to work at Yahoo. I was quite happy with being at my start up and he threatened me with not working through his agency, ever. I agreed with him I&#x27;d not want to work with his agency. Hasn&#x27;t affected my workload then or now. Though I was terribly paranoid about it at the time.<p>90% of my work over the past 5 years has been repeat business through prior clients once they&#x27;re outside the compete clauses.
mb_72over 10 years ago
My public Linked In profile mentions in the first line that recruiters are NOT to contact me for any reason; if they do so, then I feel no remorse in responding rudely. 99% of IT-type recruiters are untalented jerks making a living from the skills of others and are too used to spamming or using dirty techniques to do their jobs.<p>That said, I can&#x27;t see what you can do to &#x27;protect&#x27; others, just delete their emails, set a spam filter appropriately and move on.
MalcolmDiggsover 10 years ago
I usually just try to hammer home:<p>* What kind of work I actually do (specific skillset)<p>* What kind of work I&#x27;m actually interested in (contract, full-time, etc)<p>You&#x27;re not gonna stop the recruiters...you&#x27;re just not... the best you can hope for is that they start to get to know you better and bring you better &#x2F; more-targeted opportunities.
jf22over 10 years ago
New Filter-&gt;From: recruiter@gmail.com-&gt;Send to Trash, Mark as Read<p>Problem solved.
joewilsover 10 years ago
Add them to the awful recruiters list: <a href="https://github.com/soffes/awfulrecruiters.com" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;github.com&#x2F;soffes&#x2F;awfulrecruiters.com</a><p>Reply with a link to their pull request.
DanBCover 10 years ago
i) don&#x27;t reply to spammers<p>ii) mark it as spam<p>It&#x27;s obviously pushed some buttons - you replied and you started a thread here. It&#x27;s probably best to just mark it as spam and ignore it.