Curiously, I'd come to a few of these conclusions myself since I started working for my current employer. A lot of people make that sort of Knowing Face when I tell them that I work for my husband. Sure, switching from being the boss to being the bossed, during work hours, leads to some occasional friction,... :-) But because of our unique relationship, there is a measure of equity and communication that I've only ever felt from one other employer (and that only from my immediate superior).<p>At least one of my former employers would pat himself on the back after reading this, completely blind to the impact on moral of his constant threats to fire us. So while these things make sense when you read them, obviously some self-(awareness|respect) is necessary to understand and act on them.