<i>You hand it to them, the screen auto-rotates, and they freak out for a second and think they broke something.</i><p>That hasn't been my experience when passing the iPad around at family events. It's usually "Ooh, that's a useful idea." I <i>hate</i> the rotating myself but the orientation lock fixes that. The iPhone is worse because it doesn't have one.<p><i>You can pick up a TV remote, twirl it around, and run your finger over some buttons without triggering anything.</i><p>Humans are smart. You can't pick up a glass of lemonade, a mug of coffee, a donut, a cat or a vase without understanding how they respond. People are quick to learn how to handle items without being "stressed," though almost any novel item will cause a little initially. There are plenty of folks throwing 2 ton boxes of metal with incredibly delicate controls down roads at 70mph right now without incident.<p>That the iPad has a different usage profile to the Kindle has little to say on how "peaceful" or "low stress" it is for someone who is realistically going to use it. This 99 year old woman doesn't seem to be having any problems - <a href="http://www.tuaw.com/2010/04/22/99-year-old-loves-her-first-computer-an-ipad/" rel="nofollow">http://www.tuaw.com/2010/04/22/99-year-old-loves-her-first-c...</a>. People are more concerned about things like it being next to useless in sunlight, how delicate it feels, or how the screen is made of glass.