The answer is to talk about it. We live in an ugly world. There will be ugly speech related to that ugly.<p>While it's tempting to push all that to the side, doing so works like Disneyland does. It's a facade, unreal.<p>Do this enough and denial will bump up against reality.<p>That is often more ugly than that which got suppressed.<p>I won't defend the substance or lack of it until this speech. No need.<p>However, those who believe they have answers, or better, need to take it right to the people, or they are actually doing more harm than good.<p>This is about norms. Those who do speak contribute very strongly to norms. Get it yet?<p>When we respond with law, due to speech issues, we start a cycle of bad law, or egregious law and that will be checked by an increase in people acting out.<p>Norms have almost as much strength in regulating our behavior as laws do. Ignore them at our mutual peril.