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Ask HN: Do you suffer from imposter syndrome?

3 点作者 teejayvanslyke将近 8 年前
I&#x27;ve been in the tech industry my entire adult life. My grandpa taught me to program when I was six years old (QuickBASIC!). I&#x27;m self-employed and do well for myself. I&#x27;ve worked remotely my entire life and have never had a month where I didn&#x27;t have paid work.<p>But month after month, I continue to have this feeling that I&#x27;m not good enough. That the industry will inevitably leave me behind and that I&#x27;m doomed to eat dog food out of a can in my old age or something.<p>I&#x27;m 31 now, so I definitely have a slightly less euphoric view of the working world than I did when I was 21. I&#x27;m more experienced and less willing to take work I know won&#x27;t be a good fit. But I also feel, well, &quot;old&quot;.<p>How many of you suffer the same delusions? What do you do to cope?

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peapicker将近 8 年前
I used to on a daily basis; nowadays it is mostly gone. I got to a point in life where I took over my own narrative from my insecurities a little before turned 40 (about 9 years ago). So empowering.<p>I have a friend from college who is a former therapist and now life coach who recently wrote a book about this very thing, taking back your narrative. I&#x27;ve been reading it and realize that this is more or less what i figured out how to do.<p>Her book is called &quot;StoryJacking&quot; and is available free on Amazon Kindle for the next few days. Maybe it will help, who knows?<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Storyjacking-Change-Inner-Dialogue-Transform&#x2F;dp&#x2F;1944335323" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.amazon.com&#x2F;Storyjacking-Change-Inner-Dialogue-Tr...</a>
akulbe将近 8 年前
EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.<p>The only comfort, so far, is learning that this seems to be very, very common among us tech types.<p>I have coworkers that ask me for help with infra&#x2F;virtualization stuff that I know well, and they know the programming side of automation better than I do. I&#x27;m working to learn it, and deal with the inadequacy feelings all the time.<p>They tell me they couldn&#x27;t get by without my knowledge, and to keep going on the automation coding, that I&#x27;ll figure it out.<p>Sometimes, I say to myself, &quot;They can say it until they&#x27;re blue in the face; if I don&#x27;t believe it, it doesn&#x27;t matter. It&#x27;s in one ear, and out the other.&quot;<p>I don&#x27;t know if I&#x27;m really coping. Just continuing to try to learn, and move forward.<p>My apologies, if it&#x27;s not the upbeat answer you may have been hoping for. Just trying to be <i>real</i> about it.
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