Ask HN: How has meditation helped you?

The biggest impact meditation has had on me is that it&#x27;s improved my introverted intuition; my ability to recognize myself, recognize what makes me happy, define my goals, and step back when my feelings are getting the best of me.<p>I just concentrate on my breath for 10-20 minutes at a time. Take in a diaphragmatic inhale, hold for 4 seconds, release for 6 seconds (technique used by Navy SEALS). Repeat this and focus on the sensations going on in your body such as the feeling of air rushing through your nose, the life of oxygen in your lungs, the dissipation of stress as you exhale through your mouth. Inhale, hold, exhale, repeat. Your mind will naturally try to distract you and chew on problems going on in your life, but it&#x27;s important to recognize that it&#x27;s only a fruitless thought and your immediate purpose is to focus on your breath and survive.<p>After ~15 minutes of this, I stop consciously breathing and just observe the sensations going through my body. Most immediately, you will notice you continue breathing, even though you&#x27;re no longer consciously doing it. This is a subconscious activity, what other subconscious activities are going on in your body? Start recognizing the sensations in your toes and move up your body, it feels like a body scan that relaxes whatever body part your conscious of.<p>Once you feel satisfied, wake up, notice your surroundings, and feel the refreshing glow of calm happiness.

I have been doing it consistently, 10 minutes a day after waking up, longer on weekends, 15 minutes or more. I have been consistently doing it for 6+ months now.<p>I am observing that it is helping me become mindful of my thoughts. Before, when thoughts appear in my head -- I don&#x27;t take a second to say &#x27;yes, that&#x27;s my thought&#x27;. Now, when a thought, especially negative ones, come into my head -- I can observe it and reflect on it first, seeing it for what it is. It has helped me become the observer of my thoughts if that makes any sense.<p>I also notice I am calmer in lots of situations and less prone to rush or panic. I think it helped me become slower, calmer, more focused, and more clear-headed. I ended up quitting caffeine or weaning off of it, as I noticed that it was causing negative effects on my thinking and sleep. It also helped me self-reflect and assess my life every day.<p>I recommend if you want to try meditation, do it consistently until it becomes a habit.

I did a ten-day silent retreat (Vipassana) and the effects were profound. I was far calmer, far more able to focus.<p>It&#x27;s hard to explain, but physical pain was also reframed from negative &#x27;pain&#x27; to simply neutral sensation.<p>I also found I had much less desire for stimulus. Usually when I&#x27;m cooking dinner or cleaning the house I feel the need to play a tv show or listen to a podcast, but after the retreat I could just experience the activity.<p>For a year after that I kept up between one and two hours a day, until I found that I was feeling a lot of guilt around the practice - when I put it off, when I wasn&#x27;t able to find time. It seemed like I had begun to miss the point, so I stopped. I&#x27;m getting back into it currently, though.<p>I&#x27;d highly recommend the practice, especially learning by going to a ten-day retreat. It really gave me an experience of what is possible with meditation - true peace and fulfillment.

I&#x27;ve experienced the thoughtless awareness state. Just being present without any thoughts crossing my mind.<p>I do around 25-30 minutes of meditation session usually right after bath &amp; try to do 10 minutes before sleep.<p>Most of the time, I&#x27;m able to be thoughtlessly aware. But trying to be more steady.<p>After trying various meditation techniques, I found &quot;Sahaja Yoga&quot; &amp; life has been gradually becoming peaceful &amp; enjoyable. Give it a try. It&#x27;s free of cost &amp; the most beautiful experience you can have on planet earth.<p>Visit Sahaja Yoga center nearby &amp; ask anyone where can I get self-realization.<p>If you want more information, please comment. I&#x27;ll be happy to help.

It helps you be more mindful and detach from the moment to moment undulations of modern life. This can be good and bad.<p>I can meditate anywhere. But usually I sit in half-lotus, slowly easing myself into a blank state. I think about radiating outward. Anywhere from 5-25 mins.<p>Never did a retreat.<p>The problem with meditation is I think that it can release a latent and light form of schizophrenia. Things that society values, you no longer value as much. It makes it tougher to fit in with &quot;normal&quot; people. The benefit is that you can draw your path more clearly and execute more clearly. I&#x27;d like to hear others&#x27; opinions as well.

I would like to say I meditate everyday, but I don’t. It was - and still is - my plan to do so, though.<p>These days are very busy; working 15-18hs a day is normal routine. Being in meetings, talking to clients, making business decisions and still being involved in coding, which requires a lot of focus stresses concentration and eventually health.<p>I know that meditation can help me. Every time I take the time for it, and may it be 5 minutes, helps me a bit already. I have not yet been able to do it on a daily basis at a fixed point in time even though I had the chance to do so.<p>How does it help me? I experienced me to be calmer and more thoughtful when I practiced Zazen (my mediation style) over a longer period of time. Days become longer, that is, I am more focused on every small moment. I am not stressed by external factors that much, not angry, never in a hurry mentally - my inner self stays calm even when I am faced with a difficult situation.<p>I highly recommend meditation to everyone I talk to about topics like stress, work life balance or being more thoughtful. Mediation does not only mean to sit concentrated on a cushion. Going to the gym, taking a walk or “just” sitting on a chair - all of these can be some kind of meditation when practiced with mindfulness. Meditation is not about doing that one thing, it’s about finding your own right way, and thus I think everyone can benefit from it.

I don&#x27;t do the meditation exactly, but I recently trekked to Mt Everest base camp and stayed in Nepal for few days. I get mentally overwhelmed with the natural beauty and that sort of creates effect similar to meditation.<p>After coming back, I feel much calmer. Very few negative thoughts occur in my mind and I noticed that I don&#x27;t get worked up that easily. I somehow learned to not get angry at the slightest provocation.<p>Not sure if this helps you, but thought I would put it out there.

The biggest impact has definitely been with an increase in my self-awareness, especially in the presence of great pressure. Such an increase is not as consistently present as I want it to be, perhaps, but it&#x27;s present enough to make me realize that practicing meditation, and mindfulness as a whole, helps me.<p>My meditation tends to be simple - wherever I am, I pretty much just take a seat, time a few deep breaths, keep my eyes closed, and either reflect with an objective in mind or just let my mind wander for 10 to 15 minutes. No mobile app, no fancy bells or whistles, nothing like that. No set schedule either, though I&#x27;m sure some sort of set schedule would be a great way to approach meditation and be more measured about meditating.

Much less mental stress; ~90% of the issues that used to bother me don&#x27;t any more. Specifically, notice that emotions&#x2F;thoughts tend have a physical component which you can observe without judgment (tightness, heat, tingling, etc.).<p>Breaking the loop of &quot;negative&quot; physical sensation -&gt; negative emotion&#x2F;thought is freeing. Feeling tightness in your chest does not require you to become afraid, it just means you are feeling tightness in your chest. But typically we have years of stimulus&#x2F;response conditioning so we jump to the negative thought &#x2F; emotion once the sensation arises.<p>I meditate 10-30 minutes ~5x a week, usually breath counting or doing the above. I found Noah Elkrief&#x27;s videos helpful.

I am doing something related to meditation, where i close my eyes for 40 minutes and chant for a good part of it. It is really helping me progress spiritually.

Not much, my advice is do exercise instead, even 15 min a day will make a difference...

I live a lot more in the moment. I’m a lot less scared to speak my mind, and I’m a lot more engaged in conversations. It also puts my long term goals at the front of my mind.

Meditation helps me. I&#x27;m calmer and I can stay concentrated for way longer periods of time when doing something. I also, rarely get bored because of it.

I&#x27;ve been trying the wim hof meditation to help with chronic pain and inflammation.<p>It helps but not as much as I would like.

Can anyone here prove their claimed benefits to actually stem from mediation? Any academic study?

Going to church has been easier for me, and it also connects you to the community. Also only once a week.<p>Since this will inevitably come up, I am liberal, and yes I still go. If you’re liberal and don’t like church, one thing I would suggest is that by going to church, you can actually make it more liberal instead of leaving it to others. Also fyi gays are the new jews and will be fully integrated like Jews were between 1930-1960 (until 1959 it was legal in Houston, Texas to restrict Jews on the deed restriction!!).