Sometimes there are points during which I'm doing pretty well for myself and am wholly content with where I'm at, without any strong desire for anything different/better.<p>How do you stop such a state from stagnating you?
Writing everything down and relentlessly questioning my priors.<p>2017 was a very difficult year, but one of the decisions I’ve most benefitted from was deciding to write down my goals. I spent about a month, directly putting in at least an hour a day.<p>I started by writing down what I already knew: I wanted to have a positive impact on the world, there are certain types of impact that I care about more than others, and that I wanted all of my decisions to operate on a long time-horizon.<p>Immediately I found flaws. What actually is impact? What are the types of impact I care about? How much of impact is a result of mitigating risk vs. creating something new?<p>When I got stuck, I would open up a new text file and write stream of consciousness until it physically hurt to continue.<p>After a lot of iteration, I ended with an outline of my goals and my rationale that I was relatively happy with. And then I worked backwards to figure out what I should be doing today.<p>It’s a constant work in progress, but this workflow has been immensely helpful. It’s given me a single source of truth for whether something is Actually Important, helped me prioritize, and made me realize when I was being irrationally demotivated or complacent.
I try to never stop learning. Here's a couple of ways I've done that seem to work okay for me.<p>- I always try something different and commit to it for a year. By the end of the year, I've become at least proficient in it.<p>- I buy something that makes me do something. A few years ago, I bought a real estate investment, when I wasn't making too much money (still not making a ton). Now, I'm able to do more home improvement tasks than the year prior.<p>- I try to always learn something new everyday. I don't care whether I spend 1 minute or 1 hour or 1 day. As long as I do something to fulfill this goal, I win for the day. (No Zero Days).<p>It's okay to be content, but it's not okay to be stagnant. A running river gives life to those around it, but still water makes for no life.
What I do is to force myself to do something painful every day. Make it a habit.<p>It can be push ups. It can be a morning or evening run. It could be taxes or cancelling a subscription. It could be doing algorithms or reading the white paper of a random crypto.<p>Sometimes it's optimization. Find something you repeat a lot and optimize that. It could be doing laundry or showering faster. It could be learning to read faster, memorize better. Maybe automating daily tasks through something like IFTTT. One of the best things I did in 2017 was getting my typos for capital letters, semicolons, and brackets down by 50%.<p>The nice part about being comfortable is that you don't have to focus on survival and have room to do painful things.<p>So just work on that one painful thing for half an hour each day.
There's nothing wrong with being happy where you are... but it's true that since learning is always a little painful, you need to make sure that being happy isn't due to not learning.<p>One thing I do: every time I make a mistake I try to figure out <i>why</i>, and how I can avoid it next time. Then I write it up for my newsletter (<a href="https://softwareclown.com" rel="nofollow">https://softwareclown.com</a>), which forces me to dive enough deeper that I can explain it.<p>Initially I was worried about running out of mistakes, but turns out I make them all the time :) Which means there's always a relevant learning moment around the corner.
I have always at least one new habit being built.
I find very useful acquiring habits as automated routines. Whenever I have a new goal, I create a process for achieving it, make it an habit, and stop focusing on the goal so much.<p>Whenever I feel stagnated, I review my current habits, and do either:<p>A) Improve/optimize an existing habit for a more ambitious goal (ex: "going to the park and do a couple pullups before work" becomes "do a small strength training routine at the park before work")<p>B) Create a new habit (starting small) in an area of my life that I'm not taking enough care of - even without having a clear goal for it. I found that many times, creating a process first has ended up creating an exciting goal.<p>By following this approach, during last year I created and sustained the following habits:<p>- Review my Japanese flashcards daily (>1 year)<p>- Keep a budget (>8 months)<p>- Journal (>8 months)<p>- Body-weight strength training before work (>3 months)<p>- Working/studying in early morning before going to the office (>1 month)<p>The key is to start small.
If a process no longer helps my goals, I kill it.<p>For keeping track, I use the Loop Habit Tracker for Android, which is open source (<a href="https://github.com/iSoron/uhabits" rel="nofollow">https://github.com/iSoron/uhabits</a>).<p>EDIT: formatting
I am currently only working in Tech Support while I learn new skills and try to break into DevOps. My employer has been dangling promotions in front of me for the past four years, but keeps indefinitely delaying them.<p>I keep becoming more vocal about my career development, but the company keeps having new excuses as to why I need to "wait a few more months".<p>I have now escalated my demands and made it clear that my career is not going the direction it needs to. I have laid out my conditions for further employment.<p>Now, my employer either needs to get things moving in the right direction, or one of the 50 places I applied for this week is going to replace them.<p>The real issue is that I am so valuable to my employer doing what I currently do that they don't want to change my role and have to replace me. Unfortunately for them, they're going to have to replace me no matter what happens.<p>Don't get too comfortable in the same position for too long, and don't let your company make you feel bad for needing more. If they won't give you what you need in a career, get out and find an employer that will.
Just don't let money get in the understanding of what stagnating means to you. What's fun to you in a fundamental sense? In other words: try to find motive inside you, not outside.
I found myself that asking myself a couple of important questions each week do the trick!<p>These are a few questions that I ask myself every week:<p>1. Are you talking to your clients enough this week?<p>2. Are you making what people want and is your business going well?<p>3. Did you pace check your vision?<p>4. Are you measuring the outputs of your busines?<p>5. Are you making money ?<p>6. Are we planning enough creative stuff or just being stagnant?<p>7. Is the team trying to scale itself enough ? (when you push the team, think about that -- power of leverage and all)<p>8. Do you scale yourself or are you doing same thing every day?
If you're happy, you're doing something right, so kudos.<p>To stop from stagnating, play with things. New things, old things, interesting things you aren't going to need to worry about, because you're doing great. Read about stuff, particularly from fields you haven't studied before.<p>It works for crows, anyway. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dWw9GLcOeA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dWw9GLcOeA</a>
I would enjoy it while it lasts if I were you!<p>If you are seriously worried about stagnation though you could perhaps set some objectives to learn new skills or achieve some physically challenging or adventurous goals.
I stagnate. Initially it's awesome, but sooner or later I remember how shitty it feels, and push off once again. (Starting again always sucks, too.)