On a related note, I've always thought a better title for "How to Win Friends and Influence People" would be, "How not to be an Asshole", or at least, "How to avoid acting like one."<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671723650" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/06...</a>