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Now that you have turned 22 can I please give you some advice...

116 点作者 ecaradec超过 14 年前

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mattmaroon超过 14 年前
This is bullshit. Almost everything in here sounds great but is merely fluff.<p>I promise you that at many points, playing guitar felt like work to Jimmy Hendrix. Painting felt like work to Picasso. Muhammad Ali tried very hard to be the best. He also marketed the hell out of himself.<p>People who've never done something for a living that is a hobby for most participants think there's some clearly-defined line between work and passion. There's not. It's a continuum and you spend your life moving from one end to the other and back again if you're doing the right thing. If you're not you spend it all at one end.<p>Take advice, just don't view it as the gospel. Everyone here has probably been taking advice from PG, for instance, and is better off for it.
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gruseom超过 14 年前
<i>Let it simply flow. Jimmy Hendrix did not play guitar. He simply let his feelings flow unabated.</i><p>Could this be intentionally evil advice designed to prevent the recipient from ever amounting to anything? Infants let their feelings flow unabated. "Jimmy" worked his ass off.
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edw519超过 14 年前
This post reminds me of the old joke where a young woman wants to marry a religious man.<p>Her father asked him, "What will you do with your life?"<p>"Pray," he replied.<p>"And how do you intend to provide for my daughter?"<p>"God will provide for us."<p>Later, when the man's wife asked how his meeting with his prospective son-in-law went, he replied, "Very well. He already thinks I'm God.
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codyguy超过 14 年前
The "Don't try hard" + "Muhammad Ali" combination isn't accurate. He pushed "hard" beyond limits, both in the ring and out of it.<p>If you read one his biographies containing details of his bouts and you'll know what I mean.
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igrekel超过 14 年前
I liked it but somehow I think its because this advice sounds more like things I would like to believe to be true.
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maxklein超过 14 年前
I think there is one advice that is of questionable quality: the advice to "keep pushing for quality". "Make the highest quality". That sounds really good. But how easy that?<p>The problem is simply that you first have to be able to recognize what is quality and what is not. And that's the greatest difficulty of all. If you make something of really great quality that everyone thinks is quality, then it will work well. But what if it's really good for you, but not for anyone else?<p>Take for example all these YC companies. ALL of them are working on something they are constantly trying to make great. But a number of them just don't end up with something that people regard as being quality, and so they fail.<p>Before you can make something of great quality, you have to recognize what is of quality to other people. And that is an extremely difficult task that, dare I say this, <i>most</i> people cannot do.<p><i>Most</i> people cannot properly place themselves in another persons shoes. They cannot look at their products from the outside. And so long they cannot do that, they cannot guage when something is of high quality, and will forever be unable to take that advice.
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moshezadka超过 14 年前
When I read this, I could not stop thinking about Harry Potter &#38; The Methods of Rationality, and how HP calls out Dumbledore out for "pretending to be wise".<p>See <a href="http://lesswrong.com/lw/yp/pretending_to_be_wise/" rel="nofollow">http://lesswrong.com/lw/yp/pretending_to_be_wise/</a> for an explanation -- the post above is a clever take on that. Instead of refusing to pass judgement, it's giving advice that, as the people who did think of it as wise said, "is bullshit if you take it at face value" -- it's meant to serve as a counter-balance to the exact opposites of those, which are obviously <i>also</i> good advice, often given.<p>By saying a thing, and implying you also believe its opposite, you can never be wrong.<p>I don't really affiliate myself with the rationalist movement, but I think they have developed a number of useful tools to learn to call people out on trying to bullshit you.
plemer超过 14 年前
I stopped reading at "Do not read."
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gatsby超过 14 年前
There are undoubtedly infinite mantras to live by that can help to produce a successful, happy, meaningful life. If this advice worked for the author, fantastic.<p>Interestingly, most people I personally know who've achieved any amount of "success" have all worked their asses off, tried harder than everyone around them, competed fiercely, marketed better than their competitors, read often, chased their dreams (whether it's money, happiness, adventure, "success," etc.), and were always open to advice (especially at 22).<p>Regardless of age, status, profession, passions, goals, or anything else - life can be a bitch and failure happens. Though I've never spoken to Picasso, Moore, Hendrix, or Ali, I'm almost positive they had struggles. They probably even had times when they wanted to leave it all and quit. They didn't have beautiful, easy, careers. But they kept fighting, continued their craft, and persevered.<p>This letter is a cute romanticization of life and work, but it's likely terrible, harmful advice.
Kilimanjaro超过 14 年前
Do what you love and love what you do.<p>To live happily, you must understand what 'love' means to you and what you want to 'do' with your life.<p>Then do it with endless passion.<p>As a programmer, there is nothing that I like more than coding to solve a problem. I've spent 30 years of my life doing it and it still feels like my first love.<p>If I had enough money to cover all my worries I'd spend the rest of my life coding.<p>As I always say, I code to make money to be free to do what I want: coding.
scott_s超过 14 年前
I think all of it is terrible advice (don't try hard? don't work? good luck with that), but others have already covered that below. I just wanted to point out that apparently the author still opens unsolicited Word documents from emails. Not a good idea: <a href="http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2001/7/25/" rel="nofollow">http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2001/7/25/</a>
Stevenup7002超过 14 年前
Very true post, however, I disagree with the "Do not ever work" and "Do not ever try hard" parts. For everything you enjoy doing, there's always some work behind it. When Picasso went to paint, he had to spend time setting up his canvas and his palette, which I'm sure wasn't as fun as painting the picture itself.
alexyoung超过 14 年前
"Do not take advice"<p>OK, I won't take your advice. But you just said "do not take advice", so does that mean I should take your advice about not taking advice? (stack error, brain explodes)
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tsbaron超过 14 年前
Hmm so according to Mr. Rabbani, Hacker News is a waste of time.
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AndyKelley超过 14 年前
Today is my 22nd birthday... weird.
petermin超过 14 年前
Great advices. Thanks for sharing.
askar_yu超过 14 年前
alright, but... "no pain, no gain"
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cshenoy超过 14 年前
22 for women, 25 for men (since we don't really listen to advice until later on, if at all).<p>awesome advice!
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