This was literally my plan for a few years. I had a knack for algorithm design, I've changed the direction of teams by writing code alone for several months.. and I really wanted to wear dresses to work for some reason. Fortunately my first breakthrough coincided with starting estrogen, so I got to present my scheduling algorithm to some execs, wearing a blouse and skirt because I felt <i>very secure.</i><p>I'm not an asshole, though, and it really doesn't sound like Dave was that mean, other than just having skills and strong boundaries.