I live in a single-earner household, with 3 kids and 2 adults in the house.<p>My oldest son is in college. I really do not see the problem with college expenses, so long as the student abides by a few guidelines:<p>- In the high school years, the student should recognize that their primary job is to line up scholarships. Nothing beats a good ACT score, and very good study books can be had at GoodWill for $1.<p>- Once at college, eat at the caf. Every. Single. Meal. College kids have no business eating out.<p>- Have a summer job, the primary goal is to make money.<p>- Don't use Spotify, NetFlix, etc. No subscription services.<p>We fund half of what my son's scholarships don't pay, he pays the rest with summer-job money. It's working so well I expect the other 2 kids to graduate debt-free as well.