I get it. The threat of being unemployed is daunting, especially when you have a family to provide for.<p>However, you're allowing them to take advantage of you and imagining consequences far worse than are likely to be.<p>Next time you schedule a phone interview, call in sick. Take the day off.<p>The next day walk in, say you're really sorry but you just couldn't make it into the office.<p>Unless you're completely of no use, they will not fire you. If you are of no use, you have other problems.<p>They have spent time and effort hiring you. They have spent time and effort training you (or at least paid you while you were learning about the code base). This is time and effort they would need to expend again if they fire you.<p>While Maryland is an at will employment state, there are federal laws that regulate the workplace and I'm pretty sure being fired for missing a single day of work would be good grounds for a wrongful termination lawsuit. (I'm not a lawyer though).<p>Additionally, you'll get about $1,600/mo in unemployment insurance if you do get let go for this reason. That should give you some time to find a new job..<p>If taking a sick day is too much for a first step, trying going out for a short walk and don't answer your phone. If they ask, tell them that you were on the phone. That should be the end of the conversation.