I cannot figure it out. My son is still a virgin at 22 yrs, never has even dated a girl, not afraid of them, just does not seem to be interested in the drama and the games they want to play. Oh well, as years progress I figure he will become sought after by women since he is tall, thin, stable and a software engineer. Just hope he is meeting them at church rather than at bars.
When I was 16, in 1970, myself and all the guys I knew were chasing girls like crazy all trying to get laid, by any means possible.