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68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice

477 点作者 ericzawo大约 5 年前

43 条评论

anthony_r大约 5 年前
&gt; Never use a credit card for credit. The only kind of credit, or debt, that is acceptable is debt to acquire something whose exchange value is extremely likely to increase, like in a home. The exchange value of most things diminishes or vanishes the moment you purchase them. Don’t be in debt to losers.<p>While true on credit, I would like to point out that the statement &quot;something whose exchange value is extremely likely to increase, like in a home&quot; can only be made by someone who doesn&#x27;t know history beyond their lifespan and beyond their country (or maybe even beyond their county). The long term value of homes basically doesn&#x27;t increase. People in their 60s are especially prone to not knowing this, having lived through the greatest asset appreciation period in the history of America, and perhaps in the history of the world.<p>Forced savings may be worth it, but it is forced at the expense of crazy leverage and severe tail risks. 10% downpayment is 10x leverage, 20% downpayment is 5x leverage - would you ever leverage stocks or any other personal investment even by 3x?
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jstanley大约 5 年前
&gt; Pros are just amateurs who know how to gracefully recover from their mistakes.<p>This is very true.<p>Last year I saw a motorcycle stunt display in the Isle of Man. It was all very impressive, and the chap had extremely good control of the bike, but the time that his skill was most apparent was when he had the rear wheel of the bike on a car bonnet and it started sliding off to one side. I thought he was for sure going to crash because there&#x27;s no possible way to save it when his feet are so far from the ground. Somehow he managed to wriggle around and force the wheel back to the centre. I still don&#x27;t know how. But that was the bit that showed me how skilled he was: not the amazing bike control that he wanted to display, but the way he recovered from a seemingly-unrecoverable mistake.
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pjc50大约 5 年前
&gt; The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self-negotiation.<p>This is very powerful. Reminds me of the &quot;system 1 vs system 2&quot; discussion, and some descriptions of e.g. ADHD and depression causing what could be described as &quot;failure to terminate in self-negotiation&quot;.
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jonasvp大约 5 年前
&gt; Don’t say anything about someone in email you would not be comfortable saying to them directly, because eventually they will read it.<p>Absolutely - I&#x27;ve learned this the hard way and it&#x27;s giving me new appreciation for phone calls.<p>It&#x27;s amazing how many people do _not_ remember that an email chain of several hundred pages _will_ contain something incriminating or embassaring if forwarded to someone outside the original circle of recipients.
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asar大约 5 年前
My personal favorite<p>&gt;Following your bliss is a recipe for paralysis if you don’t know what you are passionate about. A better motto for most youth is “master something, anything”. Through mastery of one thing, you can drift towards extensions of that mastery that bring you more joy, and eventually discover where your bliss is.
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helsinkiandrew大约 5 年前
&gt; Learn how to take a 20-minute power nap without embarrassment<p>I&#x27;ve found the lockdown great for trying this - a run, lunch then 15 minutes on the sofa. It&#x27;s like rebooting the day.
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JoeAltmaier大约 5 年前
Here&#x27;s one I heard elsewhere, and isn&#x27;t in the list.<p>If you&#x27;re searching for something important, search until you find one that satisfies all your requirements. Then, don&#x27;t stop, keep searching until you find a better one. <i>Then</i> stop.<p>This raises you maybe a whole standard deviation in quality, without taking exponential time. Works for all sorts of things. A new pair of shoes; a favorite dish in a restaurant; a spouse.
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tom-thistime大约 5 年前
Stunningly accurate but greatly exceeds promised 68b limit.
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splatzone大约 5 年前
This page really is a goldmine. In the spirit of not being afraid to ask stupid questions, I don&#x27;t understand a couple of them - anyone care to explain?<p>&gt; When you die you take absolutely nothing with you except your reputation.<p>Is this saying that your reputation dies with you? I don&#x27;t get this, surely people will remember how you acted when you were alive. I&#x27;m probably taking it too literally.<p>&gt; Don’t ever respond to a solicitation or a proposal on the phone. The urgency is a disguise.<p>A disguise for what? I&#x27;m not sure I get what they mean by this. I&#x27;m guessing the author is advising that you don&#x27;t let yourself be rushed into agreeing to something over the phone, think about it and take your time, don&#x27;t be pressured
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projektfu大约 5 年前
&quot;Hire for aptitude, train for skills&quot; is a very software development oriented view. Training on its own is difficult and most available employees outside of engineering don&#x27;t have a habit of self teaching. I&#x27;ve done a lot better with experienced people in my hires in my profession.
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londons_explore大约 5 年前
I can confirm that one shouldn&#x27;t trust all-purpose glue.<p>Bought a tube of it a year ago, and out of about 10 times I&#x27;ve tried to use it, I don&#x27;t remember a single one not needing re-gluing with something else later.<p>All except your fingers of course - glue them, and they&#x27;re sticky for weeks.
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ggm大约 5 年前
There is a lot to be said for &quot;never get involved in a land war in Asia&quot;
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11235813213455大约 5 年前
&gt; When you are young spend at least 6 months to one year living as poor as you can, owning as little as you possibly can, eating beans and rice in a tiny room or tent, to experience what your “worst” lifestyle might be. That way any time you have to risk something in the future you won’t be afraid of the worst case scenario.<p>Done it around my 24, I lived 2 years without spending any money, except for my room rent (I was paying by cheques, since you don&#x27;t really need a credit-card anymore in my case). I ate from student restaurants bread leftovers, markets ends (lots of fruits&#x2F;vegs), and sometimes supermarket bins with other persons<p>You change dramatically after that, it&#x27;s like a new life, with new values, minimalism, endurance, you know much more yourself. Why I did so? I don&#x27;t know, I started for a few days, a week, then I didn&#x27;t stop, there was some intent to save money, but the benefit was of course different, you actually risk to lose money, by losing your job, luckily it didn&#x27;t happen, but I wasn&#x27;t very productive
nunorbatista大约 5 年前
&gt; Optimize your generosity. No one on their deathbed has ever regretted giving too much away.<p>Not sure if I agree completely. I&#x27;ve seen people regret giving their life to the service of others and not noticing they were not living their own life until too late.
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globular-toast大约 5 年前
&gt; Don’t be the smartest person in the room. Hangout with, and learn from, people smarter than yourself. Even better, find smart people who will disagree with you.<p>I&#x27;ve often struggled with this one. It might sound arrogant, but I am 90% of the time the smartest person in the room. This is a frequent cause of unhappiness as I just feel I&#x27;m carrying others and I&#x27;m not able to learn anything myself. I&#x27;ve changed jobs many times to try to combat it but before long I find that I am, once again, the smartest person in the room.<p>The only time I never felt like this was with my PhD supervisor who was definitely always the smartest person in the room.
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sametmax大约 5 年前
&gt; Don&#x27;t trust all purpose glue<p>I&#x27;m a Python dev, damn it.
zvrba大约 5 年前
&gt; Before you are old, attend as many funerals as you can bear, and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.<p>Or visit a graveyard and read the tombstones.
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luord大约 5 年前
&gt; Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason, ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again, and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.<p>This is one where I see how it can be very helpful, but I don&#x27;t have the first clue on how to go about it. Simply asking to &quot;go deeper&quot; is often met with a &quot;what?&quot;<p>&gt; Before you are old, attend as many funerals as you can bear, and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.<p>This one might be true for funerals, but definitely not for obituaries.<p>&gt; Art is in what you leave out.<p>As an aspiring writer of fiction, this was the only one I could not understand at all, yet really, really wish I did.<p>&gt; You really don’t want to be famous. Read the biography of any famous person.<p>True, but I believe there&#x27;s a difference between &quot;fame&quot; and &quot;distinction&quot;. Striving for the latter might not be all that bad.
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fraktl大约 5 年前
I&#x27;ve no words to express how strongly these resonated with me, this is the only article I re-read 5 times in a row and read it slowly. Thank you for your wisdom.
quickthrower2大约 5 年前
I love the advice, there is some I&#x27;d tell as an &#x27;old man&#x27; to younger people. and there is some there I&#x27;m thinking &quot;Oh shit... yes!&quot;
hyperpallium大约 5 年前
&gt; When an object is lost, 95% of the time it is hiding within arm’s reach of where it was last seen. Search in all possible locations in that radius and you’ll find it.<p>Yup, look closely in the place you expected it to be. Something may be on top of it, or it may have fallen off.
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isoprophlex大约 5 年前
These are amazing, and worthy of being deliberated upon often. I&#x27;m going to add these to the message-of-the-day thing I keep.
newswasboring大约 5 年前
Just a question, and I know it is completely dependent on culture, do people really believe<p>&gt; Trust me: There is no “them”.<p>I feel like there is constantly a them. The way I interpret it is that you should not modify your behavior based on other people&#x27;s opinion. Or is it about people who don&#x27;t matter? How do you know people who don&#x27;t matter? I have never known from the beginning of a relationship that this person will end up mattering.
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PTOB大约 5 年前
I honestly thought he was just going to write &quot;STOP IT!&quot; I know it&#x27;s only 64bits, but I was hoping for something interesting at the end.
heavenlyblue大约 5 年前
This is what happens when you reach a certain age when you need to deliver on your said “experience”. All of what was said is true, but it is also comparable to saying “be what you want to be” to your child, forgetting that the hard part is in actually following this advice, rather than giving it.
MaxBarraclough大约 5 年前
&gt; Talent is distributed unfairly, but there is no limit on how much we can improve what we start with.<p>That&#x27;s just not true. I will never be an Alan Turing or a John von Neumann, and I dare say neither will you, dear reader. The reason isn&#x27;t that we&#x27;re just too lazy.<p>See also the legend (myth?) of Antonio Salieri&#x27;s jealousy of Mozart&#x27;s natural talent:<p><i>When confronted with the limitations of his own mediocre talent, Antonio Salieri, Mozart&#x27;s nemesis, believes God has cheated him, while a vulgar, undeserving brat seems to possess divinely inspired musical gifts.</i><p>(Taken from <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.oakpark.com&#x2F;News&#x2F;Articles&#x2F;2-17-2009&#x2F;Mozart-vs.-Salieri:-Genius-vs.-jealousy&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.oakpark.com&#x2F;News&#x2F;Articles&#x2F;2-17-2009&#x2F;Mozart-vs.-S...</a> )
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ibiza大约 5 年前
&gt; Buying tools: Start by buying the absolute cheapest tools you can find. Upgrade...<p>Strong &quot;no&quot; on this one. Always buy quality tools. These are priced at a premium, but unlike &quot;inexpensive&quot; tools will:<p>• Do the job expected of them w&#x2F;o creating a new problem<p>• Be enjoyable to use<p>• Last a long time (often, a lifetime)
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glangdale大约 5 年前
Shakespeare knew what to do with people who proffer great quantities of unsolicited advice; look what happened to Polonius.<p>A bunch of these are good, a bunch are just... OK, and some are questionable or just a matter of simple opinion. A lot just reek of &quot;truthiness&quot;; a sort of middle-brow confidence about art&#x2F;business&#x2F;doing stuff that&#x27;s manages to frequently just pass off made-up bullshit as authoritative. The &quot;rule of 7 in research&quot;, &quot;Pros are just amateurs who know how to gracefully recover from their mistakes&quot;, &quot;Talent is distributed unfairly, but there is no limit on how much we can improve what we start with&quot; - a lot of these don&#x27;t make a lick of sense on sober examination.
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Autowired大约 5 年前
&gt; Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them, they are waiting for you to send them an email, they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.<p>Maybe take this one with a grain of salt.
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ValentineC大约 5 年前
Would anyone mind sharing their take on this?<p>&gt; <i>• Trust me: There is no “them”.</i>
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GuB-42大约 5 年前
&gt; Don’t be the best. Be the only.<p>No, if you are &quot;the only&quot; you are going to do that for the rest of your life.<p>Also, it is at odds with the second previous point &quot;Hangout with, and learn from, people smarter than yourself&quot;. You can&#x27;t have people smarter than yourself if you are the only.<p>And it is at odds with all the other points promoting sharing and generosity too. If you are the only, it means you didn&#x27;t share your knowledge.
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perilunar大约 5 年前
&quot;Old men are fond of giving good advice, to console themselves for being no longer in a position to give bad examples.&quot; — La Rochefoucauld
nimbius大约 5 年前
&gt;Don’t be the best. Be the only.<p>Speaking from experience in an automotive repair shop, Thats a great way to make sure you&#x27;re the only guy who does lube jobs and rotor turns, and the most hated guy on the team.<p>Branch out and learn new things. you dont need to be perfect, but if youre just one thing to one shop then you get missed (and replaced) about as quickly as a lug nut.
9wzYQbTYsAIc大约 5 年前
&gt; The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self-negotiation. You no longer expend energy deciding whether to do it.<p>Pure gold.
gdy大约 5 年前
&quot;Friends are better than money. Almost anything money can do, friends can do better. In so many ways a friend with a boat is better than owning a boat.&quot;<p>But if everyone of your friends follows this advice, you&#x27;ll be a bunch of poor people without a boat unable to help each other when a boat is needed.
Err_Eek大约 5 年前
This reminds me a lot of that &quot;wear sunscreen&quot; chain mail<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.m.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Wear_Sunscreen" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.m.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Wear_Sunscreen</a><p>These folksy wisdom thingies, especially from accomplished people, come off as patronizing to me.
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KuriousCat大约 5 年前
Many happy returns of the day, thanks for sharing this.
jmgpeeters大约 5 年前
I was expecting 62 bits of advice in the information theory interpretation. :&#x2F;
yamrzou大约 5 年前
Could someone elaborate on &quot;Being enthusiastic is worth 25 IQ points&quot; ?
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iancmceachern大约 5 年前
Ha, &quot;Never get involved in a land war in Asia&quot;
TopHand大约 5 年前
The mark of a true champion is to come back from behind!
iobug大约 5 年前
Now this, is GOLD
drudru11大约 5 年前
Who wrote this?