TE
科技回声
首页24小时热榜最新最佳问答展示工作
GitHubTwitter
首页

科技回声

基于 Next.js 构建的科技新闻平台,提供全球科技新闻和讨论内容。

GitHubTwitter

首页

首页最新最佳问答展示工作

资源链接

HackerNews API原版 HackerNewsNext.js

© 2025 科技回声. 版权所有。

What It Feels Like to Be Rich

103 点作者 jaltucher大约 14 年前

19 条评论

rauljara大约 14 年前
The piece of insight that I think was missing from the post is this: If you can get to $10 million and still not feel secure, there's something very wrong with the way you are living your life. $10 million, with a 1% annual return on investment will give you an income of $100,000. There are people earning far, far less than that who are doing just fine in terms of security / contentedness. At a certain point, you have to cut back on your idea of how much money your should have. Your income will always be limited by the world you live in, but your idea of how much you should have isn't so firmly held back by reality. If you always feel like you should have more, then you will always feel like you should have more, no matter how many billions you acquire.<p>He almost gets there, but he closes by saying he didn't appreciate money enough. That wasn't the problem. I wonder what stops him from connecting the dots.
评论 #2346899 未加载
评论 #2346748 未加载
评论 #2347313 未加载
dools大约 14 年前
<i>"Everyone has 10 million dollars"</i><p>I got a good idea of what it feels like to be rich by going to a third world country. Even though I'm just barely scraping in at average in Australia, I was seriously freaking loaded by an order of magnitude compared to most people in Ghana and could afford to take the nicest cars (taxis) buy beer regularly and eat at "real" restaurants rather than roadside vendors. I was able to buy 5 or 10 dollar mobile recharge cards whilst most of the population purchased their recharges in 50 cent increments from street vendors.<p>I'm sad to say that my biggest reaction was frustration. Everyone I met was trying to get my money somehow. It seemed like every conversation would turn into some sort of scam opportunity or even just wanting to get my help somehow.<p>I thought "I can't help you people! I'm just normal, I don't have that much money!". It wasn't until I was actually on the plane home that I realised that I'd just experienced being rich. It seems as though it's all relative - that the "rich folks" don't see themselves as rich because when you're rich, you just get bigger expenses.<p>Of course your standard of living improves, but it must be hard to ever feel so rich that you're happy just giving money away to everyone who asks (and I'm sure that you get asked a LOT).
评论 #2347065 未加载
acangiano大约 14 年前
James, in my head I read all your articles in Ted Mosby's voice. On a more serious note, I think that safety, among with freedom, is the number one reason I'd like to increase my income by an order of magnitude. And by safety I mean the safety net that money can provide. It doesn't make you immortal or immune to disease, but it can help in several ways. If you are in any type of legal trouble, you can hire an awesome lawyer who'll increase your chances of remaining free. If you are sick and need a surgery right away, you can go to the States and pay for it, and so on.
评论 #2347209 未加载
评论 #2346639 未加载
评论 #2346694 未加载
joshu大约 14 年前
Another one he forgot: you can use Rich Guy solutions to problems that wouldn't normally be available.<p>Hiring a personal assistant, maid service, hiring people to do work for you directly, having a lawyer on retainer, that sort of thing. (Now I know why rich people are always threatening to sue.) Chartering jets, too.<p>My favorite Rich Guy solution: Throw away all your mismatched socks, buy all identical tube socks from Walmart, and never spend time pairing your socks again. This actually only costs like $30.
评论 #2347240 未加载
评论 #2354738 未加载
chopsueyar大约 14 年前
"What It Feels Like to Have to Read this Drivel"
joshu大约 14 年前
He left out that people will ask you for money all the time.
评论 #2346724 未加载
评论 #2346598 未加载
rradu大约 14 年前
&#62; <i>My feelings of safety and immortality quickly gave way to scarcity. After all, I thought, if I could make 10 million dollars then it must be too easy. In fact, I honestly thought, everyone else had probably already made 11 million dollars. So then I felt poor again. I now needed 100 million dollars to be happy. </i><p>Reminds me of this article - <a href="http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/01/11/why-so-many-rich-people-dont-feel-very-rich/" rel="nofollow">http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/01/11/why-so-many-ric...</a>
freshfunk大约 14 年前
Recently I had a physical with a doctor in the area (bay area) who said he knew the personal doctors of senior management at Google. Apparently, many of them are "hypochondriacs." I guess it makes sense that once you no longer worry about money, you worry about your health obsessively.
joshu大约 14 年前
Another one: It's very hard to resist the urge to spend Way Too Much on something you already liked. Like spending $100k on a Crestron control system for your A/V network if you like gaming and media. Or a Ferrari if you like cars.<p>If you fail to resist, you end up on the hedonic treadmill pretty quickly.<p>(My vice: investing in startups. I guess that's better for the ecosystem, at least.)
16s大约 14 年前
If I were rich, the only thing I would do differently is to tell people what I really think <i>(when asked for an opinion)</i> rather than tell them what I think they want to hear.
评论 #2346689 未加载
dr_大约 14 年前
This from a person who questions climate change and is an advocate of insider trading.
评论 #2347038 未加载
评论 #2346599 未加载
评论 #2346531 未加载
评论 #2346617 未加载
评论 #2346668 未加载
评论 #2346630 未加载
jimboyoungblood大约 14 年前
I can't empathize with anything in this article. Guess I must not be rich.
评论 #2346774 未加载
Gibbon大约 14 年前
This is also relevant: Fears of the Super Rich: <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/04/secret-fears-of-the-super-rich/8419/" rel="nofollow">http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/04/secret-f...</a>
评论 #2347339 未加载
JonnieCache大约 14 年前
<i>My feelings of safety and immortality quickly gave way to scarcity. After all, I thought, if I could make 10 million dollars then it must be too easy. In fact, I honestly thought, everyone else had probably already made 11 million dollars. So then I felt poor again. I now needed 100 million dollars to be happy. I drove in a car with a friend of mine and his wife. I said, “everyone has 10 million dollars now.” She quickly said, “not everyone”.</i><p>If you need to pay someone to explain this shit to you, well... words fail me. Jesus.<p>This is why it's important to leave the ivory tower occasionally guys. Or in some cases, at all.<p>EDIT: In retrospect this is unnecessarily vitriolic. I obviously wish you the best, and I recognise that unhappiness is relative. Those were just my honest first thoughts on reading the article.
BobKabob大约 14 年前
Anybody losing $1M PER WEEK makes you question how the fool and his money got together in the first place.<p>Good to see at least a little justice in this world. I wouldn't wish bad things to happen to anybody, but if it has to happen to someone, well, the guy who is so foolish with his money would be tops on my list.
评论 #2347726 未加载
nazgulnarsil大约 14 年前
I just want enough money that I can sleep when I feel tired. :/
michaelochurch大约 14 年前
What would appeal to me about being rich is unconditional autonomy regarding work: being able to work when I want, on what I choose. In other words, having the right to decide the best use of my talents instead of having it decided "for" (against?) me. Even founders of some small companies I know ended up as clients' bitches and lost autonomy, because they knew a single client could sink them. It's also pretty much impossible to bring your A game if you feel like a subordinate. That doesn't mean you can't be a subordinate in title and have a boss and still do great work, but once a person loses a sense of autonomy, the quality of work goes to zero. When you're rich, you can avoid this situation completely and, as soon as you lose autonomy or the ability to excel, move on.<p>People romanticize the "starving artist" whose work becomes famous after his death, but I'd wager that 4/5 of the people who really moved humanity forward were wealthy people, not because they're any better (they aren't) but because they had the time and autonomy to follow their interests. Sociologically, the most effective people tend to come from the fringes of the elite (cf. Jobs, Gates): people who don't have their life and work clogged up by common burdens (distractions, stress and fear, subordination) but who also aren't in the "golden prison"-- the elite's conservative, status-obsessed core-- which is just as disabling a place to be, for a person wanting to do something good with his life, as reeking poverty.<p>My guess at how I would react if I suddenly became rich is that I'd have an hour of euphoria, then 3 days of anxiety, then 6 months of a "this is nice" celebratory mood, and then spend the rest of my life marginally happier but a lot more productive than I'd otherwise be. What appeals to me most about making lots of money isn't some false promise about being super-happy (that'll wear off) but the thought of actually being able to contribute to this world, and maybe make it better so that when I pass on into whatever comes after this place, I do so with a sense of completion and good karma.
评论 #2347301 未加载
bauderjoshua大约 14 年前
Amazing article I think a lot of people have a misconception of what it means to rich.
评论 #2346465 未加载
chopsueyar大约 14 年前
<i>My friend and I sat there while Shlomo (not his real name, but you get the drift)</i><p>WTF?<p><a href="http://bostonreview.net/BR34.3/malhotra_margalit.php" rel="nofollow">http://bostonreview.net/BR34.3/malhotra_margalit.php</a>