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I deleted my Facebook, WhatsApp, and Instagram accounts, and felt great since

420 点作者 shog_hn将近 5 年前

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ericol将近 5 年前
I lived in Spain for 5 years and then I returned to my country 13 years ago.<p>Some 8 years ago, Facebook was something that I really enjoyed using. I left way too many friends, close friends, and well, lovers behind. Facebook allowed me to have a healthy relationship with them, even if at a distance.<p>I went back to Spain on 2010 for the wedding of a close friend, and it was like I&#x27;ve been out of the country for 2 months instead of 2 years, and that was mostly thanks to Facebook.<p>I can&#x27;t point exactly at the moment when all that went to shit (May be 5, 6 years ago?) but nowadays FB is a constant string of shitty videos from companies trying to stay afloat, shitty videos made by shitty people, fake news by the thousand - and people adhering to the fake news narrative! - and stupid motivational shit of the kind that really demotivates you, people viciously attacking other people for the stupidest reasons...<p>I disabled my account some 3 months ago, and I feel much better without it.<p>Instagram, on the other side, is a different beast. Even with the strong push by FB in order to monetize the network, I think that fact that people can&#x27;t easily share other people&#x27;s post, and are kind of forced to post their own material still makes it an interesting place.<p>As long as instagram does not allow reposting, I think it&#x27;ll maintain a certain degree of quality.<p>I also have disabled my insta account, but I do miss the information from the people I was following there (Mostly, artists and crafstmen of all kinds).
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ImaCake将近 5 年前
Whenever this topic comes up, there are always a lot of comments to the effect of &quot;facebook isn&#x27;t the problem, you are&quot;. Maybe it is best to think of facebook like sugary food. Many people have no trouble having one piece of chocolate and then leaving the rest for later. Many other people are unable to stop themselves from downing the whole 200g block.<p>I think these comments come from people who have no trouble engaging with facebook without any unhealthy habits forming. But there are people who are unable to engage with facebook in a healthy way. I personally struggle with facebook&#x27;s newsfeed and have to put up some serious barriers to ensure I don&#x27;t waste an hour of my day looking at it. Presumably many of the negative comments about how terrible facebook is come from people like me.<p>The first step to helping those who are impacted negatively is to acknowledge that there is a real problem here. The next is to attack the problem with various solutions. Some of them facebook will not like.
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stevage将近 5 年前
Scientifically, it&#x27;s not a robust conclusion. The kind of person who <i>wants</i> to delete FB etc is the kind of person who will feel better after they do it.<p>Personally, I just use FB in a pretty restricted way. I unfollow most friends unless they post stuff I like engaging with. I give FB the bare minimum of my own personal data, and block all the ads they serve. I mostly post questions for discussion, rather than highlights of my life.<p>I don&#x27;t use Insta, although I&#x27;m considering it. Lots of friends have described really fun, healthy little communities they&#x27;re part of. (I still think of Instagram as a photography community, which is how old I am.)<p>I don&#x27;t use WhatsApp by choice, but occasionally it&#x27;s someone else&#x27;s preferred way to communicate. I don&#x27;t have a problem with it.
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ccktlmazeltov将近 5 年前
Recently I went to Milan and remembered that I had a good friend there. I tried to reach out to him on Facebook and it turns out that he had deleted his account. I couldn&#x27;t reach out to him again because I never knew his email, or really had much friends in common. It was pretty sad when I think about it.<p>I&#x27;m happy that with Facebook I can still keep in touch with most of my friends that I made around the world traveling. I end up meeting quite some friends that I haven&#x27;t seen in decades when I travel.<p>I understand that some people are unhappy about the downsides of social networks, and Facebook in particular, but I wish more people would realize the upsides as well.
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anta40将近 5 年前
I still use Facebook, WhatsApp, and Instagram. Why?<p>Facebook: I met lots of elementary&#x2F;junior high school friends many years ago who have been lost contact with more than 2 decades via this platform. Useful, isn&#x27;t it? Remember, it was before 2010. And I don&#x27;t spend much time scrolling on my timeline because I prefer group discussions. Remember that Google had shut down it&#x27;s consumer version of Google Plus.<p>WhatsApp: My de facto messenger app. Many years ago, it was BlackBerry Messenger. Now Whatsapp. I like this app because it&#x27;s essentially just a messenger app without useless stuffs like news, job search etc (yes Line, I&#x27;m looking at you). Telegram is also cool. It&#x27;s open source so you can make your own modified version.<p>Instagram: Ahh Instagram. I don&#x27;t want to sound like an grumpy old man. Do you remember that in 2010 till 2012, it was a &quot;privillege&quot; only iOS users can enjoy? And when they announced Android version, we Android users shouted in joy? I&#x27;m a photography enthusiast so I purposefully post my photos on it. You won&#x27;t find my latest dinner photos or selfies on beautiful beaches there, promise. I also follow the accounts of some famous photographers and photographers hashtags to provide me more visual references.<p>People some also to forget that many many years ago, back in the film era, gaining recognition is harder: you need to build years of reputation, publish your works on magazines, do exhibitions on gallery etc. Now? We have social media. Waaayyy easier. Post your photos and in less than 5 minutes, people in Africa or Alaska can enjoy them. Even any kid can do that.<p>Despite the useless craps, I&#x27;m glad that there are people who still use social medias in a sane way :)
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standardUser将近 5 年前
WhatsApp is a popular communication interface. Giving up WhatsApp is like giving up email or texting or phone calls. In some countries, it&#x27;s a more dominate form of communication than any of those.<p>If you want to give up communicating remotely with humans, OK I guess. Have fun. But giving up one specific interface? That&#x27;s meaningless. It&#x27;s like giving up Sauvignon Blanc but drinking Pinot Grigio everyday.
stickfigure将近 5 年前
&quot;I use Facebook, WhatsApp, and Instagram, and I feel fine!&quot;<p>-- most of the planet, but you&#x27;d never know it by reading HN
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celestialcheese将近 5 年前
It&#x27;s tough for me to get rid of facebook these days, purely because of FB marketplace. It has almost completely eliminated craigslist in my area for a lot of used items and is significantly nicer to buy&#x2F;sell things in your area.<p>I got rid of the timeline by unfollowing _everyone_. Timeline is completely empty. It&#x27;s bliss
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qwerty456127将近 5 年前
Why did you delete WhatsApp? Don&#x27;t you have to text some people occasionally? Or how do you communicate? Do you use Signal, Telegram, E-mail or something instead?<p>BTW I also had to use Facebook once - because everybody at the uni did so its Messenger was the way we texted each other. Now I use Telegram and WhatsApp.<p>I mean Instagram is a pure time&amp;attention wasting tool, Facebook is the same + a messenger (which is an essential thing everybody needs nowadays - that&#x27;s the way we communicate with people who don&#x27;t stand right in front of us at the moment), WhatsApp is a pure messenger, isn&#x27;t it?
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imgabe将近 5 年前
Is there some aspect of WhatsApp that I&#x27;m missing? The way I use it, it is purely a messaging app. No different than text messages really. How does this get lumped in with Facebook and Instagram? (other than being owned by the same company).
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rvz将近 5 年前
Very insightful blogpost and good for the author. It shows its possible to get away from Facebook&#x27;s social network drug store which they purposefully make it hard for you to quit or delete your profile(s). With Facebook, there&#x27;s no such thing as &#x27;privacy&#x27; and &#x27;account deletion&#x27;.<p>I hope that everyone else isn&#x27;t addicted to another drug that is called &#x27;Twitter&#x27; which one of its side-effects is &#x27;getting the worst out of everyone&#x27; and all sorts of nasty media stories spreading over there.
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kjgkjhfkjf将近 5 年前
Comparing your inside with others&#x27; outsides will make you unhappy. It&#x27;s important to learn not to do that, because it can happen in offline situations too.<p>Deleting Facebook etc. is not the solution; it seems like the author threw out the baby with the bathwater here.
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artifact_44将近 5 年前
I too have felt the benefit of complete social isolation.
deviation将近 5 年前
I&#x27;m getting quite sick of reading these blanket templated &quot;I stopped using X and I feel great!&quot; blog posts.<p>Don&#x27;t get me wrong, having more freedoms is an extraordinary thing. But everything has a valid use-case, including Facebook. Blanket deleting social media at this point just feels like a cheap-shot to get clicks and overshadows the more realistic benefits such as reconnecting with old friends, talking to tech illiterate family members, etc.
fit2rule将近 5 年前
I treat my FB and other accounts just like any other inbox.<p>And that&#x27;s the rub: all of these things can be replaced with email.<p>Email - plain old text - can carry just as much info as all the web things, to my eyes - and, doesn&#x27;t allow for much emerald-king manipulation behind the mirrors and smoke, either.<p>If only my friends and family all understood how to <i>use</i> email properly, in the first place.<p>Because this writing skill has been supplanted by software-usage skills. Why learn to top&#x2F;quote&#x2F;bottom, or properly cite text, or contract a useful file-archive and include URL&#x27;s .. when this &#x27;is what the computer is for&#x27; ..<p>Seriously though, I could radically reduce my social sphere down to the people I know can handle email etiquette and methodology well enough, and I won&#x27;t need any other third-party service. Even my pizza guy can handle an email.<p>However, literacy being what it is, people don&#x27;t have time or motivation to become proficient in email, as a tool. Its far easier just to swipe and touch things to share information, apparently .. perhaps the time has come for me to finally write an email client, hmm ..
johannes1234321将近 5 年前
I got off Facebook 1.5 years ago as well. Removed my special Facebook browser I used (removed the app long ago) and at first it was weird as I was used to hitting it, whenever I had a few minutes of nothing. But after a week or so it felt great. Less screen time, less mental burden from seeing &quot;stupid&quot; posts, less useless discussions, ...<p>Couldn&#x27;t get of WhatsApp, yet, as it&#x27;s too often the default for friends and family.
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onyva将近 5 年前
Removing Facebook from my life was the best thing I’ve ever done and I don’t feel I miss anything. Also, will never use any app or service that requires a social account.<p>Facebook was very easy to get reed of in fact. IG I was hesitant, since I like photography. It was obvious though quickly after it was bought that it had quickly become a narcissistic sewage and nothing to do with photography.
amanzi将近 5 年前
I&#x27;m in a similar boat to the author and have also recently deleted my Facebook and Instagram account - although I&#x27;ll note that the sneaky &quot;to be deleted&quot; state is now 30 days instead of just 7.<p>But, similar to the author, I&#x27;m having more difficulty getting rid of WhatsApp. This is my primary means of communicating with friends and family all over the world. And for some of them I know it&#x27;s just not an option to try get them to switch to another platform, especially since I&#x27;m not sure which is the better platform. In my opinion, WhatsApp strikes the perfect balance of security and usability. Telegram makes me nervous due to the Russian roots and the numerous security concerns I&#x27;ve read online. Signal is overly secure to the point that usability for regular folk suffers (I&#x27;ve personally had terrible experience with their support after losing a bunch of SMS messages.) Matrix, Riot, MatterMost, and many other opensource apps all look good but not overly user-friendly for novices.<p>What else is there?
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forgotmypw17将近 5 年前
I deleted them, but eventually I made new accounts. Sometimes I just really need to get in touch with someone via Facebook or Instagram, though not many WhatsApp users in my sphere.<p>I hardly ever use them, but sometimes it comes in handy.<p>For example, at least twice I found someone&#x27;s wallet or ID and was able to contact them quickly using Facebook, because their name was the same.
kayman将近 5 年前
I&#x27;ve been off Facebook for many years now. I deleted my account when I found myself typing &quot;f&quot; into my browser. Facebook dropdown, select and lose time scrolling feeds.<p>I never got into instagram. As an american expat I find whatsapp convenient to contact my family overseas using their day-to-day telephone.
brnt将近 5 年前
I never made a Facebook account. These problems seemed quite apparent to me from the get go. Fundamentally, handing over control to your data and connections just seemed like a bad idea with tons of potential for misuse, even if it was well intentioned.<p>Anybody else never really joined social media?
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ipiz0618将近 5 年前
I understand the motivations behind deleting Facebook and Instagram, but switching messaging platforms is really not as easy as how the article made it look like.<p>When most people in your circle are on WhatsApp, you&#x27;re tied to it as well. Sometimes even your bosses and colleagues need to reach you with that. Also if you just delete the account for Telegram there&#x27;s less motivation for friends to reach you to just catch up because they don&#x27;t use Telegram. Sure your best friends and family will reach you through whatever platform but that&#x27;s about it. You lose friends. Some are ok with that but others should be aware of what switching messaging platforms costs.
JoeMayoBot将近 5 年前
Good for OP - I hope more people will do that. There used to be a saying on the Internet, &quot;Don&#x27;t feed the trolls&quot;, but FB is breathing life into the very worst edges of the human experience imaginable. I hope that enough people leave the service that this activity will end (or at least diminish). I tried to delete FB a while ago. However, I still need an account for professional reasons, so had to open a new one. This time, I blocked all requests from people to avoid the negativity in my stream. Instead it&#x27;s only groups and page traffic that I need to see and that&#x27;s worked out pretty well.
bobsyouruncle11将近 5 年前
Great summary of Facebook newsfeed, loved it! I&#x27;ve also deleted facebook and instagram over a year ago and don&#x27;t miss them at all. I do keep use WhatsApp though as there aren&#x27;t that many people using Signal yet. I&#x27;m wondering, how many people contacted you on Telegram once you messaged them you&#x27;re deleting WhatsApp. Did anyone make the switch? Or did they find any other means of communication with you - text messaged, emails, etc. I&#x27;m wondering how many people I&#x27;ll stop interacting with if I delete whatsapp.
haunter将近 5 年前
I only have Facebook (Messenger) because my larger family use it for instant messaging but we are willing to move on.<p>What&#x27;s a good alternative that has a web client at least when you are on desktop + you can video call too?
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hellofunk将近 5 年前
I deleted my Facebook account several months ago, I did not merely deactivate it, I did a full deletion. Then about one month ago I got a notification for a Facebook group. I wonder how that works? Either Facebook groups can somehow contact you based on an email address rather than an existing profile, or some other weird shenanigans are going on that reflect the account was never actually deleted and some bug somewhere managed to still get a notification to me.
BrandoElFollito将近 5 年前
One evening, I deleted my Reddit account when I realized I was angry responding to some insignificant comment.<p>I also realized that the hundred thousands points I had mean exactly nothing.<p>It was a relief beyond what I expected.<p>I created a new account for the only sake to ask questions on the tech subreds which are of interest. I do not read r&#x2F;all and other similar trash subreds
AnonC将近 5 年前
Also stop (or reduce) following the news and online aggregators of news (like reddit, HN, etc.). You&#x27;ll feel even better and freer.
a_imho将近 5 年前
Deleting an account is giving up control over that. Keep the account just never log in. Better yet, add a few GBs of noise.
corycollier将近 5 年前
I did the same thing a couple of weeks ago. Social media platforms have turned into a disease.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.corycollier.com&#x2F;2020&#x2F;06&#x2F;10&#x2F;why-i-removed-my-social-media-apps&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.corycollier.com&#x2F;2020&#x2F;06&#x2F;10&#x2F;why-i-removed-my-soci...</a>
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inDigiNeous将近 5 年前
I only use facebook these days by systemically unfollowing all my friends. And I mean all, I don&#x27;t follow anyone. The experience is much better this way, I can sometimes check what my friends have posted, and I am not forced to see all the crap.<p>I unfollow most pages also. Can recommend testing this method out.
davesque将近 5 年前
I still have a FB account strictly to do messaging with a certain group of friends. I would feel great about browsing FB too if it didn&#x27;t feel so much like I was contributing to the downfall of modern society.
anukriti将近 5 年前
Try using Signal side by side with telegram. Telegram has more features but it works the same way as whatsapp. On the other hand signal is trying its best to provide privacy which whatsapp and telegram never do
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chiefalchemist将近 5 年前
My routine includes what I call Facebookless Friday. That is, no FB from Thur pm to Sat am. It&#x27;s liberating.<p>I&#x27;m in the process of adding a day on each end. Or perhaps going *less Mon, Wed and Fri.
nso95将近 5 年前
Unfollowing all news sources on Facebook has improved the experience for me. I would see an article, and before long be reading comments from white supremacists and&#x2F;or SJWs.
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TwoBit将近 5 年前
The logic for deleting WhatsApp pretty weak and undermines the argument here, especially given the fairly strong encryption WhatsApp uses.
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mister_hn将近 5 年前
it all depends on how do you maintain relations.<p>Living abroad, having a few friends and contact locally but a lot of connections non easily reachable physically makes the shutdown of FB, WA or IG hard, especially when most of your contacts uses ONLY the aforementioned platforms and nothing else.<p>That means killing your connections and cut bridges with people.
peterburkimsher将近 5 年前
I have accounts on many platforms, including those 3. If you feel like you can&#x27;t give something up, that&#x27;s a good reason to spend a few weeks breaking the addiction.<p>When I did that for BBC News and 9gag, I decided that I didn&#x27;t want to go back to reading those sites (although I do click through sometimes from HN).<p>I still use Facebook messages through mbasic.facebook.com on an old phone. I don&#x27;t use 3G (or 4G or 5G), but read books on my phone or offline Wikipedia when on the bus. The news feed never interested me; it was all about having contact Lists, organising Events, and discussing topics in common-interest Groups.<p>WhatsApp won&#x27;t work on my old iOS 6, so I use it on Bluestacks and check it only when needed. The group chats on there would drive me crazy if they actually made notifications on my phone. Instagram seems to be full of pretty girls and memes, which I guess isn&#x27;t that different to 9gag in some ways.<p>Instead of complaining about data being sold, why don&#x27;t we try to build a better social network? CouchSurfing put up a paywall. The community is moving en-masse to BeWelcome, a donation-funded, volunteer-driven, open-source, ad-free platform.<p>The BeWelcome site is managed under a French non-profit, BeVolunteer: the same structure as Wikipedia and Wikimedia. I think that other projects could be part of the same organisation. Why stop at hospitality exchange? I think that if BeWelcome can get critical mass, a related site could then break into mainstream social networking.
davidandgoliath将近 5 年前
Felt great, yet still needs to post publicly on 3rd party sites to attract attention: Sure thing.
gigatexal将近 5 年前
I did the same and have never felt better. I just replaced the addiction with twitter. Oh well
thenoblesunfish将近 5 年前
WhatsApp is indeed a sticky one, but I manage to replace it with Signal.
usr1106将近 5 年前
I never had WhatsApp or Instagram. I have Facebook for historical reasons that I searched a job more than a decode ago when Facebook was a thing. I have not logged in since January, so for some 5 months now. I think my record is 9 months without logging in.
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jonnypotty将近 5 年前
Enjoy your honeymoon
m0xte将近 5 年前
I never had any of them and feel great! No LinkedIn either!
ece将近 5 年前
Same.
Markoff将近 5 年前
aka How I become hermit<p>good luck deleting Whatsapp (and Messenger) in Europe, you essentialy cut yourself from most of the communication<p>also replacing Whatsapp with E2E Signal encryption by default with unsafe Telegram with no encryption by default and even optional with questionable quality doesn&#x27;t seem like very clever choice, I would have expected switch to Signal, Riot etc. instead notgoriously unsafe service, which doesn&#x27;t even provide videocalls
diego_moita将近 5 年前
&gt; Telegram is by far a superior product to WhatsApp.<p>For one simple reason: bots.<p>One of my Raspberry Pi projects is a bot to delete from the family group any post containing the name of politicians. This wiped out political flame-wars and fake news.<p>It is very easy to make Telegram bots. You basically create a website, register it in a dynamic dns, add an ssh certificate (letsencrypt or your own) and add it to your group.
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okareaman将近 5 年前
I don&#x27;t understand these naive do gooders who want everyone to delete their social media. &quot;I did it and I feel better!&quot; Really, how much more self-centered can you get?<p>I&#x27;m a retiree. My kids and family are scattered. Social media is an important part of maintaining family cohesion and my role in the family. I&#x27;ve reconnected with old friends that I otherwise would have lost forever. Deleting social media would impoverish my life and drastically increase my loneliness and isolation.<p>Do gooders: give it a rest.
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arminiusreturns将近 5 年前
One word of warning about this approach: it becomes one in a set of red flags about you if you are ever being investigated by any entity at the national level. Not having a facebook is viewed as an outlier, and hence will contribute to some unknown weight of your other red flags that once triggered will put you into national security letter, warrant-less wiretap type areas. Beyond that, facebook retains shadow profiles on people even if they don&#x27;t have accounts, or have deleted their accounts...<p>...so my suggestion is to keep the account but start clearing the data out and poisoning it. Be especially careful about the IP&#x27;s you log into it from (and randomize that MAC!).
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