I have a 10 months old daughter and it's getting tougher than ever. We are living outside of "grandmas" location, so we're definitely struggling with focusing on something else than our baby. I took some holidays now, but it seems that the most I can do is relax from taking care of the baby.<p>Do you know any good books on that matter?
If you find something that actually helps, let me know.<p>My life consists of working fulltime, then watching the kid while my wife goes to work in the evenings and on the weekends. I also have to find time to shop, cook, bake, do mechanic work, handyman work, yard work, grow the garden, run a small apiary-centric business, and so some of the cleaning/laundry/etc.
The Baby Whisperer is the only book I remember reading (part of at least.) The writing style is a bit much but there is some generally good advice such as 'crying baby does not mean bad parent'<p>The biggest challenge is getting a decent mental break every day. The other advice I have heard is 'you sleep when the baby sleeps' which is really hard to follow.
Right now with COVID19 things are a lot different but you can look into babysitters. Usually, babysitters charge less if you are at home with them. On many babysitting apps, they call it "Mommy's helpers." This may let you work on your projects, and you can step in if baby needs something that helpers cannot handle.