I am glad that gender dynamics is finally being explored by mainstream readers. Men seem to have the onus on them to try and understand courting women-- What women look for, how to please them. The reverse does not seem to be true, at least in my experience.<p>Women don't seem interested in figuring out how to court men's commitment (probably because they assume they don't have to). Unfortunately for women though, it seems men are less and less interested in marriage these days. Probably due to the unbalanced legally binding financial consequences for men, despite supposed "equality".<p>Perhaps we'll see a redistribution of interest on the part of women, in trying to develop themselves into desirable partners, the way men are forced to. For example, men have to obtain resources and use the resources to purchase status signals. In the future, if the trend continues, women may have to demonstrate wifely & motherly skills in order to attract the top echelon men they want.