"Everyone knows one of those self righteous Facebook abstainers."<p>Yep, I see him every morning when I shave.<p>"Except really, these people aren't defending anything except antisocial, extremely annoying behavior. And if you're one of them, you need to stop."<p>Who am I annoying? I have about one friend who posts stuff on Facebook, and whose information I might care to see. Sorry, PK.<p>"Facebook is the most important way we touch our friends online, period."<p>For some value of "we".<p>"Birthdays, parties, Passover seders, graduations--they're all organized on Facebook."<p>They all can be organized on Facebook. (Though "birthdays"--are we organizing a birth?) Also on 3x5 index cards, with telephone calls, or by runner.<p>No doubt, in many respects I should get over myself. But this fellow isn't the one to tell me.