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I recently turned 33. What's your best advice for a 33 yr old?

18 点作者 arey_abhishek超过 4 年前
I loved responses to a twitter thread where a 22 yr old asked for advice and thought I'm better off asking for advice on HN.

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AnimalMuppet超过 4 年前
You&#x27;re 33. That means, unless you strike it rich, you&#x27;ve got 35 more years to work, plus or minus a few. Plan on migrating from what you do now up the food chain to harder things - things that pay better, and where you&#x27;re harder to replace.<p>In the end, people matter more than technology. Get better at relating to people, communicating with them, being <i>human</i> with them. You need human connections. As the world becomes more and more impersonal in interactions, find ways to connect with people.<p>If you&#x27;re not married, people your age often start feeling like they need to. Choose <i>very</i> carefully. The consequences of a bad choice are horrible; the consequences of a good one are spectacular.<p>If you have kids, or are about to, they&#x27;re going to take a lot of your time, energy, and mental bandwidth. Don&#x27;t give it grudgingly. <i>Love</i> them, don&#x27;t just <i>tolerate</i> them. Be the parent you wish your parents had been.
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jgrahamc超过 4 年前
Get fit or if you are... stay fit. You&#x27;re not 22 any more.
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xupybd超过 4 年前
If you&#x27;re parents are still around don&#x27;t take them for granted. You are in a busy stage of life but your parents are nearing the age that health can fail.
mattalbie超过 4 年前
33 is a great age to have a kid (if you want them, and if you&#x27;re in a position to do so). I had to wait (long story) until 37 and there&#x27;s part of me that regrets it a little bit. There&#x27;s a real benefit that comes from upending your whole life (there are, of course, other ways to do this) and having your priorities radically realigned (obviously, though, not for everyone).<p>If you have money to put away, get a financial planner and start saving money. The end of your career is coming up sooner than you think.<p>Take care of your body. In my late 30s I started to notice little things with my joints, muscles, etc. that made me think &quot;oh, I guess I&#x27;m getting old now&quot;.<p>More generally, if you&#x27;re not on the path you want to be on, change it. Over the last few years I&#x27;d had a strange feeling come over me: &quot;Whatever person I want to become, if I don&#x27;t become them in the next few years then I never will.&quot; Which, if the thought hadn&#x27;t arrived uninvited into my mind I don&#x27;t know I would have ever agreed with. The simpler version is &quot;When are you going to become the person you want to be?&quot; (or, &quot;get right with yourself&quot;). I hope the answer isn&#x27;t &quot;in my 50s or 60s&quot;.<p>Read more books, spend less time on computers&#x2F;internet&#x2F;TV.
mig4ng超过 4 年前
Avoid getting crucified
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cheese_van超过 4 年前
See a dentist regularly. Even if you&#x27;re fit and wealthy, bad teeth will make you miserable.
therm0超过 4 年前
save more money, work on your skill set, and mind your health a little better than you did in your 20s.<p>other than that, just do the things you want to do. yeah maybe some doors have closed on your athletic abilities but besides that there&#x27;s no sense in doing Y thing you&#x27;re not interested in just because you&#x27;re X years old and other X year olds are doing Y thing.
p0d超过 4 年前
Get married. 30s is about bettering yourself. 40s being cynical. 50s, realising life is about more than money.
brauhaus超过 4 年前
Brace yourself for 34
logicslave超过 4 年前
Put all of your money into the stock market and never sell